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How many people you have had sex with?

I should make up a number because saying you don't know automatically makes people think it must be a lot. lol

Of course, if men have a high number, they must be studs, and the opposite is true for women; if they do, then they are a slut. :rolleyes:

I happen to love sluts so I could care less because the sex is better. Of course, if they are cheating on you, then that's a different story...
 
I managed to recount conservatively 150. But it's been more. I've been a swinger for years but that number has come down in Asia. Not as big or open of a swing/swap scene
 
7 total , all females, i had an honest faithful 25 year kinky relationship which consumed a lot of my life.
My sexual preferences in life does not make it easy for one night stands, and im not a fan of finger them, fuck them, forget them type of sex. I just don't see that as enjoyable sex, i have had two one night stands out of that count of 7, but you really cant get the best sexual experience from a partner with such little time to compare sexual compatibilities and kinks, also your not going to open up fully to someone you dont know, trust and know you wont see them again. So it tends to be rather vanilla in my experience.
An arrangement, dynamic or relationship i find you have the time to vet each other properly, discuss each others kinks and sexual compatibility, limits and boundaries, that opens the door to more meaningful, trusting and exploratory sexual engagement which is far more fulfilling in my opinion.
Plus a whole lot less likely that il end up in court..
 
aliccia said:
Yeah, i wondered how so many people managed to keep their number so low. I know im 52, so it may be a huge factor but mine is definitely triple-digit and i lost count in the last century:)
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It's a difference in priority, and the need of some ppl for a connection. Also, alot of people are very bad with numbers. The dudes who say "I dunno, lost count, 800ish" have no grasp on the concept of numbers. They probably stopped counting at 10 ,than fucked two chicks a month, and 3 years later they conclude it must be 800ish.

For me, sex has a relatively low priority, it's fun, but I don't put mutch recourses, time and effort into finding opportunities.

Also, I can't just fuck random people. The only type of "meaningless sex" I can have is friends with benifits type of sex. And I only have two of that arrangements, one is married, so that's on hold, the other is super shy.

Thats why even tho I in my mid thirtys, I barely fucked 10 different people in my life, and I highly doubt I'll go over 20 in my lifetime.

Also, living location is a big factor.
I life in a very thinly populated part of my country. I just for fun opens a dating app, and count the profiles, that show up in a 100km radius, and a +/- 10 year age difference.
It's 37 woman. So even if I fucked every available woman on that app in a 100km radius, iam not even 5% there, if I wanna match 800 fuck trophy's.

There are 4 times more people cramped together in new york than in my whole state.
 
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