A Firm Hand
Tourist
Humiliation is not a necessary part of BDSM. I don't enjoy humiliating a sub. I prefer a sub who is submissive, knows it, loves it and revels in it. To me, if I humiliate my sub what does that say about me?Yes, but minus the humiliation
If you ever dabble, make sure you clearly tell your Dom no humiliation. If he/she has a problem with that they aren't the Dom for you