i have told two females. one is a really close friend. she doesn't understand it, but is curious about what it is like, in terms of how does it work, not curious as in wanting to try it. the other was a girl my husband and i met who came over to fuck and she was really kinky. she let our dog lick her but she only came over that one time.
i have met a couple of people here, one of which is an owner. he knows, as well as some people he introduce me too. but these are people from this community, not people in my everyday life.