Dating and Zoophilia

[CharlesMiner]

Speaking from my own experience, I have dated 3 guys who I had talked to about it. Every single one of them said they were okay and even cool with or excited about it. But when a certain situation eventually came up, they couldn't really handle it well and it seemed to go downhill from there.

Ultimately it is up to you and how comfortable you are with him and whether or not he has any insecurities. And maybe you will have better luck.

Maybe you haven’t met the right guy?
I know men can be territorial. I hope we could chat someday.
FL here as well.

Chuck

 

[wood_thrush]

I know this is an old thread and you've probably already made a decision, but if not.

Oh boy I was in a similar position not too long ago and had been for many years. Dating for almost 10 years, I couldn't imagine my life without her. I thought I could keep ignoring the desire I had for a partner into zoo but the more I tried to ignore it the more I grew frustrated.
It got to the point where I felt like I couldn't be my true self with my partner and that was devastating. After years of gentle probing I was positive it wasn't something she'd ever be into or okay with.

Best decision I made was to end that relationship and try to find someone who I can be 100% honest with and who will accept or love all those aspects of me. I feel like I'm me again

So happy you feel like yourself - I am working towards something similar

I’ve told everyone I have dated who I was serious about and trusted. Usually went well.

Really glad to read that, and I wish to do the same in the future. Do you have any advice on preparing to tell someone?

 

[Mike4k9]

If they care about you they won’t judge.

 

[wood_thrush]

If they care about you they won’t judge.

Out of curiosity have you dated someone who didn't judge you for it but if you actually pursued and had sex with a nonhuman partner that was a dealbreaker for them?

 

[Mike4k9]

No. My gfs either got into it or were ok with me doing it. Some didn’t want to know when I played. Only 1 got mad and led me because they couldn’t handle it.

 

[Jostaca]

Don't forget, a percentage of that breakup often ends up with being doxed, reported to the police and having one's partners taken away forever, secretly recorded for blackmail, etc. ?

That's what's so scary. Putting yourself out there but having it backfire like that. The worst part is the nicest guys seem to be the worst for it. They say they're okay with being friends or having something casual but end up really not being okay with it.

 

[Wolfspirit]

That's what's so scary. Putting yourself out there but having it backfire like that. The worst part is the nicest guys seem to be the worst for it. They say they're okay with being friends or having something casual but end up really not being okay with it.

That's why, aside from paying close attention to what my intuition is telling me, if I am going to have a woman as a partner, she has to already be zoo and preferably already established with her own canine or equine mate so she won't have any reason to be jealous of me with my partner like my last human gf. I was lucky she wasn't the vengeful type. So many humans are generally speaking. My heart has two sides, one is for canines, the other is for a spiritual woman. One thing is for sure, I'm not living my life without a canine partner.