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Does anyone else have uneventful days?

Pillar said:
But what's on your mind doesn't count, what they want from you does. What they want is for you to yield to their will.
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No im saying is i told them whats on my mind on couple occasions. Better then literally cursing them out while yelling. Why complicate things if i literally just speak truth.

I dont lie until i MUST. Honesty is the best thing i can use.
 
FoxandtheHounds said:
I'm honestly much the same as far as school or community friends go, I live 2,000 miles from anyone I grew up with. I have 3 good friends out here. Sometimes you do have to embrace it but I honestly find it hard to believe someone as nice as you has no friends! Don't get yourself down about it, you can find good ones, they could be just one nature hike away!
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I hope thats the case. Thats what i want currently.
 
Reconscope said:
No im saying is i told them whats on my mind on couple occasions. Better then literally cursing them out while yelling. Why complicate things if i literally just speak truth.
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Because your truth needs to be replaced with their truth. There is no other way other than what your current life situation is.
 
Pillar said:
Because your truth needs to be replaced with their truth. There is no other way other than what your current life situation is.
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Anyone who questions my integrity is the equivalent of calling my family members the worst slurs you can think of. I take my character very seriously there. Being called a liar or lazy or whatnot negative label. Is something people should avoid.
 
Pillar said:
Because your truth needs to be replaced with their truth. There is no other way other than what your current life situation is.
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People like that are exactly why I up and bounced. You can change any situation you want if you put your mind to it. You have to want it though.
 
FoxandtheHounds said:
People like that are exactly why I up and bounced. You can change any situation you want if you put your mind to it. You have to want it though.
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I don't think "wanting" is what it takes to change something, it takes action.
 
Reconscope said:
Yeah i wont stop doing that. However what if i ran outta people to talk too and none are interested.

Regardless im glad you responding here
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Just live with your girl then? ...Not much else you can do outside of what was mentioned earlier, at least nothing is coming to my mind anyway. Not very creative, I know.
 
Reconscope said:
Yeah i wont stop doing that. However what if i ran outta people to talk too and none are interested.

Regardless im glad you responding here
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Good, don't stop. Don't worry about running out of people to talk to, some friends might come and go but everyone finds the couple of good ones they know forever. Just try to think more on the positive side of things. What if you end up with too many people to talk to!
 
FoxandtheHounds said:
Good, don't stop. Don't worry about running out of people to talk to, some friends might come and go but everyone finds the couple of good ones they know forever. Just try to think more on the positive side of things. What if you end up with too many people to talk to!
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True true. However finding talking to everyone allows me have them happy feels
 
Reconscope said:
True true. However finding talking to everyone allows me have them happy feels
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Well that makes it an even bigger positive for you then! It can be beyond hard to operate with a mindset of positivity when it seems all of your work yeilds more negativity. But, if you stop chasing good things it only leaves the bad.
 
Reconscope said:
I wrote about it already. The worst part is something coulda been done. I coulda skipped work that day but didnt. I knew i shoulda. Everyday thats all i was thinking about.
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I'm sorry man. I know how much she means to you...

I don't know if this is appropriate to say or not, but you gotta let her go if you haven't already...
 
FoxandtheHounds said:
Well that makes it an even bigger positive for you then! It can be beyond hard to operate with a mindset of positivity when it seems all of your work yeilds more negativity. But, if you stop chasing good things it only leaves the bad.
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My question is why do we even have to chase the good when the bad happens naturally? It makes little sense... But it is what it is.
 
Pillar said:
I'm sorry man. I know how much she means to you...

I don't know if this is appropriate to say or not, but you gotta let her go if you haven't already...
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Honestly? I never let something thats clearly my fault go. Its kinda a design flaw i have. Shes probably my last true attachment. Regardless of time thats just me having all my years with her suddenly ripped from me.
 
FoxandtheHounds said:
Bad only happens naturally if you let it. Never found 5 bucks on the ground?
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I've found $10, and I put it somewhere that the person who lost it could get it back.

But even so, I don't control anything that happens in my life, good or bad. Whatever happens is outside of my control, even if I tried to control it. I don't think anyone can.
 
Reconscope said:
Honestly? I never let something thats clearly my fault go. Its kinda a design flaw i have. Shes probably my last true attachment. Regardless of time thats just me having all my years with her suddenly ripped from me.
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Regardless of fault, the only thing to do now is to let it go... Holding onto it won't do you or her any good. Do you think she'd want you to have this sadness with you?
 
Pillar said:
Regardless of fault, the only thing to do now is to let it go... Holding onto it won't do you or her any good. Do you think she'd want you to have this sadness with you?
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Actually im just numbing it now i ran outta tears. She deserved them all. Im probably overreacting however keep in mind i had literally nobody else community or school except her presence.
 
Pillar said:
I've found $10, and I put it somewhere that the person who lost it could get it back.

But even so, I don't control anything that happens in my life, good or bad. Whatever happens is outside of my control, even if I tried to control it. I don't think anyone can.
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If you put it where they could find it and they got it back you unknowingly left them with some natural positivity. Life can work in strange ways, for good and unfortunately bad. Not always bad.
 
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