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Can I be a zoophile and still want a human boyfriend/lover?

My last partner was a zoo, we were friends first & he opened up as he suspected i was curious about dogs.
I always found that the deep emotional connection between him & the dogs were different. I craved his presence & physical interaction and I love him dearly.
My dogs have been there for all my ups & down and can be more emotionally supportive then most people.
These days Id rather interact with the dogs then another human male who doesn't understand how important & close I am to my dogs.

Theres nothing wrong with having both but sadly there are harsh consequences that can happen should you open up/get caught by someone who doesn't share your love for animals.
 
nia_5712 said:
My last partner was a zoo, we were friends first & he opened up as he suspected i was curious about dogs.
I always found that the deep emotional connection between him & the dogs were different. I craved his presence & physical interaction and I love him dearly.
My dogs have been there for all my ups & down and can be more emotionally supportive then most people.
These days Id rather interact with the dogs then another human male who doesn't understand how important & close I am to my dogs.

Theres nothing wrong with having both but sadly there are harsh consequences that can happen should you open up/get caught by someone who doesn't share your love for animals.
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Indeed i wish i could find a girl like that. Im in poly relationship my gf knows im a zoo ands cool with it but way before that wasnt sure how shed take at first she was weirded a bit but then she embraced it
 
justadude2 said:
I know the answer to this without a doubt is going to be a yes, but I am severely affected by all the stigma surrounding being zoosexual. I’ve always had a pretty even split for my love of men and animals, but I never really conceptualized my attraction towards animals as anything more than just a fetish until now. But I still really deeply want a boyfriend/husband for the rest of my life to genuinely love and cherish, that was and is something I always really liked about myself. After seeing all the extremely hateful generalizations and stereotypings of zoos I’m worried I might be an outlier.
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It's possible! I enjoy being a zoo, and my boyfriend knows and is open to me being involved in it.
 
nia_5712 said:
My last partner was a zoo, we were friends first & he opened up as he suspected i was curious about dogs.
I always found that the deep emotional connection between him & the dogs were different. I craved his presence & physical interaction and I love him dearly.
My dogs have been there for all my ups & down and can be more emotionally supportive then most people.
These days Id rather interact with the dogs then another human male who doesn't understand how important & close I am to my dogs.

Theres nothing wrong with having both but sadly there are harsh consequences that can happen should you open up/get caught by someone who doesn't share your love for animals.
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very true
 
If a person can be bisexual, I don’t see how it would be called wrong to be bispecial (if that’s a word.)
 
nia_5712 said:
My last partner was a zoo, we were friends first & he opened up as he suspected i was curious about dogs.
I always found that the deep emotional connection between him & the dogs were different. I craved his presence & physical interaction and I love him dearly.
My dogs have been there for all my ups & down and can be more emotionally supportive then most people.
These days Id rather interact with the dogs then another human male who doesn't understand how important & close I am to my dogs.

Theres nothing wrong with having both but sadly there are harsh consequences that can happen should you open up/get caught by someone who doesn't share your love for animals.
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Yeah that's the big worry. It shouldn't be, even if they don't approve they can just let it be, but they probably won't.
 
Most people are not zoo exclusive you know. I get the feeling from your posts you're new to this and figuring yourself out, but you seem to worry too much about labels and this and that and whatever and it's not about that at all.

It's about being 'you' no matter who that you is. No sense in putting labels on it. You're like a good 90% of other zoos still attracted to humans at least in some way or another. It doesn't make you more or less zoo than anyone else.
 
RebeccaAlx said:
I was, lets say a zoo exclusive for around a year until i have again a boyfriend, and the others after him in high school and college,
i also left Chamo, my first dog when a got independent from my house and I have some boyfriends in college, in that period of time Chamo die
Then i started to mate with my family second dog and also continue to have relatioships with boyfriends
I got married,and was my longest period with no relationship with a dog.
You can have lets say a normal life if you are a zoo, just be careful with the way of life you choose and enjoy the journey
My housband does not know I am a zoo
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Wow interesting, so how do you keep this part of your life a secret from him? Do you just not practice it anymore or do you secretly get away to do your thing when you can??
 
justadude2 said:
I know the answer to this without a doubt is going to be a yes, but I am severely affected by all the stigma surrounding being zoosexual. I’ve always had a pretty even split for my love of men and animals, but I never really conceptualized my attraction towards animals as anything more than just a fetish until now. But I still really deeply want a boyfriend/husband for the rest of my life to genuinely love and cherish, that was and is something I always really liked about myself. After seeing all the extremely hateful generalizations and stereotypings of zoos I’m worried I might be an outlier.
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Of course! I feel guilty that I don't know how to tell my bf I'm into dogs.
 
I would love to have a boyfriend to love as well as a dog! The more the merrier, right? ? There's nothing that says you can't love them both.
 
justadude2 said:
I know the answer to this without a doubt is going to be a yes, but I am severely affected by all the stigma surrounding being zoosexual. I’ve always had a pretty even split for my love of men and animals, but I never really conceptualized my attraction towards animals as anything more than just a fetish until now. But I still really deeply want a boyfriend/husband for the rest of my life to genuinely love and cherish, that was and is something I always really liked about myself. After seeing all the extremely hateful generalizations and stereotypings of zoos I’m worried I might be an outlier.
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Of course you can. Though I understand the worry somewhat, rejection and potential isolation as an average person with average interests is scary enough, but having all this other stuff as part of who you are just makes it all the more terrifying. But just know that you never have to pick between those parts, crazy as it may seem there are millions out there that want the same things you do and will accept you as is
 
I want to think that most people have normal human romantic relationships whilst still pursuing this as a fetish. It is up to you how much you want to live that out, or keep it a secret. I personally was ok with never telling an SO until i met my current bf. We fell in love, found out later we like the same things which is awesome but i think this is rare. with previous bfs i secretly watched videos etc and it did not affect our relationship.
 
Everyone is going to answer yes. And my view is yes not every zoo is exclusive. However. Personally I'm glad that I am. I can't imagine having to live a double life romantically because 9 times out of 10 your NOT gonna find someone who is accepting of zoo. I've seen so many online struggle with having feelings for a dog while in a relationship with a human at the same time. It's like trying to pull yourself in two different directions. Eventually something has to give. I'm not saying it's not possible. But hiding this part of yourself from someone you love, can you ever truly love them? Do they ever truly know or understand you? Anyhow That's my thoughts on this.
 
Being into human partners in addition to being into nonhuman partners doesn't change the fact you're into nonhuman partners. I used to be zoo exclusive when I was young, then I discovered zoo porn and fantasized about finding a zoolady to join my pack. If you don't love nonhuman partners like you do humans and you just seek them out because of unavailability of human partners, then you may not be zoophile. Bestialist maybe.
 
I don’t see this as a fetish I see it as a lifestyle even though I haven’t been with a nonhuman yet. But my partner would definitely have to be okay with it. It will be scary to bring up if you didn’t know for sure he or she was into it but yeah for me I would have to tell them and they would have to be ok with it.
 
KnottyGirl78 said:
I don’t see this as a fetish I see it as a lifestyle even though I haven’t been with a nonhuman yet. But my partner would definitely have to be okay with it. It will be scary to bring up if you didn’t know for sure he or she was into it but yeah for me I would have to tell them and they would have to be ok with it.
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I would be more then okay with that beeing brought up to me. ?
 
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