Did you ever want your zoophilia to be "fixed" at some point?

during the happier times when everything is just fine? no.
during all the other times like having to watch them die, again? probably.
 
die, again?
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Hold up. "Again?" Do you mean a different dog?

Here's how I see it. Love is love. There's nothing wrong with that. Human. Animal. Others "pick and choose". I'm not like that. Love doesn't take sides.

It's about being there for the worst. Not just the best. Can't have a rainbow without the rain.
 
Mesond said:
Hold up. "Again?" Do you mean a different dog?
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yes... "we" have the "pleasure" of getting to the goodbye part repeatedly, compared to "normal" folk. getting through multiples of partners because they just keep dying is not a thing a "normal" person goes through.
 
nekdoneco123 said:
yes... "we" have the "pleasure" of getting to the goodbye part repeatedly, compared to "normal" folk. getting through multiples of partners because they just keep dying is not a thing a "normal" person goes through.
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Yea. People often assume "My own loss" is the worst. But when there's that much... loss... it's different.

Trust me. I get it.

It's also what keeps me going. Never take it for granted.
 
I tried so hard not to be what I am. Not just in this but in other ways. In some ways I succeed but I at some point realized I am a better person being whole and having animals as part of my life than I am without them. For me I'm just not whole or even me without these parts. So I just choose to not think about if it is wrong. It is a part of who I am and I will either be condemned for it or not.
 
Panda Chen said:
I tried so hard not to be what I am. Not just in this but in other ways. In some ways I succeed but I at some point realized I am a better person being whole and having animals as part of my life than I am without them. For me I'm just not whole or even me without these parts. So I just choose to not think about if it is wrong. It is a part of who I am and I will either be condemned for it or not.
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If you try to be anything other the yourself then you are a fool. Let people judge. That's the trick. Why feel bad for the closed minds of others?

I used to live in fear in the past. Was a coward even. I can admit that. Then I realized... Is it my life if I live in the fear of what others think?

Why live in the fear of judgement? Why live under the shadow of what others fear? So I let people judge me now. I'd rather die then live like that again.

Bloit is right when they say to face your fears. Easier said then done? Maybe. But if you talk to people yourself then they hear it from you instead of others.

I think what bothers people more then anything is that they don't hear it from "you". Or such is what I'm told at least.
 
Mesond said:
If you try to be anything other the yourself then you are a fool. Let people judge. That's the trick. Why feel bad for the closed minds of others?

I used to live in fear in the past. Was a coward even. I can admit that. Then I realized... Is it my life if I live in the fear of what others think?

Why live in the fear of judgement? Why live under the shadow of what others fear? So I let people judge me now. I'd rather die then live like that again.

Bloit is right when they say to face your fears. Easier said then done? Maybe. But if you talk to people yourself then they hear it from you instead of others.

I think what bothers people more then anything is that they don't hear it from "you". Or such is what I'm told at least.
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A person should be who they are but also no person is perfect and we all should strive to be better. There are parts of me I don't like because they aren't who I want to be.
I am not the person I was 10 years ago and if I live another 10 I won't be who I am now. Change is one of the few constants in the universe. What maters is what you change into and yes you can change who you are but there are always sacrifices for that. Sometimes it is necessary.
Other people can be very helpful in changing for the better. If most of the people you encounter tell you the same thing, especially if they don't even know each other or are not in contact with each other, then that often means there is a reason and some part of you that is causing that response. Now the key is to figure out what that is and if you want that part of you. It it serves a purpose and has value to you and is it worth the consequences of having it.
It would be a lot easier if I were not zoo but that part is linked to my compassion and empathy. So without it I'm not a person that I would want to be. So it remains.
Also how you use parts of yourself does matter too. Just because you get angry doesn't mean you have to let it run wild. Anger can be controlled and used to evoke change for the good. Most of our choices are about how we react not whether we react or not.
 
I don’t feel like I want to fix anything. I am pretty happy that I love horses and dogs the way I do. I find it pretty ironic that non-zoos looking in from the outside commonly believe that we don’t truly love our animals because sometimes we have sex with them. Uh, no, we especially love our animals, which is why we sometimes have sex with them.
 
When I was younger I just went the same route I did for being bisexual, I just ignored it as hard as possible and hoped it went away. The older I got though, the more I realized that as long as no one is getting hurt, myself or our furred companions, that there's nothing objectively wrong with the most basic of human instincts. Humans have been attracted to animals for as long as higher consciousness has existed. There were zoophiles, there is zoophiles and there will always be zoophiles. It's about how you manage yourself and your actions that truly mean anything. Its only social societal law that dictates what is and isn't acceptable. Do no harm and that's all that matters
 
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Absolutely not. Very happy with my interests even if I'm very likely never get an opportunity to be intimate with a mare. Zoophilia has actually helped me to go vegan diet and apparel wise, so if anything I'd say its quite literally improved my life.
 
Absolutely 100% not. I'm sure this has been said time and time again here. But it is part of who I am and I would never change that through good or bad times. I'm using this as a phrasing but there's a phrase in a song... walk right up in the room like fuck errybody but me. Meaning dont let anyone tell you to feel bad about your choices. Live your life path as you have chosen it. I have made my choices to be part of this wonderful community and life style and would never change it
 
Defiantly not. its something i enjoy zoo along with other kinks that have shaped my life a relationships.
 
I'm closing my account here, there is nothing here for me but bad paths and worse agony. I implore everyone to seek help with your condition, no matter what excuse you can make up, zoophilia and especially bestiality will always be wrong.
 
leetgamer2221 said:
I'm closing my account here, there is nothing here for me but bad paths and worse agony. I implore everyone to seek help with your condition, no matter what excuse you can make up, zoophilia and especially bestiality will always be wrong.
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If that is what you need to do then I hope it goes well for you and you find peace.
That said "Judge not lest you be judged."
If you ever change your mind you are welcome to return.
 
I'm not sure how I feel about it still. I'm not someone who is attracted to animals. But I do find the concept of women having sex with animals endlessly arousing and fascinating.

It sounds silly to say, but I find the concept extremely captivating from everywhere on a sexual, intellectual, and emotional level. I can't ever really identify why. There's the intrigue that women and male animal's genitalia are as compatible as they are. The study on one of the other boards showing that pretty much all male animal sperm at least tries to enter a human female's egg, but not vice versa with human male's sperm and female animals. There's elements of how the (at least normalized) inherent submissiveness of women to men in sexuality translates to sex with animals. And then obviously the taboo nature of it, etc. But mostly, there's something about the biology and psychology of it that really grips me.

I do have a porn addiction, and I always assumed/hoped the interest would go away once I got rid of the addiction. But it never really has. I'm beginning to believe that if I'm ever going to beat the addiction, I have to accept this is just part of who I am rather than suppress it.
 
A long time ago when I was struggling with it, I spoke to a therapist about it. I was seeing her for unrelated issues, but it came up because I blamed it for some issues in my life and wanted advice on how to shed this part of me. To become "normal". After asking me a number of questions about abuse and past traumas (there was none), they admitted to me being the first "zoo" who hadn't been abused or suffered some other trauma. Go me, I guess?

Anyway, she never really gave me any advice about anything I had talked to her about. She'd just collect the big check I gave her every week. She was surprised when I fired her and told her I didn't think she was helping me at all. I stopped going, accepted that I was a zoo, and I haven't looked back.
 
I always loved animals. Early on that moved to other feelings for them. In have tried to burry it but it was always there. In see a dog girl i think "cute dog, great breed, want to pet and play, so fluffy, great color, oh and holy crap is so hot!" It was always there, recently stopped trying to push it away.
 
I used to. I grew up in an extremely religious home, so when I realized my love for animals went deeper than it was supposed to be, I got into a pretty heavy depressive state of mind. I used to pray for hours desperately begging God for forgiveness. I spent years thinking I would burn in hell, that I was a disappointment to my family and my faith, that everything would be better if I was braindead.. Some pretty awful thoughts. But it's been years, and I'm starting to accept my zoo side.
 
Tennant said:
I used to. I grew up in an extremely religious home, so when I realized my love for animals went deeper than it was supposed to be, I got into a pretty heavy depressive state of mind. I used to pray for hours desperately begging God for forgiveness. I spent years thinking I would burn in hell, that I was a disappointment to my family and my faith, that everything would be better if I was braindead.. Some pretty awful thoughts. But it's been years, and I'm starting to accept my zoo side.
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Good for you. ❤️
 
Never was abused, had a happy family growing up and save for being dealt a few crap hands including one that made me consider making the final jump. i had a pretty good life, and i don't know if it because i was building back after one of the worse times in my life when i realized what i am or what. But i fully accepted who i was from day one and wouldn't chance a thing about any of it if i could
 
Back when I first found out I was like this. I didn't feel any shame about it. Seemed natural to me. I know that other people don't approve so I won't tell anyone but I don't feel like I should change who I am for the sake of other people.
 
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