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Can I be a zoophile and still want a human boyfriend/lover?

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justadude2

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I know the answer to this without a doubt is going to be a yes, but I am severely affected by all the stigma surrounding being zoosexual. I’ve always had a pretty even split for my love of men and animals, but I never really conceptualized my attraction towards animals as anything more than just a fetish until now. But I still really deeply want a boyfriend/husband for the rest of my life to genuinely love and cherish, that was and is something I always really liked about myself. After seeing all the extremely hateful generalizations and stereotypings of zoos I’m worried I might be an outlier.
 
justadude2 said:
I know the answer to this without a doubt is going to be a yes, but I am severely affected by all the stigma surrounding being zoosexual. I’ve always had a pretty even split for my love of men and animals, but I never really conceptualized my attraction towards animals as anything more than just a fetish until now. But I still really deeply want a boyfriend/husband for the rest of my life to genuinely love and cherish, that was and is something I always really liked about myself. After seeing all the extremely hateful generalizations and stereotypings of zoos I’m worried I might be an outlier.
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You'll be fine.
 
It honestly doesn't matter who your with or what you are as long as you're happy. Nor does it matter what others think the only thing you should worry about is the fact that having attractions to and being in relationships with other species is not widely accepted so your choice of bf is limited to other zoos because of that.
 
just like any other orientation there is a wide range of attraction. example, you can be aroace and still want sex with someone. same here, you can be zoo and still want human sex. being zoo just means you like animals as a partner. zoo exclusive on the other hand...
 
Once youve figured out whom you are never apologize for it....you might not want to throw that into the public's face but be the person you are. There is not, contrary to popular belief, a reason why you cannot have a relationship that includes your critter and a human. Assuming you can find another accepting human, the critter won't be judgemental. All he or she will care about is food, water and the attention they crave....Fill those criteria and youre more than fine.
 
justadude2 said:
I know the answer to this without a doubt is going to be a yes, but I am severely affected by all the stigma surrounding being zoosexual. I’ve always had a pretty even split for my love of men and animals, but I never really conceptualized my attraction towards animals as anything more than just a fetish until now. But I still really deeply want a boyfriend/husband for the rest of my life to genuinely love and cherish, that was and is something I always really liked about myself. After seeing all the extremely hateful generalizations and stereotypings of zoos I’m worried I might be an outlier.
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Yes of course but u need a partner who understands and accepts you.
 
I was, lets say a zoo exclusive for around a year until i have again a boyfriend, and the others after him in high school and college,
i also left Chamo, my first dog when a got independent from my house and I have some boyfriends in college, in that period of time Chamo die
Then i started to mate with my family second dog and also continue to have relatioships with boyfriends
I got married,and was my longest period with no relationship with a dog.
You can have lets say a normal life if you are a zoo, just be careful with the way of life you choose and enjoy the journey
My housband does not know I am a zoo
 
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Knot4bitchboi said:
i think what is important is to just be honest with your partners and find what works and doesn't work *hugs*
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I would have to disagree here. While yes, honesty and communication is of upmost importance in a healthy relationship. And her partner deserves the truth, we are not talking about "just some kink" .. but about something that is illegal in a lot of countries, and seen as disgusting, and morally wrong by the majority of people. She could not only ruin her relationship entirely, but also her life. I would never ever tell a partner, friend, or family member about it if there werent any signs beforehand.
 
There are zoos who are only interested in nonhuman partners, and there are zoos who are interested in nonhuman and human partners.

The difficulty for those who want to have both human and nonhuman partners is that you end up living a double life before you know it. Honesty is important in relationships, but what will you do when you confide in your human partner about your other love interests, only to be met with horror and disgust?

Broadly, there are 4 scenarios here when you tell your partner about your zoo interests
1. Your human partner is interested and wants to join in
2. Your partner tolerates that side of you as long as you don't shove it in their face
3. Your partner is disgusted by what you told them and demands you to stop
4. Your partner is disgusted, ends the relationship and might use this knowledge to slander you all over town

Only by confiding in your partner you know what the answer will be, but once it's out there it's not going away. You cannot "untell" about your zoo life whatever the reaction will be, and that is why many zoos end up living a double life.

There is absolutely no judgement there on my behalf, as I have done the double life: dating while still trying to figure out my zoo feelings. In the end we broke up before I had figured it all out, but thinking back, I wonder whether I ever would have told her.
 
GO ZOO OR GO HOME!

I'm joking of course. Yes, many in the zoo community are not exclusive to animals. The problem is finding a relationship that allows you to express who you fully are. For example, if your romantic to both animals and humans, love needs to be shared.

That's assuming you cross the first hurdle of actually finding a zoo/zoo friendly partner.

But yes. You can be zoo and still be attracted to and/or involved with humans.
 
justadude2 said:
I know the answer to this without a doubt is going to be a yes, but I am severely affected by all the stigma surrounding being zoosexual. I’ve always had a pretty even split for my love of men and animals, but I never really conceptualized my attraction towards animals as anything more than just a fetish until now. But I still really deeply want a boyfriend/husband for the rest of my life to genuinely love and cherish, that was and is something I always really liked about myself. After seeing all the extremely hateful generalizations and stereotypings of zoos I’m worried I might be an outlier.
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Yes OC, have enjoyed relationships with both sexes.
 
Just wanna say thank you everyone for the kind words I’m currently still trying to accept that I’ve loved animals and people just the same my entire life and I’m trying to remove the shame of that also including romantic/sexual attractions. If anything I used to really like it about myself, the idea of having a man and an animal who I love dearly, it just seems like such a perfect happy life more then being alone with one or the other. Each one just gives such different and beautiful experiences.
 
justadude2 said:
Just wanna say thank you everyone for the kind words I’m currently still trying to accept that I’ve loved animals and people just the same my entire life and I’m trying to remove the shame of that also including romantic/sexual attractions. If anything I used to really like it about myself, the idea of having a man and an animal who I love dearly, it just seems like such a perfect happy life more then being alone with one or the other. Each one just gives such different and beautiful experiences.
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Np brother we all been there i used to keep very quiet to myself about it
 
WilloKnot said:
My only advice would be to either try to find a fellow zoo, or at least be honest and open about who you are with whoever is your special someone. Honesty in a relationship goes a long way. Especially if you want things to work.

If you have to lie, and hide who you are things simply aren't going to work.
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truer words and all that sentiment, thank you for stating that we agree
 
my parter and i are very lucky to have eachother i am 34 she is 20 we are both zoos and she and i have our boy whom we rescued, and we are looking for another woman to add to our life we wish to have a sister wife added to our happy loving zoo family
 
WarriorEnigma said:
my parter and i are very lucky to have eachother i am 34 she is 20 we are both zoos and she and i have our boy whom we rescued, and we are looking for another woman to add to our life we wish to have a sister wife added to our happy loving zoo family
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Nice im a guy without a dog and my gf knows i like the stuff and is fine with it idk anyone around my area it sucks i feel stuck
 
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