I came out!
- Thread starter Spekpup
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The_Hound_OT_Zoovilles
Tourist
Damn it, why does no one ever come out to me?
WhaleSong
Zooville Settler
Hey, Spekpup. First of all, I'm very happy for you.
Interesting. One of the reasons I pretty much gave up on ever finding a boyfriend was because I thought I'd never be able to tell anyone (other than people in places like ZooVille) about my interest in sex with animals, at the same time I knew that's I'd never be able to keep such a big part of my life hidden from someone I was in a relationship with, so I just figured I was destined to be alone.
Years ago I saw a movie called Sleeping Dogs Lie (written and directed by Bobcat Goldthwait) about a woman who confesses to her fiance that she once performed oral sex on her dog, just out of curiosity. It was just a one time thing that had happened years ago, but he couldn't handle it, and it ultimately destroyed their relationship. (Plus her brother overheard her and told the rest of the family about it causing all kinds of drama.) The moral of the story was that you don't need to be completely open and honest with your significant other, that it's OK to keep some secrets, and there are some things (like animal sex) that you shouldn't admit to anyone because doing so would most likely destroy the relationship and possible have bigger consequences. People with such secrets should keep it to themselves and just "let sleeping dogs lie."
That might be good advice for someone who had an experience or two in their past but is not part of their current life. But for me it's not a "sleeping dog," it's a dog that's very much awake, active, and seeking my attention, and there's no way I could share my life with someone while pretending that the dog didn't exist, if you can follow the metaphor.
I don't mean to make this about me. I guess what I'm saying is that I think you did the right thing, under the circumstances and I'm very glad it worked out for you. It also gives me a small glimmer of hope that maybe, just maybe, I could someday find a guy who would accept me as I am.
Best wishes to you and your boyfriend.
Interesting. One of the reasons I pretty much gave up on ever finding a boyfriend was because I thought I'd never be able to tell anyone (other than people in places like ZooVille) about my interest in sex with animals, at the same time I knew that's I'd never be able to keep such a big part of my life hidden from someone I was in a relationship with, so I just figured I was destined to be alone.
Years ago I saw a movie called Sleeping Dogs Lie (written and directed by Bobcat Goldthwait) about a woman who confesses to her fiance that she once performed oral sex on her dog, just out of curiosity. It was just a one time thing that had happened years ago, but he couldn't handle it, and it ultimately destroyed their relationship. (Plus her brother overheard her and told the rest of the family about it causing all kinds of drama.) The moral of the story was that you don't need to be completely open and honest with your significant other, that it's OK to keep some secrets, and there are some things (like animal sex) that you shouldn't admit to anyone because doing so would most likely destroy the relationship and possible have bigger consequences. People with such secrets should keep it to themselves and just "let sleeping dogs lie."
That might be good advice for someone who had an experience or two in their past but is not part of their current life. But for me it's not a "sleeping dog," it's a dog that's very much awake, active, and seeking my attention, and there's no way I could share my life with someone while pretending that the dog didn't exist, if you can follow the metaphor.
I don't mean to make this about me. I guess what I'm saying is that I think you did the right thing, under the circumstances and I'm very glad it worked out for you. It also gives me a small glimmer of hope that maybe, just maybe, I could someday find a guy who would accept me as I am.
Best wishes to you and your boyfriend.
Slutforanimals
Tourist
Glad to hear it went well~
Me and my partner were sending eachother furry porn a long time ago, then I sent a feral furry pic (basically zoo) and we made comments about it. Then he asked me "are you also into that kind of feral?" and I sent him a smirk emoji. He sent a smirk back. We then both knew we were zoos
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Me and my partner were sending eachother furry porn a long time ago, then I sent a feral furry pic (basically zoo) and we made comments about it. Then he asked me "are you also into that kind of feral?" and I sent him a smirk emoji. He sent a smirk back. We then both knew we were zoos
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Ol’Son9118
Tourist
I did the same thing last week with my wife. So happy for you?feels good to doesn’t it?
What-there-once-was
Tourist
I can't begin to tell you how happy I am for you! (and you too Ol'son9118 of course) I hope that one day I will be lucky enough to have a relationship as good as you and your BF have.
Congratulations on living the dream,!
Congratulations on living the dream,!
SquishyWolfy22
Tourist
Yaaaa
puppyboy88
Zooville Settler
I came out to mine few months back. Liberating to say the least. Congrats to you 2. Hope he treats you right. Zoo partners are hard to find.
K9lovingmale45
Tourist
Very Brave glad it worked out Congratulations
K9lovingmale45
Tourist
I'm watching sleeping dogs lie lol
Tallywhackee
Tourist
Im so happy for you, i dream of the day I can meet a partner who I can open up to about this
I hope it's not irreparable...
Sohappy69
Tourist
We’re getting divorce. But not for that reason alone other shit too but it was added ammunition that led to not wanting to try and work things out. Looking back I’m glad my life style and goals are not the same as hers in the end she may have found out anyhow. So hard to find a partner who feels the same Way about this lifestyle.
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SyzygySin
Tourist
Assuming I got married again (which is unlikely), it would not be "anyway" but "because" for me. It would have to be someone else who was equally interested. The woman I'm seeing at the moment knows, but while she's fine with my interest, she doesn't share it.
Actualcarma
Lurker
Good on you! Congrats!
francischarneau
Lurker
nice. cant have ben easy for you
Knot4bitchboi
Tourist
Glad it went well and hope it still is for you *hugs*