@jellybean56
I am smirking at your expense, here. Women are often paranoid, yes, but often, they overestimate their own brilliance. I have known many men that were really genuinely overworked and pulling extra hours to try to keep up with bills, and their neglected wives took a lot of disparate evidence and assembled it into a hasty conclusion.
Women that do this are often the sorts that are obsessed with mystery novels, and because of their fascination with the genre, they can come to overestimate their own sleuthing ability, sort of in the same way that a man that watches too many boxing tournaments can get himself beaten to within an inch of his life by picking a fight with someone that is lighter-weight but more experienced at practical combat and less hesitant to cause serious injuries. They are not really the super-geniuses they think they are.
Women are not really more perceptive: they are just more likely to be delusionally narcissistic about their perception. There is a difference.
Also, it is technically true that men cheat more often, but exaggerating what that means constitutes "lying with statistics."
The most recent statistics on infidelity rates. Find out who’s the most likely to cheat in relationships and why.
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In the study cited, here, it is true that 20% of men have cheated, but it is also true that 13% of women have also cheated. While they are somewhat less likely to be interested in adultery, women are not really the paragons of moral purity they pretend to be. They are just better at getting away with it.
Furthermore, the study also found that rates of infidelity, among women, have been rising while rates among men have remained steady.
In general, I count myself as a feminist, but toxic virtue-signaling, either by women or on behalf of women, is really counter-productive.
Besides, the stereotype of women as being "morally virtuous" is really a form of "soft misogyny."
In fact, the stereotype of women being vengeful over the slightest infidelity also constitutes "soft misogyny."
Men can be just as toxic when they find out that their women are cheating on them, but they garner less sympathy. In general, society tends to find a "cuckold" to be more of a source of humor than of sympathy. "Your wife is cheating on you" is a commonplace taunt, and that taunt also tends to be a contributor to domestic violence. Calling men "cucks" because it sounds funny to say is just driving men to beating their wives black-and-blue over perceived infidelity, but people that think that this taunt is funny keep on doing it.
There is indeed such a thing as a paranoid, sexually frustrated woman that will do anything to find fault with her husband; however, those sorts of women are toxic heifers, and they really do not deserve anyone's sympathy. If they are dissatisfied with the relationship for reasons not related to infidelity, then they ought to consider experimenting with an open relationship, where they may date with other people. There is really no need to invent reasons for being dissatisfied when the bottom line is that one is dissatisfied. Instead of creating more problems, I find no fault with finding solutions.
