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How do people get in contact to chat?

By knowing each other for a while on the forum, then writing over the private messages, then if they click together exchanging some more private communication channel and then after about a year of getting to know each other eventually meet each other in person.
Or you can write an add in the Personals section and as soon as you mention you are a woman, you will have about 30 people immediately asking you for a personal meet. :D
 
No they are not, but that is a different question. :D

Do you think kik is safe?

I read that kik can be safe but I don't trust anything these days with technology, but love to chat to others in a safe environment knowing that not being spied on by Mr plod a and his gang ?
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There are two questions:
1. Is the technology safe.
2. Are the people safe.
The only way you can say the people are safe is when you build trust and knowledge of them which is only done over time and frequent interaction. If someone sends you a message and the first thing they want is to meet you, they are probably not safe. And if you meet them, you have to accept the risk that they can now identify you.
 
Then read the thread above and probably stop using kik :D and ask Mr plod more questions. :D
 
Milky said:
And as for safe lawful manner, that confuses me too, considering about 90% of the planet, geographically, it is very much lawful.
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In fact it is illegal almost everywhere: As long as we are talking about having sex with an animal.

Worldmap Zoophilia - ZETA

Based on the Wikipedia-Article Legality of bestiality by country or territory , Effective 10/1/2019
www.zeta-verein.de
 
My dude, it's a long process built upon trust and untrust the first time. Usually, when I meet with a zoo it's through another zoo that they know and trust. When I go to meet with someone new and it been a while I will tell them to meet me in a public place and then scope out the area to make sure that there aren't any sting operations because that is the BS we have to put up with as an "illegitimate sexuality" in the eyes of the law. Once everything looks good and nothing seems fishy I usually sit down with them and have some coffee we meet and talk about normal things while my heart is beating super fast. After coffee that is either when we go back to my place or theirs to hang out. Usually, the first time doesn't involve sex or anything like that. I think this is the best way, to be honest. That way you build your friendship upon friendship and not lose canon hormones. Anyway, that's the way I have always done it. I am super paranoid and extremely protective of my girl so maybe my experience is different.
 
It's a simple question but it's hard to answer because every person takes things differently and every situation is wholey unique to it's approach. I've been fortunate enough to have met people on this site. Meetings that resulted in me tied with a friends dog. It just kinda happened.

We started talking like normal....not busting out the gate with vulgar instances of being with animals....we talked about our introductions to being a part of this community we talked about our first time experiences we talked about when we started developing a lust for animals ...we talked just about each other and general interests in a zoo and non zoo way.

You kinda just get the feeling that someone is genuine or not. Some people try to hard and it can really show red flags....some people are so reserved and only give 1 word responses which can always be a red flag....some people try to poke and prod information out of you without giving any information of their own which is another super huge red flag. You gotta take it one step at a time and if you ever reach the level of sharing just make sure there is nothing incriminating about yourself or your situation and make sure you get things in return.

Not everyone on this forum have things to share which can be a big red flag for people as well, it's been a contention point against me. I know i can sometimes give off red flags only because I do not have any animals to share and people make a huge deal out of that....well I try to make up for that by capturing videos of the fun I do have when I have it...not only that I can talk about experiences I have in great detail to show myself as not someone shady and at the same time making up in the areas I lack. Some people still refuse to talk or get bent out of shape over stupid little things but alas.....that's just people for you, especially people in arizona lol.

Anyway...I know I text to damn much XD hopefully my novel answered something lol and helped somewhere.
 
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Milky said:
First, if you're talking to me, I'm not a dude, I'm a female. As for the reasoning behind why I started this thread, it's more about logistics rather than theory and philosophy. Personally, generically, generally, and universally speaking, I can care less about what people do in their personal lives. They can spend as much time on the internet as they like, or not. That means nothing to me. I'm really just asking the simple question: due to me getting messaged by guys asking to chat on snapchat and kik, how do people safely get in contact for getting to know each other more?
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Technology may have changed over the past few decades that I've been on the internet but people have not.
The first issue you're going to have to deal with is that you are a female on this particular forum, this means that every male person who fantasizes about having a girlfriend into the same thing he's into or thinks that maybe if they invite a female over to meet their dog, horse whatever, will have an opportunity for a "hook up"

That being said, there are plenty of people in this "community" who don't have an ulterior motive behind the desire to talk to other similarly minded individuals.
Any chat platform CAN be safe, if you take the necessary precautions to make it so, and never share anything that might be used to compromise you or your animals (with you as an active participant)

You'll have to weed out the kinksters to find the type of people you personally want to connect with, but I've found it a worthwhile use of my time over the years.
 
Milky said:
Thank you for such a mindful reply. I appreciate all of the responses but yours is really the most useful and where I was going with my question, so thank you! As for the kinksters I know from experience that people like getting an instant gratification thrill on internet forums, and that's why I'm hyper choosey with joining up on social network sites. I'm not an owner so I'm fortunate I don't need to worry about that, but at the same time I do understand why people, owners or not, are careful! If this was a knitting and crochetting site I'd encourage that. At some point though you do want an outlet away from here and onto something more direct and personal (and private), even if it's just to meet for coffee, as some people have suggested.
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Well, i run a couple of Telegram groups, one is for Texas zoos, the other is a group of trusted and vouched for zoos from all over.
If ever you decide you want to dip a toe in the water, drop me a message and I can add ya
 
see me i get enough action in my spare time just want to help others out. I am also very aware of the risks involved my dog and horses are sweet like me but the risk involed is always is always high when meeting someone or going to a new location make sure you know the escape route if something goes wrong or just feels off about meeting someone for the first time always have a way out you never know who is lying to catch you out
 
pupwhoshaggedme said:
Not everyone on this forum have things to share which can be a big red flag for people as well. I know i can sometimes give off red flags only because I do not have any animals to share and people make a huge deal out of that....well I try to make up for that by capturing videos of the fun I do have when I have it...not only that I can talk about experiences I have in great detail to show myself as not someone shady and at the same time making up in the areas I lack. Some people still refuse to talk or get bent out of shape over stupid little things but alas.....that's just people for you, especially people in arizona lol.
Anyway...I know I text to damn much XD hopefully my novel answered something lol and helped somewhere.
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You honestly think if someone doesn't have an animal to share, it's red flag?? LOTS of people on here don't have an animal to share, it's just fine, and it is NOT a red flag. I do have an animal and I am certainly NOT sharing. Is that also a red flag, then? Of course, not.
If you are talking to people who consider that a red flag, find some better people to talk to.
 
Kristy said:
You honestly think if someone doesn't have an animal to share, it's red flag?? LOTS of people on here don't have an animal to share, it's just fine, and it is NOT a red flag. I do have an animal and I am certainly NOT sharing. Is that also a red flag, then? Of course, not.
If you are talking to people who consider that a red flag, find some better people to talk to.
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Lol calm down.... literally calm yourself and reread the post....I've said that it's happened to me.....I've gotten avoided or ghosted, no longer talked to before because I do not have an animal to share. It's not a red flag for me ..it's something that I don't like that I'm judged on.
 
pupwhoshaggedme said:
Lol calm down.... literally calm yourself and reread the post....I've said that it's happened to me.....I've gotten avoided or ghosted, no longer talked to before because I do not have an animal to share. It's not a red flag for me ..it's something that I don't like that I'm judged on.
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What part of that needs to be calmed down? I wasn't wound up. I'm sorry to give you that impression.
If you meant it differently, it should have been written differently. Plus, my statement still stands: If you are talking to OTHER people who consider that a red flag, you need to talk to different people, because hardly anyone feels that way.
 
Kristy said:
What part of that needs to be calmed down? I wasn't wound up. I'm sorry to give you that impression.
If you meant it differently, it should have been written differently. Plus, my statement still stands: If you are talking to OTHER people who consider that a red flag, you need to talk to different people, because hardly anyone feels that way.
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Yep, unless you're sending me messages to the effect of "hey, mind if i come over and fuck your dogs/cows/horses" I have no issues with whether you're annowner or not
 
Kristy said:
What part of that needs to be calmed down? I wasn't wound up. I'm sorry to give you that impression.
If you meant it differently, it should have been written differently. Plus, my statement still stands: If you are talking to OTHER people who consider that a red flag, you need to talk to different people, because hardly anyone feels that way.
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In my experience most people do feel that way...maybe it's an Arizona thing....maybe. It but either way it's a problem I've run into so I posted it. Making people aware of the things that happen. If it didn't happen to you well congrats it has to me so it's posted there.
 
Kristy said:
What part of that needs to be calmed down? I wasn't wound up. I'm sorry to give you that impression.
If you meant it differently, it should have been written differently. Plus, my statement still stands: If you are talking to OTHER people who consider that a red flag, you need to talk to different people, because hardly anyone feels that way.
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Ya know I did not sense any aggressive wording, pretty much says "To each his or her own" As it should be. This whole forum should have this attitude!!! I believe most members do have this mentality to figure out who they want to talk w/and who they don't. And from a personal point of view, I think the zoo's "veteran pet lovers" are above average when it comes to intelligence!!!
 
iceme44 said:
Ya know I did not sense any aggressive wording, pretty much says "To each his or her own" As it should be. This whole forum should have this attitude!!! I believe most members do have this mentality to figure out who they want to talk w/and who they don't. And from a personal point of view, I think the zoo's "veteran pet lovers" are above average when it comes to intelligence!!!
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Thank-you.
 
Just be genuine and most importantly be patient, the kind of trust required to share this secret with someone in the real world takes a long long time to create and therefore should be treasured ?
 
To me it's all about being safe and responsible. I think any kind of interaction between people who meet on the internet should be like that. As far as me wanting to experience getting penetrated by a stallion for the first time, in some ways I admit I'm very eager and impatient to try it, but at the same time I'm very reluctant to build relationships with this community due to not being sure whether or not someone may have insincere intentions. The more I read and research this general topic the more I learn how unaccepted it is. Coming to this site for the first time I was completely unaware of that.
 
In other words, I've never touched a nonhuman in any kind of sexual way in my entire life, and don't feel like getting in trouble just for being curious about what it's like to get penetrated by a horse. Certainly I'd luv to realize my fantasy sometime very soon, but being ignorant of what (where) is permitted and what (where) is not permitted, and not knowing who in this community is sincere and who is not sincere is a huge concern.
 
I should add that it's not only just about me wanting to get penetrated by horses and wanting to experience sexual intercourse with them. I do like them more than just for that. As I've stated in previous comments, I like them for social reasons too, personality, temperment, and I think they are physically attractive.
 
Milky said:
In other words, I've never touched a nonhuman in any kind of sexual way in my entire life, and don't feel like getting in trouble just for being curious about what it's like to get penetrated by a horse. Certainly I'd luv to realize my fantasy sometime very soon, but being ignorant of what (where) is permitted and what (where) is not permitted, and not knowing who in this community is sincere and who is not sincere is a huge concern.
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Here's the thing though, (and let me stress that i DO NOT support any type of zoo activist nonesense) even being gay was illegal at one point, but it didn't make people simply avoid being gay. Morality laws are always going to exist, aimed at anything deemed abnormal by society in general.
So, you either allow someone elses sexual morality to run your life, or you live your life and be who you are.
It may mean keeping a part of your life secret, which (considering your sex life is nobodies business anyway) really isn't all that difficult to do.

As for sincerity, thats a judgement call you simply have figure out for yourself. Like i said many times, if something feels off, follow your gut.
 
That is so bigtime true and well said! I couldn't agree more, including the first sentence about not supporting activism haha. I agree though bigtime with your philosophy about people doing their own thing and living their lives as they see fit.
 
Milky said:
That is so bigtime true and well said! I couldn't agree more, including the first sentence about not supporting activism haha. I agree though bigtime with your philosophy about people doing their own thing and living their lives as they see fit.
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If everyone subscribed to this theory, we'd all get along much better
 
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