btwiamazoophile
Zooville Settler
The way humans form relationships is honestly confounding lol. I could not imagine wanting to have a partner that I also want to keep things from. Could you elaborate on why you like things the way they are?
Does anyone hide this from their human lovers?
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Amandatoosweet
Tourist
Ive kept my secret for most of my life well for all the years ive known ive had an attraction to dogs i also kept it a secret from my husband until this year i confessed to him luckily he accepted me is supportive and is into the lifestyle\sexuality of bestiality/zoophilia
furrlovrr1
Tourist
Hmm, honestly it is confusing. Maybe my story could elaborate why people hide things. I used to have an ex who would hide the fact he would cross dress and kept a box of girl clothes hidden from me and I found out after 5 years of dating him. I was honestly really open to it, the idea of him being comfortable crossdressing in our home together, but I think it’s something he couldn’t do. Although he appreciated I didn’t leave him or anything for that reason probably eased his mind, he still wanted to do his “fantasy of crossdressing” alone, privately. So idk, I guess this kinda goes back to this. I think some rather not have their human lover be involved or knowing of this animal relationship because there’s simply no need to tell them.
SchoonerOarLater
Tourist
I've had a few I have opened up to about the interest. Always take small steps and gauge interest. My partner now is all about it. It's great.
Cliff_W_Lab
Zooville Settler
I definitely hid it from my ex wife but I hide it from everyone I know.
Activedogcouple
Citizen of Zooville
My husband knows it from the first day that i did it.
BishPlease
Tourist
Absolutely, not to daring enough to share with most people.
Steven Raccoon
Citizen of Zooville
Not a single soul in my life knows about me. And I've been a zoo lover for over 40 years
idahoralph
Tourist
Still hiding after dating 3 years and now she's pregnant with our first child
pickensthomas68
Lurker
You don’t have to keep it a secret from me. I’d love to be an outlet that you can confide in
CollieMom
Tourist
I'm married and my husband doesn't know. I had lots of practice keeping it a secret when I lived with my parents and this is no different really. It's deeply personal and private.
I have a medium sized horse-shaped dildo that my husband thinks is weird and unsexy so he definitely wouldn't approve ?
I have a medium sized horse-shaped dildo that my husband thinks is weird and unsexy so he definitely wouldn't approve ?
Randydoggo
Citizen of Zooville
Life isn't fair for anyone with this attraction. Welcome to reality. We are hated by the majority. It may not "be cool" to hide it from a significant other your close with but have you considered the possible alternative of people taking your advice, opening up, and it backfiring on them and their new home being a jail cell? Personally I'm glad I'm zoo exclusive. I don't have to worry about keeping secrets in a relationship ever ?
And from what I've saw, even the "happiest" couple out there does this shit. Everyone holds back feelings; Even about trivial stuff that isn't a big deal. Things that could easily be talked through. Unlike this subject, I get where your coming from but the reality is relationships between people are complicated as it is and not guaranteed to last. Imagine having a ex walking around knowing this about you! Adding zoophilia openly to the mix is asking for trouble, 9 times out of 10.
My advice is if your attracted to humans. KEEP IT A SECRET if you also want to be with animals as well. It's not worth the risk having other people know
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btwiamazoophile
Zooville Settler
I would think the more sensible alternative is to not get into a relationship with a human who does not accept you for who you are. Relationships are a two way street and even if it's not "right" for a given person to hate someone for being zoo it's not appropriate to hide big parts of yourself in a close relationship. If both people aren't on the same page, someone is bound to be hurt and it's not fair, even if you don't think it's fair that zoos are persecuted.
caboose
Citizen of Zooville
I have definitely had those moments. I had a girlfriend in college that said “oh my god you are a furry” and my expression in my mind I definitely didn’t say it out loud was girl you don’t even know the half of it.
benmatthews
Tourist
Yes unfortunately
illinoiscityboy
Zooville Settler
Do you do it when he’s not home, at night, in a secret lair?
notsoaveragejoe
Tourist
Yes. Only one person knows about my lifestyle, and they are a close friend. I've brought it up jokingly to my partner before and the reaction was about what I expected...
Overhead5765
Tourist
I didn't want the title to be too long, the questions is for those who keep it a secret to their non-zoo partner. How do you do it? Specially considering that zoo seems to need a lot of trips and movement.
CeeDeeCeeDee1
Tourist
Sounds like a fascinating experience her. Would love to hear how you manage to fit this in with it remaining a secret.