How do I talk to spouse?

stanco

Tourist
So we have been married a long time and I have finally come to accept I’m a zoo. I don’t want to screw up my marriage by outing myself but I also want to be open. Did anyone have delicate ways of bringing this up that might have a way to bail? My spouse is very kinky but doesn’t watch porn so it might be hard to try the watch this video tactic.
 
There are a few ways. You could tell a few dirty jokes and throw in a suitable one - like the dog getting his nails trimmed. Or you could ask about her fantasies and if she has any limits. Or you can get one of the old Nancy Friday books and read some bedtime stories, first at random and then work up to the relevant subject. Anyway, tread carefully.
 
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