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Does anyone have any tips or ideas to help find out if my wife would be into this as well?
Does anyone have any tips or ideas to help find out if my wife would be into this as well?
Very much the same as yourself. 13yr Relationship and anytime something remotely zoo has come up on tv or in communication shes reacted with an 'Ewwww thats disgusting'. Plus she has an allergic reaction to most dogs and cats. But she's pretty vanilla minded and has simple sexual needs so no need for me to toss it out there.How donyou even bring it up? We are together years now and where I am into quiet a few kinks to say the least she is not as adventurous and I don't think she would like the idea of me being interested in it, has anyone been in a similar situation ?
Cool, you have a great relationship with daughter! I spoke with few girls with similar story on their own. It's not that unique.A couple of years ago my girl of 15 years came out and told me she's had a couple of doggies lick her pussy and how much she enjoyed it. Zoo had never really crossed my mind up until then. I was really glad she felt able to share with me, I just wish she mentioned it sooner because now I'm hooked
Best case scenario! You got lucky and I’m happy for you.Cool topic!
It happened when I spotted my BF's folders with sketches, drawings and graphics. I wasn't shocked but really surprised! Lot of scenes showed women having sex with dogs and apes. I asked him about artworks and he admited is his favourite sexual fantasy. He had no choice because I had a proof in my hands haha ?
After revealing truth I felt it's time to uncover my secret. And just told him what happened few years ago. That was huuge massive relief for both of us.
After coming out I started giving him new fresh ideas about new scenes, cartoons and artworks because he was stubborn with drawing girls dogs and apes only. Most of new artworks was my concept but his execution. This is one of reasons why I like upload his artworks, graphics and AI's.
Also our life changed a little after that conversation. Is much better than before ?
Goodness I really enjoyed reading this. Would listen to anything else you’d say about it. Thanks for sharingWell it was very nerve racking for me but heres context ive been married to my husband for 5 years weve been dating for 7 and known eachother for 9 years ive had an attraction to dogs since i was in my teens i told my husband revently like maybe a month or two ago i was scared and very stressed about telling him but i couldnt hide that side of me any longer it was like a dog scratching at the door wanting to be let in i wanted that side of me to be let in so i planned a date night with my hubby and waited till we got home i asked him to sit with me on the couch i snuggled up to him and rested my head on his shoulder i asked him if hed ever judge me if i was into strange stuff he said no hed never judge me and he jokingly said babe i accepted everything about you like your need to sleep to crime documentaries and he laughed very heartedly i told him babe listen to me we need to have a serious discussion right now he said sorry and asked me whats wrong whats on your mind i asked him if he would judge me if i was into so weird stuff sexually he told me hes open minded but he draws the line at scat and pain related kinks at this point i was so scared i almost backed out i guess he sensed my stress so he told me to relax and talk to me so i took a deep breath and started crying he held me tightly running his finger over my head and through my hair til i calmed down i then told him that ive always been attracted to dogs and i would like if we could explore that part of me together he got quite i started to cry again and he took a deep breath and began asking me questions about like in what way was i attracted to dogs i told like bf and gf he asked if i was sexually attracted to them i said yes he asked me if i truly loved him or is he just a placeholder i held him closely and told him hes the love of my life i cant see my life without him i married him for a reason and thats because i love him with every fiber of my bieng he kissed the top of my head he then said that he is open to the idea and hes willing to explore this lifestyle with me i spent alot of time crying and thanking him for accepting me for not leaving me and for joining me and that he is willing to explore this side of me
Sorry everyone for the running sentence and the long read
Wow I admire you for your honesty and telling him yourself that's so sweet I wish my partner would've told me on his ownGoodness I really enjoyed reading this. Would listen to anything else you’d say about it. Thanks for sharing
FPBPdont tell ur partner, stay safe and dont ruin ur life
What does this mean!!!FPBP
First post best post.What does this mean!!!
That’s completely understandable!Hi Rose, to use a dildo, in my opinion and to be into zoo I think would be a difficult hard time for him to understand or accept your lifestyle. He might need time if you do open up bit by bit about your affections or he might feel uncomfortable. In my perspective view how deeply I want a guy, but to date a non-zoo guy would end up with devastating consequences or worse, so I stay exclusively zoo
The decisions is entirely up to you to make but be careful. Do think of yourself in that positionThat’s completely understandable!
He’s pretty open minded!firstly, the question is how open-minded he is, secondly, is he sometimes "crazy" in love, or is he a conservative type?