It's an interesting take, you have. I think men and women approach zoophilia much differently. For you all, it seems like it's a connection. An actual relationship partner, not unlike a human. I think for men, it's mostly a sexual fetish. I know I couldn't see myself having a connection like that with a dog. I have, however, had a deep bond with my past dog. She was my best friend. Losing her to cancer was the worst experience of my life, but I never even thought about being active with her. She was more like my dog daughter. So basically you all are looking at the like lovers and men are looking at them like sex toys. At least that's what I have seen from my experience. Although, I do know the play partner I knew didn't necessarily have a relationship with hers. It was just a taboo kink to her. One that only me and one other person knew about.