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How many of you are in non zoo relationships?

My wife has no idea. 20 years ago when we first got together a couple here in Fayetteville North Carolina was arrested for making zoo pornography and she said, “hanging is too good for them” so I have kept in a close secret ever since
 
I'm married to a non-zoo. I keep it a secret from her because I think I'd face some judgement there. I feel like a huge part of me is hidden and probably will be forever. I often wonder what it would have been like had I found a partner who was also into zoo. That's actually a big part of the reason I looked for a community like this. Maybe one day I'll even make some friends near my area.
 
I just got out of a marriage, she wasn't zoo either. I think she had some suspicions I was but never out right accused me. Honestly, being in my late 30's I'm more intrested in finding somebody who accepts my interests then participating in them. While it would be great to find a partner into zoo, I want a satisfying emotional relationship before being able to check off a zoo interest.
 
Lilcreamedkitten said:
I thought it might be a topic worthy of discussion. I personally am in a non zoo relationship and keep everything a secret soo ? I'm sure I can't be the only one lol
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Not meaning to brag, but my girl and I (12 years strong) discovered 6 years ago that both of us were really into it, specifically her being bred.
We had our first experience together at that time, but then the topic disappeared again :-/ I was too shy to bring it up again and I guess she was too, but more understandably for her as she was the one doing the actual deed.

Well! Skip forward to early this year, it came up again! We were drunk or something, and we had gotten a German Shepherd 4-5 years ago AFTER we tried it.
Long story short: our shepherd is a frequent participater now :D

He's really damn big too, might I add.
 
I do casually date. Fun to be around humans sometimes!

I never share my secret. When I date it is for the companionship that my Shepard cannot give me. I think that I balance the two, but when I date someone it can only get so serious because of my secret lifestyle
 
I have a girlfriend, kinda new into it, absolutely terrified to let her know I like girls who are into dogs. Don’t think I’ll ever admit it to her or anyone ???. I mentioned a brief something about beastiality and she made it clear people like me should be hung from a tree so ?……..guess I’ll flip a coin to say something?
 
N-dog69 said:
I'm married to a non-zoo. I keep it a secret from her because I think I'd face some judgement there. I feel like a huge part of me is hidden and probably will be forever. I often wonder what it would have been like had I found a partner who was also into zoo. That's actually a big part of the reason I looked for a community like this. Maybe one day I'll even make some friends near my area.
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I totally understand your situation. I am in that same scenario
 
My wife knows my history. I took a big gamble when I told her. I've shown her a bunch of videos and she was actually pretty curious about the hows and the whys. She doesn't watch anything with dogs, but she doesn't mind me showing her the occasional horse vid.
 
Citizenphaid said:
My wife knows my history. I took a big gamble when I told her. I've shown her a bunch of videos and she was actually pretty curious about the hows and the whys. She doesn't watch anything with dogs, but she doesn't mind me showing her the occasional horse vid.
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That is a nice compromise. I would like to have that
 
AriesAngyl said:
I do casually date. Fun to be around humans sometimes!

I never share my secret. When I date it is for the companionship that my Shepard cannot give me. I think that I balance the two, but when I date someone it can only get so serious because of my secret lifestyle
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As long as you're straightforward about it not getting serious then IMO it's fine.
 
Lilcreamedkitten said:
I thought it might be a topic worthy of discussion. I personally am in a non zoo relationship and keep everything a secret soo ? I'm sure I can't be the only one lol
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I've always wondered what the best way to introduce the concept was. Jokes, or humor, especially ironic humor seems to be the best way to break the ice. But even then, it's tough to figure out if everyone is on the same page. I've had several women confide in me, which I think is pretty crazy and how I even ended up here. But I don't actually know what I did to earn that kind of trust.
 
Lilcreamedkitten said:
I thought it might be a topic worthy of discussion. I personally am in a non zoo relationship and keep everything a secret soo ? I'm sure I can't be the only one lol
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I think, yea, that’s undoubtedly the hardest thing for me. As much as I would like to get on here and pretend that I’m 100% zoo, blah blah, it’s not the day-to-day reality.
 
I've been with my wife for 8 years now, and we've been married for 4 years. My zoo interests have been a secret the entire time. I wish I could tell her, but from what I can feel out, its got a 50/50 shot of not going in my favor. I do have a knot dildo though, and she knows about it. TBH its kinda impressive I managed that, since I bought it with her knowing, and she helped me pick out the color blend. I used the ruse of "its a butt plug AND dildo, 2-in-1," which is kinda true, but not the full truth of why I wanted. She doesn't seem to be into the dildo for herself, which is fine. It was more important that she was okay with me using it, and having it in general.
 
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