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Are most of these female posts real?

That's very true. But you're definitely real? Your profile pic looks too good to be true as well. Lol or is that just a random pic?
 
curiousdog11 said:
I can't seem to meet any real women into zoo stuff in my real life so I was just wondering if a lot of the females on here are fake? Let me know what your opinion is. Thanks
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Not everything is what it seems, my friend, many are real and open to chatting about the subject and learning more about it, but in some cases they are victims of harassment and simply hide, and in other cases they can Becoming men behind a woman's profile, And that is unpleasant for those of us who are looking for a real friendship.
 
Parejazoolover said:
Not everything is what it seems, my friend, many are real and open to chatting about the subject and learning more about it, but in some cases they are victims of harassment and simply hide, and in other cases they can Becoming men behind a woman's profile, And that is unpleasant for those of us who are looking for a real friendship.
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Exactly. Harassed and belittling with shitty comments.
 
Very nice! How is every zoo girl so perfect and good looking though? That makes me be a little sus about some of the female profiles on here
 
There are real females here. Quite a lot of them, in the context of a male dominated site.

But, most of the female members you see or chat with are catfish or scammers.

The vast majority of real females here tend to keep low profile because men are dicks far too often. Or more correctly some men who have no idea how social interaction works because they've never actually met a woman who isnt their mom.
 
Dogdaddy69 said:
There are real females here. Quite a lot of them, in the context of a male dominated site.

But, most of the female members you see or chat with are catfish or scammers.

The vast majority of real females here tend to keep low profile because men are dicks far too often. Or more correctly some men who have no idea how social interaction works because they've never actually met a woman who isnt their mom.
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Thank you
 
Brenda_45 said:
You must learn to have a meaningful conversation before asking personal questions.
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Funny, I was just going to say something just like you say here.

You show up here, he goes immediately to your 'sexy body'............

@curiousdog11 .....dude, you do that, you creep most women out right from the get go.....maybe you dont know that, maybe you dont care, but, you should, on both counts.

And if they arent creeped out, its a MAJOR turn off.

Thats the verbal equivalent of your eyes never leaving her tits.

Relax, slow down. TALK TO her first before you talk ABOUT her. Go slower.
 
curiousdog11 said:
Yothink you're right. How long do you think you should wait before you ask a girl that personal of a question?
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That's a subjective answer. There are a lot of possible right answers to that question.

And all of those answers will depend on the context of other variables. Where, when, who being the most obvious of them.

There is a definitive wrong answer, and that's what I just alluded to. Immediately is ALWAYS wrong, for a whole lot of reasons.

Always is actually too strong a statement, because there are times when that will fly, but explaning the how and when of that is a 5000 word manifesto. So let's call it almost never ever do that.

For now, for your purposes, let's just say never and call that good for now so we don't muddy the waters.

Because in this case there isn't a direct and definable situation, let's say the best answer is Let HER lead. You chat, talk about ANYTHING not sex related in any way, mundane normal, every day types of shit are best, and let the conversation flow from there. And, let her take the lead in anything related to sex, if she doesn't, GO WITH THAT.

Women like sex too, and if she's interested in discussing that with you, she WILL.

Two important points here......#1 You'll need to be ABLE to just talk about regular shit or it's all going no where anyway, you can only fuck for so long, and then what do you do when you can't talk about normal daily shit?

#2........any time you attempt to push into sex related territory too fast, the IMMEDIATE impression she has is you suck. OR you're too fucking desperate........and NOTHING dries up a pussy like the whiff of desperation.

Relax, be chill, go with the flow, and let her drive. YOU have to actually allow HER to see that you aren't a dickhead, and acting like one ruins that right from the word go. That doesn't mean she wont ever get the idea you're a dickhead, but if you show like one immediately, she's never going to be around long enough to know you AREN'T.
 
Damn! Thanks for taking the time to write me such good info. I'm usually way too in a hurry to talk about sex but it's no fun investing too much time with someone you don't have much in common with. But I bet your method works much better in the long run
 
curiousdog11 said:
I can't seem to meet any real women into zoo stuff in my real life so I was just wondering if a lot of the females on here are fake? Let me know what your opinion is. Thanks
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Spend some time reading here, bud. This is a pretty rare taboo for either sex. The numbers suggest that less that three percent of the entire world population are engaged in this on any kind of repeat basis. There are far more men than women within that number. That means maybe one in a hundred women are active. Reality Check: That one has likely got her own place, a job, a vehicle, and a Canine or other lover. So...
you ask a hundred gals....and no one bites...Ask yourself THIS....What are you bringing to her table she doesn't already have?....Your glorious self just wanting to watch?

Bet on it....if you've asked a hundred women the question, at least ONE blew you off with a denial.

That doesn't mean they're all fake here...in fact there are far more females here than most users think. Learn to tell them from the males...it isn't that hard. Then try being social...
It starts with a friendship, or it doesn't start.
 
puppyluvrcda said:
Lots of us are real. But often get scared off/nervous when the men are SUPER aggressive.

We are still people. So, you know, maybe talk to us as such? Opening with "omg show me your tits tell me everything you have fucked" isn't great
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You are super correct. I need to learn how to control my dirty ass mind a little better. Lol

saddlebum66 said:
Spend some time reading here, bud. This is a pretty rare taboo for either sex. The numbers suggest that less that three percent of the entire world population are engaged in this on any kind of repeat basis. There are far more men than women within that number. That means maybe one in a hundred women are active. Reality Check: That one has likely got her own place, a job, a vehicle, and a Canine or other lover. So...
you ask a hundred gals....and no one bites...Ask yourself THIS....What are you bringing to her table she doesn't already have?....Your glorious self just wanting to watch?

Bet on it....if you've asked a hundred women the question, at least ONE blew you off with a denial.

That doesn't mean they're all fake here...in fact there are far more females here than most users think. Learn to tell them from the males...it isn't that hard. Then try being social...
It starts with a friendship, or it doesn't start.
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See those are some very slim numbers. But they are out there though. More are probably men that have got a woman to try it, it wasn't their idea first
 
curiousdog11 said:
See those are some very slim numbers. But they are out there though. More are probably men that have got a woman to try it, it wasn't their idea first
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Dont start jumping to conclusions, bud. yes the numbers are slim....But Ill tell you this, since Im not naming names. I have met ten Females who play or who have played this game. One was the love of my life. and several were far more than friends.
Not ONE was led into this by a man. Do the work, before you fail yet again.
 
I've been with a small handful of women in my life and 3 of them have admitted to having interest in Zoo. I think it's a lot more common than society cares to admit because of the social stigma and taboo. Most people would bring it to their graves or die before they'd admit it. Meanwhile, three totally normal women, a Kindergarten Teacher, a Nurse, and a Medical Tech all have the same interest and fantasy. While none of them have done anything in real life (that I know of) it IS something we have watched together and role played. I personally have never brought it up first, call me a coward or cautious. My wife actually openly admitted it to me one day through a series of getting to know one another and bearing it all after many many years of being together. She was so relieved when I laughed and said, "oh yeah, I like that too!"

She is not active on forums, but does like to engage through me so we "share" an account here. I'm the more cautious one while she is more trusting. She's expressed taking a first step, but it's something I want to make sure we are both okay with, that it's with someone who is trustworthy, and that aftercare and safety is provided. Considering social stigmas and consequences, it's not something I take lightly.. and people sadly cannot be trusted.
 
saddlebum66 said:
Dont start jumping to conclusions, bud. yes the numbers are slim....But Ill tell you this, since Im not naming names. I have met ten Females who play or who have played this game. One was the love of my life. and several were far more than friends.
Not ONE was led into this by a man. Do the work, before you fail yet again.
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You're right, I shouldn't be making any conclusions
 
I think something else needs to be said here too.

Guys are SUPER SUPER bad about having the concept that anything with a pussy that likes k9 sex is a win. That's just not true. It will work out mostly ok if your ENTIRE goal is to get in there, score and bail. MOSTLY, but also not always. For Hit and Run, yeah, maybe, if you can STAND her long enough to get there, but anything involving more than that, guys gotta raise their standards a bit.

Guys, HERE especially, are WAY WAY to aggressive and way too desperate, and way too fucking thirsty. And the women who are here acting like that, THOSE are men, not women. Are there aggressive women? Yes. But even VERY aggressive women aren't THAT aggressive. So, put that info in your bag and consult it going forward.

Guys here, mostly, but not always, because of the aggressive, desperation generally come accross here in general as having no standards at all.

Now.......I want to be VERY clear here for everyone reading this........NO one is perfect. NO ONE. But too, not everyone is acceptable for everyone else. The men here really really need to stop slobbering over any and every female account they come across. Firstly because it gets them NOWHERE. And secondly because that just leads to more catfish. More flakes. More attention whores. You can't score with any of those types anyway, even the attention whore variety of real female, because she isn't here for that, she's here for internet asspats and empty validation from strangers. And real anything is too real for her, she'll bail on you first chance she gets. If not a ghosting, than a no show. GET THAT IDEA IN YOUR HEAD NOW, it will save you a lot of time and frustration later. Trust me there.

Also, just like everywhere else, you have toxic people here. Men AND women. AVOID people like that.

Because they're people too, you'll run into toxic women. I can name you 7 right off the top of my head, including 1 who actually was in a K9 video. I won't name her because I ain't that guy. But, I did flat out tell her she was toxic as fuck in a thread somewhere on here, because she comes across that way a lot. And she's actually the least toxic of the 7 I have in mind.

I'm not trying to bash women here, on the whole, there are a WHOLE LOT more toxic guys here. I'm just trying to make the point that just being into this doesn't automatically make her someone you should even want to chat with, let alone meet.

I guess the best way to say it so it makes sense is take the k9 out of it and ask yourself would I want to meet this person? If you need k9 in there to get to yes, walk away.

Go to the porn section, look in those threads. READ the comments. This time, maybe ask yourself how you'd feel if someone said that to your mom. And, the next step.......ANY of those comments you wouldn't want directed at your mom, THAT is shit you don't want coming out of YOUR mouth here or anywhere else when talking to women. Odds are, she will BE someones mom, or already is and trust me, most of the time, she doesn't want to hear it either.

I don't know how old you are, but I get the impression you're very young......... (compared to me, everyone but @saddlebum66 is very young though)

So, let me try to save you a lot of frustration in this area of life.......you probably already know this, it's commonly known and talked about, but as you get older and more life experienced, it's going to become more and more deeply clear to you that men and women DO NOT think about sex in the same ways. They LIKE sex, I'm not trying to say they don't, but the way it's thought about and processed in the mind is COMPLETELY different. MOST of that is the amount of testosterone running wild in your system, not all, but most, and when you get to be older and that shit dials back a little bit, that concept will make a WHOLE lot more sense to you in a way it never could now, because you're still in the DURING stage, once it does drop off some, you'll then have the AFTER stage of viewing to compare that to and it will make much more sense to you.

For now though, nothing you can do but ride the storm and enjoy the ride while it lasts. BUT, even if it will be years from now before you really truly understand what I just said.........save yourself some frustration and some time, and just accept the idea that however YOU think about sex, her process is very very different than yours is now.........so do yourself a favor and let her lead you, at HER pace. Once you GET in the door, go fuckin nuts if you want, but you won't be doing much of that if you keep slamming the door in your own face.
 
Dogdaddy69 said:
@saddlebum66

Sorry to throw you under the bus buddy. For whatever its worth, I hope like hell I make it to where you are and it's not even all that far.
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Which bus? Long as it ain't the short one....And since Im planning to live forever, or at least outlive my Ex( with her genetics, that could be 30 years yet) I ain't worried. RA not withstanding, all the important stuff works.
 
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