Does anyone want to be a prostitute or a porn star

[Franny&Zooey]

People have different tastes, and I'm sure there's a market for every body type.

Oh, And I forgot to mention: I have fucked a few male porn stars. Bottoms.

 

[K9Duke697]

I think every guy has secretly wanted to be a porn star, but there's no money in it! Most (straight) male pornstars don't get paid jack, they're just there as a complement. This is why I work in tech, lots of money, can work from home, now that makes me think of a fantasy, working for Google as a secret zoophile. Bet I'd be the only one.

I'd bet you wouldn't be the only one. Not by a longshot.

 

[Sumpup]

Everyone is to some degree.

 

[lexfordex]

With dogs and if I could wear a mask and get paid? Yes haha

 

[Daddy&Angel]

We have both done sex work in the past, Angel as an escort/brothel worker and Daddy as a ProDom and porn performer.

 

[Valkiria]

Yes yes, with whales only! The bigger the better!
But damn, whales don't have money, how they're goin' to pay me?

It was a joke ?
Now a bit more serious.

Imagine, you have a daughter, 18-19 years old.
One day she comes home, and gladly tells you: "Dad, mom, I have a job, from now on I am a prostitute!"
Your princess will suck disgusting old bastards and fat ugly strangers will bang her @ss for money...
Now tell me honesty, Hand on heart, would you be happy and proud of her?

There's no way I'm a prostitute. Call me retrograde or whatever you want, but this is my answer. No.

 

[Daddy&Angel]

It was a joke ?
Now a bit more serious.

Imagine, you have a daughter, 18-19 years old.
One day she comes home, and gladly tells you: "Dad, mom, I have a job, from now on I am a prostitute!"
Your princess will suck disgusting old bastards and fat ugly strangers will bang her @ss for money...
Now tell me honesty, Hand on heart, would you be happy and proud of her?

There's no way I'm a prostitute. Call me retrograde or whatever you want, but this is my answer. No.

Hand on heart?
I’d do exactly what I did with Angel.
I’d ask her what kind of sex work she was considering, what research she’d done about working conditions, safety and privacy considerations, managing potential health risks, fair pay rates, how to manage savings and tax affairs, and her ability to set and maintain her own limits when it came to what services she was willing to offer.
Most importantly, I’d ask what she was planning to do AFTER sex work, so when the appeal wears off and the dull reality of it sets in after a couple of years, she’s spent that time wisely, studying or earning towards a more long-term career for herself.
And when she was able to answer those questions, and articulate why sex work was the right choice for her now, how she’d keep safe, and how it would help her achieve her long term goals?
Damn right I’d tell her I was proud of her.

(Note: Angel is NOT my daughter, but I’m 18 years her senior and we had this conversation when she was 20. Her parents had a similar one with her too.

And I get it, We’re fortunate to live in a place where sex work is legal, (relatively) safe and well regulated. I know that’s not the case everywhere.
I’m not saying it’s the right choice for everyone, or even very many girls - like zoo, a lot of people just aren’t wired for it.
But shaming a young person for their choices is a sure fire way to make sure they make poor ones.)

 

[Alinadoggo]

I’ve been a prostitute for almost a year and that is not something I would recommend

 

[lexfordex]

I like the IDEA of doing dog porn, but I've never even done a dog so =P

 

[KnotSock]

It's a lot of fun, but you will be judged for it no matter what.

 

[KnotSock]

Imagine, you have a daughter, 18-19 years old.
One day she comes home, and gladly tells you: "Dad, mom, I have a job, from now on I am a prostitute!"
Your princess will suck disgusting old bastards and fat ugly strangers will bang her @ss for money...
Now tell me honesty, Hand on heart, would you be happy and proud of her?

My father loves to brag about his wife who is as old as my eldest sibling. It is so hard to hold my tongue when he speaks on this. One of my most meaningful human relationships was with someone about 10 years older than my father. (about 50 years older than me) Imagine daddy realizing that his youngest bangs dudes older than him. Mom didn't handle it so well...

Do not speak poorly on those of us who have sold our bodies to the night, just because a 114 dollar paycheck, with a daily staff meal, never got anyone out of their druggy home town.... I am very proud of how far I've come sucking dick. I don't need external validation for sexual acts, I need rent money.

 

[balancedlibra]

My wife and I created onlyfans and chaturbate accounts but never actually posted anything. My wife has sold feet pics in the past and jokes about wanting to sell her worn underwear since she’s so wet all the time but no idea how lol

 

[WolfSF]

My father loves to brag about his wife who is as old as my eldest sibling. It is so hard to hold my tongue when he speaks on this. One of my most meaningful human relationships was with someone about 10 years older than my father. (about 50 years older than me) Imagine daddy realizing that his youngest bangs dudes older than him. Mom didn't handle it so well...

Do not speak poorly on those of us who have sold our bodies to the night, just because a 114 dollar paycheck, with a daily staff meal, never got anyone out of their druggy home town.... I am very proud of how far I've come sucking dick. I don't need external validation for sexual acts, I need rent money.

Live your truth! Sex work is real work.

 

[Valkiria]

Hand on heart?
I’d do exactly what I did with Angel.
I’d ask her what kind of sex work she was considering, what research she’d done about working conditions, safety and privacy considerations, managing potential health risks, fair pay rates, how to manage savings and tax affairs, and her ability to set and maintain her own limits when it came to what services she was willing to offer.
Most importantly, I’d ask what she was planning to do AFTER sex work, so when the appeal wears off and the dull reality of it sets in after a couple of years, she’s spent that time wisely, studying or earning towards a more long-term career for herself.
And when she was able to answer those questions, and articulate why sex work was the right choice for her now, how she’d keep safe, and how it would help her achieve her long term goals?
Damn right I’d tell her I was proud of her.

(Note: Angel is NOT my daughter, but I’m 18 years her senior and we had this conversation when she was 20. Her parents had a similar one with her too.

And I get it, We’re fortunate to live in a place where sex work is legal, (relatively) safe and well regulated. I know that’s not the case everywhere.
I’m not saying it’s the right choice for everyone, or even very many girls - like zoo, a lot of people just aren’t wired for it.
But shaming a young person for their choices is a sure fire way to make sure they make poor ones.)

Hold on, dude.
Angel is not your daughter. You play some role playing games and it's far away from a real daughter. It's not a fuckin' role-play game I asked for.
The question remains open.
How many of you would be proud of your daughter if she became a prostitute?

 

[Valkiria]

My father loves to brag about his wife who is as old as my eldest sibling. It is so hard to hold my tongue when he speaks on this. One of my most meaningful human relationships was with someone about 10 years older than my father. (about 50 years older than me) Imagine daddy realizing that his youngest bangs dudes older than him. Mom didn't handle it so well...

Do not speak poorly on those of us who have sold our bodies to the night, just because a 114 dollar paycheck, with a daily staff meal, never got anyone out of their druggy home town.... I am very proud of how far I've come sucking dick. I don't need external validation for sexual acts, I need rent money.

As long as prostitutes pay taxes, I have nothing against them, even I will never become one.
But from what you write, I am left with the impression that you are forced to do it because of a lack of prospects and a desperate need for money to live on, not because you consider the profession of prostitute to be your vocation.

 

[Hollow]

Prostitution ....?by what degree,I mean it's derogatory term is whore can be used to reference a wide range of activities e.g Gold diggers can by somewhat be considered prostitutes.
So if someone engages in sexual activities with an individual whom returns the favor by giving her/him money or something of equal value, wouldn't they in a sense be prostitutes??the goes the sugadaddies and sugarmoms fans.

Well at this point, I would agree to have a sexual relationship or engage in sexual activities with someone and it will be a bonus if they give me something in return but I won't have sex with multiple people in fear of catching something. All in moderation and to satisfy my sexual needs

 

[KnotSock]

I am left with the impression that you are forced to do it because of a lack of prospects and a desperate need for money to live on

You just described every 18 year olds first job, at least the ones who don't have financial support.

not because you consider the profession of prostitute to be your vocation.

Correct, I am a person with many layers of talent, but if I can pay my mortgage for the next year on one hours worth of work, I'm gonna do it..

As long as prostitutes pay taxes

The person on the corner wearing that red light probably needs that ''tax'' money more than you. It's best to just have a few good clients, and If you know anything about the 1%, you already know that they are not paying taxes anyway.

 

[Valkiria]

You just described every 18 year olds first job, at least the ones who don't have financial support.

Correct, I am a person with many layers of talent, but if I can pay my mortgage for the next year on one hours worth of work, I'm gonna do it..

The person on the corner wearing that red light probably needs that ''tax'' money more than you. It's best to just have a few good clients, and If you know anything about the 1%, you already know that they are not paying taxes anyway.

For everything else you say I'm willing to agree with you, I feel you but as long as I pay taxes and you don't, we'll have agree to disagree. I am an immigrant myself, I moved from Russia to the United Kingdom and I deal on my own with my life. I work, I earn money, I pay taxes, so if one day if it becomes necessary, I will be able to use social benefits and all the support from the government.
What else can I tell you, except Get well soon and arrange your life the way you want.

 

[KnotSock]

For everything else you say I'm willing to agree with you, I feel you but as long as I pay taxes and you don't, we'll have agree to disagree.

I never said I don't pay taxes. I just don't pay taxes on my sex work for many reasons. My life is right where I want it, after years of patience, planning and luck. Thanks

 

[Daddy&Angel]

Hold on, dude.
Angel is not your daughter. You play some role playing games and it's far away from a real daughter. It's not a fuckin' role-play game I asked for.
The question remains open.
How many of you would be proud of your daughter if she became a prostitute?

I never said it was the same thing. The point I was making here is that my partner made these decisions carefully and considerately despite her youth. I want nothing but the best for her, I feel a deep obligation of care for her wellbeing, I respect and support her decision making, and I am proud of her.

So my answer stands. Judge our relationship if you wish; but if ever I am lucky enough to have a daughter, If she was to make this same choice as carefully and with as much forethought as Angel has, then, yes I would be very proud of my daughter.

My Child’s choice of job wouldn’t lessen the love I would have for her despite any pangs of paternal concern I might feel. Unless she maybe decided to become a landlord or stockbroker. Then I’d really feel like I failed her as a parent.

 

[Valkiria]

I never said it was the same thing. The point I was making here is that my partner made these decisions carefully and considerately despite her youth. I want nothing but the best for her, I feel a deep obligation of care for her wellbeing, I respect and support her decision making, and I am proud of her.

So my answer stands. Judge our relationship if you wish; but if ever I am lucky enough to have a daughter, If she was to make this same choice as carefully and with as much forethought as Angel has, then, yes I would be very proud of my daughter.

My Child’s choice of job wouldn’t lessen the love I would have for her despite any pangs of paternal concern I might feel. Unless she maybe decided to become a landlord or stockbroker. Then I’d really feel like I failed her as a parent.

This is 100% flat out fetishism and it has nothing to do with normal parent-daughter relationships. Right now, your lustful passion, ignited by your relationship with Angel, is speaking.

 

[Daddy&Angel]

This is 100% flat out fetishism and it has nothing to do with normal parent-daughter relationships. Right now, your lustful passion, ignited by your relationship with Angel, is speaking.

Except you seem to have missed the part where literally none of what I said was fetishising either Angel, my hypothetical offspring, or the reality of sex work.

or is respecting the autonomy of people you care about and encouraging them to make informed choices some weird new kink?

 

[Ania]

I once sold underwear online, but the same guy kept bombardign me later with messeges so I prefer to be unknown

 

[LittleTtruth]

My idealistic dream was to be a porn star or stripper, at least before I realize the industry wasn't necessarily as self empowering and meritocratic as my younger self thought it was.

 

[brand-spanking-old]

Technically I am a porn star. Just not a pornhub one

Oh?

 

[Valkiria]

Except you seem to have missed the part where literally none of what I said was fetishising either Angel, my hypothetical offspring, or the reality of sex work.

or is respecting the autonomy of people you care about and encouraging them to make informed choices some weird new kink?

"Go on, my princess, suck those old bastards, make these ugly fat strangers cum inside you, I'm so proud of you!"

With all my excuses, it doesn't sound respecting to me.

 

[Daddy&Angel]

"Go on, my princess, suck those old bastards, make these ugly fat strangers cum inside you, I'm so proud of you!"

With all my excuses, it doesn't sound respecting to me.

This speaks entirely to your judgements, ignorance and distaste, not the reality of sex work or the respect of our relationship.

I am not aroused by my partner being a sex worker in the slightest. Nor am I jealous or controlling about how she chooses to use her body to make an income.

It might be different elsewhere but here brothel work is legal and regulated. there are no pimps, she can refuse any client she doesn’t want to see.
Nobody cums inside Angel at work, ever. Condoms are mandatory for all sex services including oral, and workers must provide proof of STI testing every 3 months. (Brothel workers here record lower rates of STI’s than the general population precisely because they are so diligent about protection)
In the rare event a client attempts to slip off a condom he is blacklisted from the premises and can even be prosecuted for assault.

The reality is it’s a job, and on balance no more risky or exploitative than many other professions someone might choose. Anything else you’re reading into that is on you.

 

[Valkiria]

This speaks entirely to your judgements, ignorance and distaste, not the reality of sex work or the respect of our relationship.

I dont give a rusty penny for that. You can fuck whatever and whoever you want but, I can not respect someone who insist that he would encourage his daughter and tolerate her if she becomes a prostitute.
And the most pathetic thing is that you do not distinguish between a real daughter and your sex fantasies.
Ignorance and distaste? Just because i say it's not normal to want your daughter to prostitute? Dude, your sickness is on another level.

 

[Hollow]

 

[Daddy&Angel]

I dont give a rusty penny for that. You can fuck whatever and whoever you want but, I can not respect someone who insist that he would encourage his daughter and tolerate her if she becomes a prostitute.
And the most pathetic thing is that you do not distinguish between a real daughter and your sex fantasies.
Ignorance and distaste? Just because i say it's not normal to want your daughter to prostitute? Dude, your sickness is on another level.

I’m leaving this be now because it’s killing the thread, and you clearly aren’t capable of a good faith conversation. Have a good life.