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Has anyone made permanent friends in the Zoo community

They are rare, but yes, I have very good friends, if not even more so for some. And it's been several years.

Very happy that they are here. I think I need that company as well. To have the chance to be really yourself without being judged or afraid. And on top of that with people who really understand our love :)
 
shelter said:
They are rare, but yes, I have very good friends, if not even more so for some. And it's been several years.

Very happy that they are here. I think I need that company as well. To have the chance to be really yourself without being judged or afraid. And on top of that with people who really understand our love :)
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That's exactly what I was thinking about making friends here. It's somewhat lonely with a niche attraction that isn't socially acceptable. And coming to terms with my own zoophilia is a big step, now I just want to konw there's some people out there I can actually connect with
 
Not so much at Zooville, but within the greater Community? Oh Hell, yes....And more will come along....This social Background only seems different... People are people, wherever you find them. BUT you do need to put yourself in a place where you CAN meet them. No one can talk smut 24/7, unless he or she is psychotic.
 
saddlebum66 said:
Not so much at Zooville, but within the greater Community? Oh Hell, yes....And more will come along....This social Background only seems different... People are people, wherever you find them. BUT you do need to put yourself in a place where you CAN meet them. No one can talk smut 24/7, unless he or she is psychotic.
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Are there any reccomendations you could give to find the larger community?
 
This is whats left of it. Its not impossible here, just a bit more time consuming. It will not happen overnight, friend....As you post here, in different areas, you may find people where youre NOT looking for them....Spend time in conversation with those who seem worth the effort, and don't dismiss anything out of hand.

When it comes time to set up a meet, There is a wealth of info on safety. Read up. The Fact-based section is a valuable resource.

The personals may work, although that tends to be oriented to the "wham, bam nice shoes" crowd. But if it takes time, its worth waiting for.
 
I talk with so many individuals everyday. But most come and go cause my mental health just sucks. I have nothing fun or happy to say or share. So I often avoid topics about myself cause it makes people sad.

Nobody likes a sad friend, so conversation usually fades. And I'm left wondering why it happens again. It is my own fault I have no close friends, zoo and nonzoo.

But over time I am learning of things that excite me. Things I'm interested in and want to learn about. In time I hope to find some friends, I just have to be patient and develop who I am.
 
Animallover said:
Yeah I have a few friends in the zoo community some of them for 20 plus years.
The problem is the people that's in the community now are mostly Young and have not learned the important life lessons that they need to.
So mostly keep to myself and the few friends I have and my animals.
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Any life lessons you want to pass on, please let me know. I am very new to this, and still haven't actually done anything with an animal yet, so I'm more curious now than an active participant.
 
AMaresheartthrob said:
Any life lessons you want to pass on, please let me know. I am very new to this, and still haven't actually done anything with an animal yet, so I'm more curious now than an active participant.
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Yeah one of the big lessons that you should learn is that it's not about sex. I can guarantee you owners or most of them love their animals more than most humans and are the only thing on your mind is sex then you're already going to be at a very severe disadvantage around here.
And don't think they are going to meet somebody on here and be able to go to their place within a couple days, months or even years cuz owners have a lot to lose and it is very hard to trust people on here.
And be yourself don't try to be a fake person because we will see through that very fast.
 
AMaresheartthrob said:
I was having a thought the other day. This is definitely one of the more 'risqué' communities and it's more of a private thing. But has anyone on here made real long time friends here? I've always wondered how such a firendship would go about.
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yup, we help each other out materially, have bbq's and that sort of stuff.
 
Animallover said:
Yeah one of the big lessons that you should learn is that it's not about sex. I can guarantee you owners or most of them love their animals more than most humans and are the only thing on your mind is sex then you're already going to be at a very severe disadvantage around here.
And don't think they are going to meet somebody on here and be able to go to their place within a couple days, months or even years cuz owners have a lot to lose and it is very hard to trust people on here.
And be yourself don't try to be a fake person because we will see through that very fast.
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Oh don't worry, I have no plans on just trying to meet someone anytime soon. I'm very aware of that fact. I'd rather spend time getting tips and tricks for my own animal partnet once I get one.
 
I've made lots of friends in the zoo community, but none permanent except for my brother, who's also by surprize a zoophile as well.

For some reason, it's so hard making permanent friends because none of them I can closely relate to or trustworthy enough to be a permanent friend.

But alas, I'm still looking for a best-zoo friend.
 
Some of my best friends are also zoo or zoo-interested and I know them for almost 20 Years.

But the most important of it: Zoo is our interest, but our friendship isn't built up out of the zoo-community. I learnt them knowing from other interests we have together and we have a lot of activities what are not zoo-relatet.

So yeah it's possible to make permanent friends in the Zoo community, but it's important to have other interests too. Only to get friends because both are zoo would not be enough to get permanent friends.
 
Wolflover_aut said:
Some of my best friends are also zoo or zoo-interested and I know them for almost 20 Years.

But the most important of it: Zoo is our interest, but our friendship isn't built up out of the zoo-community. I learnt them knowing from other interests we have together and we have a lot of activities what are not zoo-relatet.

So yeah it's possible to make permanent friends in the Zoo community, but it's important to have other interests too. Only to get friends because both are zoo would not be enough to get permanent friends.
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exactly that, all my friends we all share self sufficiency as a core interest, which happens to line up with the zoo side of thing well too lol.
 
I have made two very solid friends that I have been talking to for almost a year now where we know a lot about each other. I know a year isn’t a very long time, but the depths of conversations we have had and the things we have shared, in my eyes constitute solid friendships. Both of them live pretty close to me and they both know each other IRL. My anxiety prevents me from meeting with either of them IRL, but I consider them to be good friends.

I definitely feel the earlier sentiment where a lot of people on here are only interested in the physical aspect of a relationship with animals. That and there’s a lot of people who seem only interested in sex and sexual conversation. So it’s a little difficult to build a friendship off of one singular focus of the human experience. It’s also difficult to want to have a full on friendship with someone who only sees animals as a sexual object and not as a potential partner. I had a very deep connection to my dog where I considered him to be my husband and lover for many years. He was my everything and I miss him overall more than just singularly miss having sex with him.
 
Technically I just got here gonna post a hobbies thread so peeps can see if there's anyone interested in similar things
 
Thankfully I have made some great friends in this community. Many irl and a few more only online but they are a huge part of my life now.
For those wanting to or feeling the need to meet others. Always do your own due diligence and never rush into any meets. If something ever feels off or the vibes just arent right. Dont put yourself in unnecessary risk.
Stay zooey friends.
 
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