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does someone know about your secret ?

cnddog said:
my one half sister knows, "we didn't grow up together" and she's also into dogs, we just live to far away from each other and conflicting work schedules to make anything of it
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How did she find out? Or how did you find out about her? Would love the backstory!
 
SiberianThing said:
My close family and childhood friends. I really don't know if I'm lucky or if people are very open-minded around here.
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Wow, and how they reacted? Did you just tell them or they found it out?

I never told anyone close to me, but I'm pretty sure my friends know it (since they joke about it too much), and my parents used to do the same, but not anymore (they probably already assumed they won't have grandchildren :gsd_laughing:)
 
Austral said:
Wow, and how they reacted? Did you just tell them or they found it out?

I never told anyone close to me, but I'm pretty sure my friends know it (since they joke about it too much), and my parents used to do the same, but not anymore (they probably already assumed they won't have grandchildren :gsd_laughing:)
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My family was drawing their own conclusions over the years. With my friends it was more or less the same.

And well... Jokes are usually means to tell the uncomfortable truths that nobody wants to tell, hahaha.

Here they know there will be no grandchildren for anyone, neither ?
 
Greenpepperwhiplash said:
While I am not overtly open about it, I do often drop small hints. To those that understand, it has led to a lot of discussion about my interests. I find a surprising amount more of people than we think have thought about it or at least not repulsed by it. They often ask a lot of questions, and I am usually honest.
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What kind of hints?
 
Kind of all my exes and current gf. Aaaand... my childrens mother told it to one of my sons. Maybe other too but only one has mentioned it and the other one is too estranged of her that i doubt.

She didnt tell it for any bad reasons. Just as a funny story. Ans son has been very cool about it too. BTW, he has a male husky whom he adopted about 3 years after he was told and i have curious thoughts about it. Last new year all three guys were in my current home and we were all drunk. The husky was alse here. Somehow our topics steered to all sorts of perversions and he made a vague remark of this thing. The story he was told was about his mothers dog banging me backnin the day when we were still dating and i went to visit her in her countryside home and before i knocked the door i let her dog do me pretty much under her window. So he sort of mentioned me and his dog going to the balkony for my usual thing or something.

Im a very open person and dont bother much to hide anything interesting or weird about myself. I dont like denying games and hidden suspicions plus this time we were pretty wasted, so i just told him that if you think your dog needs it i dont mind helping him out but only in my bedroom where its warm. No cold balconies. This type of confronting works usually with most people when they try to provocate you or reveal your secret or smth. You just hit back directly like you don't give a shit. This way they see that you really dont care about it, the others probably see it as a clever response to a bad joke and you yoursef can also later tell it off as a provocative response to a provocation.

Now, i think he later explained it to his older brother if he already didn't know. But apparently everyone is cool and my gf had a good laugh over how the boy was put to his place.
 
Yes; for better and for worse.

Other zoos, I've been fortunate enough to meet know my this side of me, my best friend (non zoo) knows and was super accepting of it which really made my day. My family knows and isn't as accepting but they also aren't looking to disown me in any way I told them this part of my life is private and they don't need to be involved in it or ask questions about it but they have to accept its me and they did :).

My ex also knows...that's why they are my ex lol
 
I have told two friends. Of the two one has had experience and the other has not had experience but wants to. I talk about it with them in a regular basis. It’s nice to have people to talk to.
 
I recently told a friend of mine I have an attraction for other ape species. He said he had a feeling I did since I have an interest in great ape personhood. Not for selfish reasons either, they absolutely deserve to be leg recognized as people. He has a sexual affinity for something I won’t disclose on here. But since he trusted me with his secret I told him mine and we’ve become closer friends because of it
 
I have a couple of exs that know but I really wish I could tell my best friend, so we could try to enjoy things together
 
my boyfriend and a few of my friends know about it! they’re all also zoos though, but my bf is the only one who knows how into it i am…all my other friends are anti-contact and anti-zoophilia porn but me and my bf have enjoyed looking at it together
 
Well, my so called partner found out close to 10 years ago, they were disgusted by it and threatened to ruin my life by telling everyone etc, which isn't great. So whenever an argument pops up or something similar that always comes up still to this day. Helpful tip for everyone, don't get caught with stuff on your PC. Takes a massive mental tole on you and you may never get out of that situation. ?
 
The only person I've ever somewhat told is my mom (like 5 years ago), but I say somewhat since all I opened up about was watching zoo related porn, not how into it I really am. No one else knows, which I'd prefer keeping that way. If zoo wasn't as taboo as it still unfortunately is, I'd consider opening up to others outside the community.
 
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