How do I convince my bf that sex with dogs could be fun?

pinkpawpie said:
Tbc by convincing to try I don't mean forcing someone to like it
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Threads like this are quite common here. And one of the concerns that are associated with this approach to making zoos out of nonzoos is emotional blackmail. So be aware of this when you try. You do not really want to make it seem like "I am going to fuck a dog for you because I love you, but in reality I do not really want to."
 
pes said:
Threads like this are quite common here. And one of the concerns that are associated with this approach to making zoos out of nonzoos is emotional blackmail. So be aware of this when you try. You do not really want to make it seem like "I am going to fuck a dog for you because I love you, but in reality I do not really want to."
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I'd never emotionally blackmail anyone into it. Besides I don't want anyone to fuck a dog for me lol but I'd appreciate an acceptance from my bf if I'd like to love my dog in an unconventional way that's all and I wouldn't do even that if he was against it because I deeply respect others I don't know why would you assume that I'd do a bunch of terrible manipulative things to the person I love just for the sake of amusing myself
 
You have a legitimate question and need some useful advice from members that have experienced similar problems. I admire your honesty and commitment to your bf.

I think you should start by discussing your sexual experiences/desires with your bf and slowly try experimenting. Don’t rush in until you feel comfortable then try to introduce more fantasies together. You know your bf more than anyone here so look for the signs if he wishes to explore further
 
Thanks a lot ♡ I appreciate
We explore a lot of lewd stuff already like eg pet play but he usually expresses desire for things like that himself I'm a very submissive and shy person irl so to me it's difficult to talk about stuff I'd like to especially if it's considered this much of a taboo in society
 
pinkpawpie said:
Thanks a lot ♡ I appreciate
We explore a lot of lewd stuff already like eg pet play but he usually expresses desire for things like that himself I'm a very submissive and shy person irl so to me it's difficult to talk about stuff I'd like to especially if it's considered this much of a taboo in society
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Your welcome. I’m glad I could help. I guess if you continue your pet play your going in the right direction.
 
weird to see the opposite of "how to make my wife fuck a dog"... not that weird to immediately see someone simping.

there's no such thing as "converting someone into zoo stuff". he either likes it already or he doesn't... there's no button to flip inside his brain to like same things you do.
Ilikealotm said:
I know it would be great to if all zoo's could be with other zoo's , but it doesn't happen. If you wanted to be with a zoo you should have searched one out on a pet site.
You could create a second email account, send yourself messages, pictures, videos or links to pet material and when you bring it up with your bf tell him that you have been getting mis addressed or spam mail loaded with pet porn and you were trying to understand why SO MANY PEOPLE are pet friendly and act surprised and a little turned on by the loving connection many people seem to have with their pets around the world and why it's such a big secret . I'd add little message to yourself like " hey Jen I can't wait till we can do this together or I know you'll enjoy this , We will love our dog more naturally then most people do..... And try to look for material that is of couples or females helping each other.

Good luck Pink.
Mick and @Crystyle112 :) :)< Two pet people in love and found each other on a pet site.
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yeah, nothing like adding a bit of deception into (i assume) a healthy relationship for ultimately selfish "gain". +1
 
pinkpawpie said:
Hi I'm a young woman and I love my bf very much but before I met him I was into k9 stuff ever since I was a little girl so I'd love to have a dog in the future which could do me too if he'd be eager of course. My issue is I was trying to talk about it with my bf once in a small talk manner trying to find out if he'd be into it or not without being seen as weirdo or worse. He didn't seem too interested in that and that would be a waste so I wonder what do you think about it? Is there a way to make a man want to try involve a dog into fun stuff? ・ω・
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Hi there Pink. I have been in your shoes. So in one of my long-term relationships, I introduced her to zoo via porn. In a nutshell, I (very slowly) started watching more and more porn with her that was outside of the norm. Eventually, we ended up watching some zoo porn together and she slowly warmed up to some of it. She ended up liking videos featuring women with male horses best. A number of years later we ended up being given a dog and we both ultimately tried him. My experience was amazing and hers was not so she never tried it again before we ended up breaking up.

With my current wife, I did a similar thing. I gradually would search out more and more porn that would showcase different kinks. We would watch together and eventually she did let her dog lick her once. I believe she did it more for me, although we never really talked about it that much. I have not revealed to my wife that I have allowed male dogs to mate me in the past. I have just never reached that level of trust, sadly.

I just wanted to share my experience with you. I do believe it is possible to open the mind of certain "blue pills" out there to consider this. But it has to be done in very specific/slow way so as not to shock their system lol. I never forced this on either of these two women. I simply showed them all kinds of porn with an open-minded "you form your own opinion" vibe and it worked out to a certain degree. If you ever want any further details, feel free to PM and I will provide any help I can.

Good luck!
 
pes said:
This has to be the first time a woman is asking this question. :D

Lets try this:
Imagine your boyfriend really was into watching women have sex with really old people. (Or substitute this with something you are not into). He would go to a forum and ask for advice:
"My girlfriend (You) didn't seem too interested in that and that would be a waste so I wonder what do you think about it? Is there a way to make a woman want to try involve a dog into fun stuff?"
How would you feel about it?

The idea of making "zoos" out of people who are not zoos already is simply erroneous.
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Actually its NOT the first time. But its just the same as asking how to "make" my dog horse or goldfish do the dirty. Answer: you don't. If youve brought the subject up, and gotten a cool reception, thats your answer. Bring it up again in a serious conversation, but if he doesnt react enthusiastically, he wont ever.Then you need to think....Is this your forever love? If so, the Dog can be a fantasy, but nothing more. If the Boyfriend ISN'T your forever fella, Id drop him, if the dog means more.
 
I'd say dont try it and dont try anything with him In regards to it. This is the biggest secret of your life and if soneone else were to ruin it then it would ruin you. A secret shared is no secret at all. You Need to not tell him anything period. If you needto choose then choose
 
VillSePaVaxjo said:
Relax a bit. Don't try and make it sound like you can speak for everyone else. Because you can't. Don't like me? That's your problem. Bye bye sweetheart.
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Just two weeks, 20 posts and an expert in making points in the WRONG places. You want a doggie girl? Here's a question, lil fella....what makes you think a chick with a dog needs you? Looks to me like youre outgunned already.
 
This situation is why I will never get into a relationship without getting all the dirty sex secrets out first. I know obviously you being in one already that is not advice really, but every time I see these threads it reinforces that belief for me lol.

I wish I had better advice to give you, but I've had enough trouble telling gfs or potential gfs that I am bi when I didn't know how they would react (spoiler alert: not very good at all). 😁
 
pinkpawpie said:
Hi I'm a young woman and I love my bf very much but before I met him I was into k9 stuff ever since I was a little girl so I'd love to have a dog in the future which could do me too if he'd be eager of course. My issue is I was trying to talk about it with my bf once in a small talk manner trying to find out if he'd be into it or not without being seen as weirdo or worse. He didn't seem too interested in that and that would be a waste so I wonder what do you think about it? Is there a way to make a man want to try involve a dog into fun stuff? ・ω・
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Show him some beastiality porn check his reaction and then just tell him that you don't think it's that bad or something like that
 
pinkpawpie said:
Hi I'm a young woman and I love my bf very much but before I met him I was into k9 stuff ever since I was a little girl so I'd love to have a dog in the future which could do me too if he'd be eager of course. My issue is I was trying to talk about it with my bf once in a small talk manner trying to find out if he'd be into it or not without being seen as weirdo or worse. He didn't seem too interested in that and that would be a waste so I wonder what do you think about it? Is there a way to make a man want to try involve a dog into fun stuff? ・ω・
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When you see a dog together, tell him how you think its facinating how they breed and lock together. Tell him you wish your boyfreinds cock could knot you and see his reaction.
This way he will feel like your liking how the dog cock knots and should look past the fact its a dog not a human.

Another way is talk dirty when doing it. My ex partner would always want it doggy style then tell me to knot her and fuck her like a bitch.
After a few times i got the hint and asked her if i should get a dog to knot her 😉

Hope this helps
 
pinkpawpie said:
Thanks ♡and I think you're also on point unluckily haha maybe I was just hoping for a possibility like that bc I was kinda persuaded to like it but I know most ppl in my place would prob hate it so I don't want to make someone who is important to me and has no interest in it feel smh bad out of selfishness
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I completely understand your head space. It's a difficult situation. You never want to to feel like you have had to 'persuade' or 'push' someone into something, especially something that is as personal as this or any other intimate or sexual preference.

However, the flipside of you opening up to him is that you may end up 'introducing' him to something that it turns out he is open to, that you now both can share as part of your already amazing relationship...

And the best part about that outcome is that, if you go on that journey together, and you are open with each other, there are no rules set in stone about what happens from there. He may choose to be more voyeuristic, and be happy with you pursuing things further (but openly together) or he may dive in the deep end with you and you explore all facets of this world. It won't really matter by that point as you will have an open and honest relationship and no longer hide your desires!

I wish you all the best with everything 🥰🤞
 
blondebelgian said:
I completely understand your head space. It's a difficult situation. You never want to to feel like you have had to 'persuade' or 'push' someone into something, especially something that is as personal as this or any other intimate or sexual preference.

However, the flipside of you opening up to him is that you may end up 'introducing' him to something that it turns out he is open to, that you now both can share as part of your already amazing relationship...

And the best part about that outcome is that, if you go on that journey together, and you are open with each other, there are no rules set in stone about what happens from there. He may choose to be more voyeuristic, and be happy with you pursuing things further (but openly together) or he may dive in the deep end with you and you explore all facets of this world. It won't really matter by that point as you will have an open and honest relationship and no longer hide your desires!

I wish you all the best with everything 🥰🤞
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Your comment is spot on I think, I did exactly what you said with my fiance and the outcome was like you said 😊 she embraced this part of my lifestyle and since we took that fist step we have discovered all our other kinks and embraced them too. It's been one of the best thing we've done in our relationship 😊
 
pinkpawpie said:
Haha tbh at first I was surprised that statistically men are much more into it
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Lol yeah, we are kinda like dogs who want to hump everything sometimes.

I wonder how often someone who didn't already have the urge ever picked it up from another person. Kinda think you either have it or you don't. Might be interesting to try, but it's a pretty big risk.

Btw just wanna mention to the commenters who were fighting that calling someone else out for simping makes you a white knight, aka simp in shining armor. XD
 
JackandNikki said:
Your comment is spot on I think, I did exactly what you said with my fiance and the outcome was like you said 😊 she embraced this part of my lifestyle and since we took that fist step we have discovered all our other kinks and embraced them too. It's been one of the best thing we've done in our relationship 😊
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Oh how wonderful! I love hearing about the relationship success stories!!! (I am a sucker for a happy ending!) 💘
And I hope that you only continue to grow together and strengthening your bond!
 
Seems that you are in a complex situation.
You really can't make somebody like the same things you do but dropping a couple hints and maybe some stealthy encouragement might make him curious about the topic.
 
blondebelgian said:
I completely understand your head space. It's a difficult situation. You never want to to feel like you have had to 'persuade' or 'push' someone into something, especially something that is as personal as this or any other intimate or sexual preference.

However, the flipside of you opening up to him is that you may end up 'introducing' him to something that it turns out he is open to, that you now both can share as part of your already amazing relationship...

And the best part about that outcome is that, if you go on that journey together, and you are open with each other, there are no rules set in stone about what happens from there. He may choose to be more voyeuristic, and be happy with you pursuing things further (but openly together) or he may dive in the deep end with you and you explore all facets of this world. It won't really matter by that point as you will have an open and honest relationship and no longer hide your desires!

I wish you all the best with everything 🥰🤞
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couldn't agree more, a shared desire is a life well lived. very well said (y)
 
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