I came out to my boyfriend

[dartel]

All you people realize that the OP hasn't even been online since posting this, which are right after creating the account? Either "she" isn't looking for support and just wanted to vent, or more likely was a pathetic attempt at trolling that didn't even feel like following up on it.

 

[Schutzhund1956]

I came out to my boyfriend today and he dumped me. He said I was sick and disgusting for having sexual thoughts about dogs. I'm feeling so bad. I just found this website and wanted to talk to other people like myself. I guess I'm just feeling like a freak.

Forget him, there are so many other men who are into this who would welcome you with open arms. Don’t waste your time on ignorant and intolerant people.

 

[The_Hound_OT_Zoovilles]

All you people realize that the OP hasn't even been online since posting this, which are right after creating the account? Either "she" isn't looking for support and just wanted to vent, or more likely was a pathetic attempt at trolling that didn't even feel like following up on it.

Refer to my first post in the thread

 

[KnotCrazy]

I am glad you found the community! We are here for each other, especially in times like this. I honestly commend you for taking the risk in revealing such an intimate part of your life! If you were secure enough to let someone know what really makes you yourself they must have been very special to you. If they cannot see what a rare and beautiful gift you gave them with your confession was, fuck'em. Welcome to the forum and don't let anyone tell you you're anything but an amazing unique individual.

 

[CoffeeDraggy]

I came out to my boyfriend today and he dumped me. He said I was sick and disgusting for having sexual thoughts about dogs. I'm feeling so bad. I just found this website and wanted to talk to other people like myself. I guess I'm just feeling like a freak.

Actually i'm in kind of in the same. My bf knows i love zoo, and said if he ever found out i did it IRl, he dumps me instantly. (Never did it,but because no options for it.) So i'm still in a "Prison" in a way.

 

[Rickm]

I came out to my boyfriend today and he dumped me. He said I was sick and disgusting for having sexual thoughts about dogs. I'm feeling so bad. I just found this website and wanted to talk to other people like myself. I guess I'm just feeling like a freak.

Marry me ..

 

[ZooeyZeta]

@CoffeeDraggy Would he dump you because he thinks it's disgusting or he thinks you'd be cheating if you engaged in bestiality?

 

[CoffeeDraggy]

@CoffeeDraggy Would he dump you because he thinks it's disgusting or he thinks you'd be cheating if you engaged in bestiality?

The basic "knowledge" (bs ofc) that you only can rape animals, they dont like it any way. It's not true. You CAN do it both ways. I could never hurt them just for my pleasure.

 

[ZooeyZeta]

To be honest I didn't make the conscious connection between this post and your intro thread where I noticed you said he was pretty anti-zoo up until now, I didn't know I commented on the same person on the same thing twice ? Good to know some more info on your BF's views though. Have you tried educating him on the topic? Sharing resources that prove him wrong? Though I do know people who are disgusted by it (the majority of the population) tend to be pretty denialist and closed minded and you said in the other thread he was very anti zoo so I don't blame you if you couldn't convince him if you've tried ?

 

[420Fatty]

I came out to my boyfriend today and he dumped me. He said I was sick and disgusting for having sexual thoughts about dogs. I'm feeling so bad. I just found this website and wanted to talk to other people like myself. I guess I'm just feeling like a freak.

Sorry to hear that, Good news is you're not a freak, Sex with animals has been an aspect of humanity forever and now the potential is wide open to find someone who is into it as much as you are. There's 7 billion people, I'm pretty confident you'll find someone.

 

[CoffeeDraggy]

To be honest I didn't make the conscious connection between this post and your intro thread where I noticed you said he was pretty anti-zoo up until now, I didn't know I commented on the same person on the same thing twice ? Good to know some more info on your BF's views though. Have you tried educating him on the topic? Sharing resources that prove him wrong? Though I do know people who are disgusted by it (the majority of the population) tend to be pretty denialist and closed minded and you said in the other thread he was very anti zoo so I don't blame you if you couldn't convince him if you've tried ?

If this was for me, then nope, he is VERY against this. I tried to bring it up, and he instantly was like, you gonna get jail and mental institute, and stuff... So no way he is getting okay, maybe with years? Probably not.

 

[ZooeyZeta]

Depending on where you live, you might get jailed/put in a mental hospital if you actually engage in bestiality. I'm sure there's places that if you are outed/out yourself as a zoo something along the same lines might occur just as a "precaution", but he needs to know that's a problem with society and the way it views sex with animals, not that there's anything morally wrong with it.

 

[Tbtrainer]

If he truly cared for you, he would try to understand. At least give you the benefit of the doubt and then if it didn't work out, fine. He shouldn't have dropped you like that. I hope that you find someone who truly cares.

 

[Knotytoday]

So sorry to hear that. Id love to find a girl in this lifestyle. Your not a freak...just freaky!! A def good thing!!!!!!! Wanna go out

 

[K9_Slut]

If this was for me, then nope, he is VERY against this. I tried to bring it up, and he instantly was like, you gonna get jail and mental institute, and stuff... So no way he is getting okay, maybe with years? Probably not.

Well, take inititive and dump him Its your life, so live it!

 

[Lovedog80]

Luckly my gf is okay with me loving this lol
I just want for a dog to knot her or to see it irl

 

[JazzyJerk]

Why do people keep responding to this thread? The OP was here one time, more than three weeks ago, and hasn't been here since.

 

[Pillar]

Why do people keep responding to this thread? The OP was here one time, more than three weeks ago, and hasn't been here since.

They either aren't paying attention or aren't reading the thread.

 

[beastman1970]

I came out to my boyfriend today and he dumped me. He said I was sick and disgusting for having sexual thoughts about dogs. I'm feeling so bad. I just found this website and wanted to talk to other people like myself. I guess I'm just feeling like a freak.

Someday he will kick his ass .

 

[saddlebum66]

I think Im gonna start marking these off on my calendar....we seem to be getting more every month.....between the Pandemic, The approaching Holidays, lockdowns and boredom...did they all lose their minds at once.......or did We?

 

[KurodaMiharu]

Love can feel weird sometimes, but true love should never be judged. It is beautiful and should be celebrated. I feel like people and therefore the world would be better off if humans would let go of hate and love and embrace one another, and our animal friends, wholly and fully. Including making love of course. The hippies had it right in that regard, as cliché and fantastical as it sounds. I have yet to find the one out there for me. Perhaps I haven't been looking in the right place. My soul mate could be a dog or a horse instead of a human person. Maybe inter-species love will be legalized one day. I think if enough people could rally behind the cause and put as much effort behind it as the fight for LGBT rights was, it could happen. I think it will be easier to legalize than incest at least, for sure.

As a side, I think that a human-human-animal throuple (three person romantic relationship where the attraction is shared between all involved in equal measure) would be the ideal for me. You get to have your animal lover, but also a human lover who understands you and loves you for you.

 

[Savagehenry]

I would give my left leg below the knee today to have a girl come out to me with that. Hopefully she'd be cool with me being an amputee but whatever about that it's personality that counts

 

[Lokissimo]

You're not a freak! You are just rare with uncommon qualities that he can't appreciate. Consider yourself lucky that you found out now that you can't be your genuine self with this boy. I am in favor of keeping your innermost desires secret from everyone, EXCEPT for the people (or persons) you want to share your life with. I've had girlfriends I shared my secret with, and ones who never knew a thing. I find life is MUCH better when you have a lover you can share your innermost desires with, even if they don't desire the same things. Too many secrets create problems in a relationship....

That said, you have to wait a while to make SURE the next one is worth the truth! My rule of thumb is after six months and before a year... That way, I feel like I know the other person reasonably well, but there's not TOO much invested in case things go sour.

Good luck to you, and don't lose heart! There are plenty of men and women out there who share these desires, even if all of them don't know it yet. You will find the right guy. And the more comfortable you are with who you really are, the more attractive you and your kinks will be!

xoxox

 

[Darkdog86]

I came out to my boyfriend today and he dumped me. He said I was sick and disgusting for having sexual thoughts about dogs. I'm feeling so bad. I just found this website and wanted to talk to other people like myself. I guess I'm just feeling like a freak.

Hello, and welcome... you are among friends here,?
And, since no two people are the same...in that sense, we humans are all freaks. At least here, we can "let our freak-flags fly"! ?

 

[Doggyluv]

I came out to my boyfriend today and he dumped me. He said I was sick and disgusting for having sexual thoughts about dogs. I'm feeling so bad. I just found this website and wanted to talk to other people like myself. I guess I'm just feeling like a freak.

most people suck....feel free to message me if you would like to talk, im on here alot lately and plan to be from here on out.
btw welcome to the the community, there are alot of helpful posts, experiences, info and awesome supporting members here.

 

[skeetchan]

I came out to my boyfriend today and he dumped me. He said I was sick and disgusting for having sexual thoughts about dogs. I'm feeling so bad. I just found this website and wanted to talk to other people like myself. I guess I'm just feeling like a freak.

I came out to mine recently- he said there isn't really any harm in it and we both agreed that any instance where an animal is forced or getting hurt is different.
I've never tried, (gotten close) but it isn't something I'd say no to if the situation came up.
He said if I did anything he'd rather "not know about it," and when I pressed a bit further he said he would see it as cheating, since it's sex with a sentient being.

Relationships are complicated, but it isn't impossible to find someone who, if they don't encourage, will at least accept who you are. Keep your chin up. You'll find slmeone.

 

[Rothund]

I came out to my boyfriend today and he dumped me. He said I was sick and disgusting for having sexual thoughts about dogs. I'm feeling so bad. I just found this website and wanted to talk to other people like myself. I guess I'm just feeling like a freak.

I like freeks, go out with me instead

To people like me, and others, your fetish makes you amazing and rare!

 

[PleasureBear]

for sure. Even if he wasn't into it he could at least be tolerant enough to stay with you and let you have your fantasy.
at least I would. I let my gf have her way with my female best friend because she found her hot and I went for cigarettes while they were at it.
yes, sadly wasn't allowed to join

 

[ChestnutDane]

H and welcome.....there is nothing 'wrong' with you, to my mind you very 'right'! Your with friends and like minded people here so dont feel bad. Relax, you are very beautifully normal, just a pity your X didnt go for our brand of normal. I'm sorry.

 

[Alpha Cat]

You're not a "freak"; never call yourself that. So your ex is not into it, that is his loss. As far as him leaving, well, he did what was best for him. If our lifestyle does not agree with his own conscience and his personal view on reality then it is more than likely that being around you and your animalistic needs would have taken a toll on him. He could have ended up calling the cops. I think the fact that he walked away was more than enough proof that he cared. Trust me, we have had members on here whose partners reported them to the authorities.

You will find someone who shares your animal magnetism and will embrace it. One day, you will look back and realize that it all worked out for the best.