Do you ever feel guilty?

[rosethedoglover2000]

I know it’s really scary at first, and you will feel very strong feelings of guilt and shame starting off. I was in your exact mindset a year ago. But I promise you its normal, just keep this thought ; “this is consensual, we’re all happy, my companions are taken care of very well, all/ both of us enjoy this and outside sex they’re unconditionally loved.” Those thoughts helped get me out of that dark space, you can do it hun! This forum is a safe space for you to get the education and help you need.

 

[warden65]

I’d associate it more with social shame

 

[Valkn]

This is pretty much the same post I intended to make on here

As for me, yes, the feeling of guilt often digs itself into my psyche. Mainly due to religious matters, because well, what if?
I do have the fear in me.
I don't want to go into too much detail, so people with similiar stuff don't have a panick attack thinking about it.

I have denied my zoophilia for a long time, making excuses and empty promises. But one day, I accepted it. I knew that I was lying to myself, and facing it head on will save me from going deeper down the rabbit hole.

What calms me down, is that I was born like this. I didn't choose to be a zoophile.

That's what helped me... It's an orientation

It is out of my control!

Definitely

And there is nothing I can do, so might as well sit back and enjoy the ride.
But I know that I still have a long road of self-acceptance ahead of me.

Absolutely it takes times but you do get there

 

[LeonMad]

That's what helped me... It's an orientation

Definitely

Absolutely it takes times but you do get there

Thank you a lot, I am overjoyed that such a website like this exists

 

[Prangija]

Im new here. But I am not new to the feelings I have for animals. I have very strong feelings for animals every now and again and am very certain that I'm a zoophile. But I also feel that I am ashamed of it, that i shouldn't be a zoophile. I see this website and enjoy the safe place to enjoy it. I especially love that theres so much information on how to practice without harming our feral companions. I guess what I mean to ask is... are feelings of shame normal? Should I feel shitty and change it? Are my feelings of wanting to accept it wrong?
Im just new to this idea and am at a point where I will either accept it and enjoy a life of animal companionship, or deny it and bury down the desire I know I have.

I just wanna know yalls responses to my mental predicament

Cheers! :3

At first, it felt guilty every single time after watching zoo porn or just engaging with any dog, but after sometime it faded away

 

[Miss_Rachel]

Society ingrains in all of us, to a greater or lesser degree, what is and isn't "right". That is what makes certain things "taboo" and something for which, those of us who enjoy such things, we ought, in the eyes of society, feel ashamed of ourselves.

I have never felt shame or guilt for my being a zoo. I grew up in a very isolated place and was left pretty much to myself and learnt much of what I now enjoy, by trial and error. I do not ever recall being made to feel ashamed of anything in my past. I think, we all can get past the "shame and guilt". If it feels right and no one else suffers, that there's no abuse and all are consenting, enjoy it.

 

[jhozoo]

and that 's the post the prosecutor will use in the trial to ask a full conviction, if in your country is illegal zoo. Be carefull guys

 

[goob3590]

Definitely some feelings of guilt

 

[fieralupislady]

All the time. I am horny 24/7 and feel wrong 24/7

 

[AllyKatt]

I feel guilty all the time about what I've done so far and even felt a little guilty giving into my desire lately and partly for even joining this site. Everyone is different but I do hope so I continue to get to know more people that will fade and I'll feel better.

 

[sanyi7585]

Im new here. But I am not new to the feelings I have for animals. I have very strong feelings for animals every now and again and am very certain that I'm a zoophile. But I also feel that I am ashamed of it, that i shouldn't be a zoophile. I see this website and enjoy the safe place to enjoy it. I especially love that theres so much information on how to practice without harming our feral companions. I guess what I mean to ask is... are feelings of shame normal? Should I feel shitty and change it? Are my feelings of wanting to accept it wrong?
Im just new to this idea and am at a point where I will either accept it and enjoy a life of animal companionship, or deny it and bury down the desire I know I have.

I just wanna know yalls responses to my mental predicament

Cheers! :3

I sometimes feel very bad when I think about having sex with a dog. Until recently my boyfriend was there to help me relax about it and I felt good then, but we're not together anymore and I plan to delete this profile and stop thinking about dogs because I know I'll never find someone like him who will make me feel happy and comfortable just like he did. Even if i find someone who likes dogs, i would probably be uncomfortable about it

 

[dalimatrans]

I've never felt guilty

 

[AzureWolfe]

So long as it's not forced onto someone or the animal and so long as it's what you want I don't see a point to feeling guilty. Life's too short to not experience it.

 

[likestowatchinnc]

I sometimes feel very bad when I think about having sex with a dog. Until recently my boyfriend was there to help me relax about it and I felt good then, but we're not together anymore and I plan to delete this profile and stop thinking about dogs because I know I'll never find someone like him who will make me feel happy and comfortable just like he did. Even if i find someone who likes dogs, i would probably be uncomfortable about it

There are plenty of guys who'd love to find a GF who's into dog-sex. You shouldn't have any trouble finding someone. There's no reason you have to give up having a BF or a dog partner.

 

[KnottedAt9]

Im new here. But I am not new to the feelings I have for animals. I have very strong feelings for animals every now and again and am very certain that I'm a zoophile. But I also feel that I am ashamed of it, that i shouldn't be a zoophile. I see this website and enjoy the safe place to enjoy it. I especially love that theres so much information on how to practice without harming our feral companions. I guess what I mean to ask is... are feelings of shame normal? Should I feel shitty and change it? Are my feelings of wanting to accept it wrong?
Im just new to this idea and am at a point where I will either accept it and enjoy a life of animal companionship, or deny it and bury down the desire I know I have.

I just wanna know yalls responses to my mental predicament

Cheers! :3

I use to, not anymore though. I'm proud

 

[WildWoofer]

I can say with confidence that I do not. When I hear of other people feeling guilty for the love they have and feel for animals it hurts me because you shouldn't be ashamed of something as sweet as a shared bond with an anianimal. If it's feelings you have that you give and get returned then it's natural it's not forced and it's a truly wonderful thing.

Next time you feel ashamed, if you have an animal you know and love look into their eyes...see their body expression and feel the raw happiness you both feel when your around. That can't be something associated with shame; it's raw beautiful and mutual.

 

[doctorapril1]

At first I felt extremely guilty, but after a couple more sessions I came to terms.. although it was a bit of a existential crisis at first.

 

[shyprincess]

At first i was confused and also ashamed that a dog excites me but i have never felt guilty because i do not force him to do anything

 

[CollieMom]

I have no reason to feel guilty because I'm not doing anything except allowing him to do what he's absolutely desperate to do. I don't use him, he uses me.

I sometimes feel guilty about hiding this side of myself from my husband but I think that's justified.

 

[likestowatchinnc]

At first i was confused and also ashamed that a dog excites me but i have never felt guilty because i do not force him to do anything

There's nothing to feel guilty about so long as it's consensual and your relationship with him doesn't risk harming the relationships you have with loved ones. The latter meaning that you can either keep it a secret or your loved ones would fully accept it if they knew.