Dating and Zoophilia

[CharlesMiner]

Speaking from my own experience, I have dated 3 guys who I had talked to about it. Every single one of them said they were okay and even cool with or excited about it. But when a certain situation eventually came up, they couldn't really handle it well and it seemed to go downhill from there.

Ultimately it is up to you and how comfortable you are with him and whether or not he has any insecurities. And maybe you will have better luck.

Maybe you haven’t met the right guy?
I know men can be territorial. I hope we could chat someday.
FL here as well.

Chuck

 

[OffgridK9lover]

As a zoo and mostly exclusive, the only way things would work is she was the same, more just cohabitation for sound economic reasons, starting a family if things worked well, but we'd be with our respective 4 legged partners mostly, the issue comes into the issue of human nature, the average woman finds emotional infidelity more of a hard line where a male naturally views sex as the hard line.

With out a good mating of concepts and solid openness and honesty it is doomed to failure at best or years of objective misery at worst.

 

[wood_thrush]

I know this is an old thread and you've probably already made a decision, but if not.

Oh boy I was in a similar position not too long ago and had been for many years. Dating for almost 10 years, I couldn't imagine my life without her. I thought I could keep ignoring the desire I had for a partner into zoo but the more I tried to ignore it the more I grew frustrated.
It got to the point where I felt like I couldn't be my true self with my partner and that was devastating. After years of gentle probing I was positive it wasn't something she'd ever be into or okay with.

Best decision I made was to end that relationship and try to find someone who I can be 100% honest with and who will accept or love all those aspects of me. I feel like I'm me again

So happy you feel like yourself - I am working towards something similar

I’ve told everyone I have dated who I was serious about and trusted. Usually went well.

Really glad to read that, and I wish to do the same in the future. Do you have any advice on preparing to tell someone?

 

[Mike4k9]

If they care about you they won’t judge.

 

[wood_thrush]

If they care about you they won’t judge.

Out of curiosity have you dated someone who didn't judge you for it but if you actually pursued and had sex with a nonhuman partner that was a dealbreaker for them?

 

[Mike4k9]

No. My gfs either got into it or were ok with me doing it. Some didn’t want to know when I played. Only 1 got mad and led me because they couldn’t handle it.