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Anyone had a positive experience confessing bestiality to their partner?

Depends on your relationship too. If you have love, trust, amazing sex and can satisfy your partner regularly, AND deliver the news correctly, they will be much more receptive. All of my recent exes have been extremely kinky, but they weren't that way when I met them. I have found that super kinky girls (and I assume guys too) aren't born, you have to help create them. That's why people that are like "Hey M 33 athletic with good build looking for girl into dogs" probably are never going to get anywhere. Chances are, that really kinky person you are looking for is the person you are already with. I have gotten too many of my long term GFs into too much kinky stuff to believe that i just got "lucky" that many times in a row. Patience, love, trust, give them LOTS of orgasms, repeat. Did I mention patience?
 
I told my boyfriend I was into zoo. He's pretty kinky and was fine with it so I was really happy about that. But told me that as long as we're together I can't be with any animals as he sees whatever animal (probably dog) that I'm with as a man as well and would consider it cheating. He's not into cuckolding or hotwifing so that's a big no on my zoo activity for now. It sucks but I can understand and respect it. We'll occasionally watch zoo porn while we're having sex or doing foreplay so he is accommodating my attraction.

Though I really sometimes wish to sneak off and take a knot lol.
 
I had a good confession and things only seem to be getting better, lol.
I finally told him after nearly a year and a half in, he wouldn't stop bugging me about my "one secret kink". He didn't even bat an eye, but then again he's been roleplaying online for awhile now so I'm sure he's read some shit. He actually said he found it less odd than my watersports kink -the first being kind of a natural response to a compatible and close animal companion and the other one just icky.
In any case, I still don't really expect it to happen irl or at least anytime soon. But since then he's dirty talked about it a couple of times ? and yesterday he told me he'd be interested in seeing some of the videos I find
 
tm4knot said:
I had a good confession and things only seem to be getting better, lol.
I finally told him after nearly a year and a half in, he wouldn't stop bugging me about my "one secret kink". He didn't even bat an eye, but then again he's been roleplaying online for awhile now so I'm sure he's read some shit. He actually said he found it less odd than my watersports kink -the first being kind of a natural response to a compatible and close animal companion and the other one just icky.
In any case, I still don't really expect it to happen irl or at least anytime soon. But since then he's dirty talked about it a couple of times ? and yesterday he told me he'd be interested in seeing some of the videos I find
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Ahhhh... I am super into water sports. But its always been the opposite for me- meaning the girls are into watersports but when I tell them about the zoo videos I watch, they are like whahhhhhhh?
 
I recently told my gf after making jokes about it for years. She told me she actually knew I had an affinity for zoo life because of the jokes I had made and how I tend to be open minded with kinks, etc. I actually purchased her a toy for Christmas and goddamn have we used the hell out of it. I pushed the subject a little the other night about watching videos and she seemed receptive so hoping to take that next step soon. As to whether this will ever turn into anything else I'm really not sure. She sure as hell gets worked up over ther Rex toy though.

My best advice is really to just feel out the situation and determine if it's worth it for you. Do you trust your partner enough not to judge you or be disgusted by your confession? Is telling them worth the possibility of losing them? In my case, I knew my gf wouldn't judge me so I took the leap. Really glad I did.
 
Not my case though, i haven't "confessed" and she just met me knowing i was into it. But with time her interest faded away and then she just dropped it, even telling me to stop thinking about this and not counting on her to be into this as well
 
Started when I was dating my wife (about 10+ years ago) and we were having sex. My dog at the time, Smokey (he's a black lab), came in to see what's going on. He jumped in the bed with us....at that moment, I was eating her out. My wife was oblivious because she was enjoying the moment. I coax Smokey and he started to lick her pussy. It went from there... The key is having a partner is open minded and sexually adventurous. Just remember not to push it if they don't like it.
 
Its funny how things work out. 7 years ago or so we were drinking and somehow I mentioned that I have had sex with our dog before. She knows I love having anal sex and I think she thought I had experiences with other guys. Any way, I told her the only anal sex I ever had was with dogs. I remember that she was not happy at all about that so I just left it. She also knows of my experiences with my mother abusing me, so I also think she understood. Any way, a few weeks later we had a bunch of people over for a camp fire and were drinking pretty heavy again. After all the guest left we started playing around by the camp fire. Next thing I know she is helping our dog fuck my ass... Since then she has been involved with our dog just as much as me. So even though they may seem not to like the idea,, over time they might give it a try. Oh, and by the way, we live out in the country and have no neighbors for about 2 km, He have lots of privacy.
 
Unfortunately / fortunately I know a lady that's interested but neither one of us own as well as another guy that's into it. We also know a couple in Who own and want to but the dog is selling not interested. I myself like to find a long time relationship in this.
 
After my first marriage broke up (for a variety of reasons but mostly because she cheated on me) I knew I would need to make this part of me clear to my next partner from the start. My ex was more or less ok with it but was always a bit creeped out. I told my new relationship about a month after we started dating. She has always been supportive and though it still is clearly my thing and not hers, she is willing to play with it and be sex positive for me. Like everything in a relationship, it takes work.
 
I told my wife about two years ago. She’s been nothing but accepting of all of my proclivities. She doesn’t share the fantasy but we add zoo porn to the mix when we’re getting amongst it, and we’ve recently purchased a k9 dildo which is probably as close to real play as we will engage in together - but I’m very lucky and feel content with the fact that I can share my thoughts and feelings with her in an open and supportive environment. I’ll probably always have a spark of hope that we can share experiences together, but I don’t feel isolated and alone anymore - and the weekend drives playing “spot the horsie dick” are fun as fuck.
 
I've had a variety of odd experiences, including a partner that wanted to try it, but when she found out I did, she got all creeped out.
My current partners when I told them, they had their own experiences to relate and to and thought this wasn't unusual, as where they grew up, every teenage kid was "losin' it" in some barn :D
 
Since there have been no more posts i sm guessing it fid not turn out well
 
Qwazycupcakes said:
I wanna tell my boyfriend so bad but I'm scared he would judge me.
Any other girls out there that told their bf and if ended up okay?
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Bad idea.Your boyfriend will know, and the friends of your boyfriend will also know everything, and soon, more sooner than you expected, you will be known by the "one who fuck with dogs".
 
It's very complicated if we both don't like it ...
Feelings of guilt are created ... and the relationship can go into crisis ... before saying it it is better to investigate ...
I did so ...
And in fact I'm single ...
But happily coupled ...
 
You've gotten some great advice and feedback already. Before you tell your partner, you need to gauge how they feel. Because, disaster would follow, if they don't. You would just have to bring the subject up, and then limit your vulnerability when you talk about the subject. Meaning, don't admit, you practice, but maybe admit you've seen the porn and liked it. If they respond in disgust, you can laugh and say you would never do it and then you don't fantasize about it. You just enjoyed seeing someone else do something outrageous, that one time. The appropriate response is to laugh it off, roll your eyes and not get angry at all, if they tease you about it.

And, you probably don't want to be with someone, if this is a fetish you truly want to enjoy. Long term, you won't be happy.
 
AriesAngyl said:
I could not imagine sharing any of this in real with someone I was dating. Very risky in my mind.

if we broke up or if he blabbed around. OMG I would be mortified.
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I have learned this little truism.... Your partner always has the gun; mind what ammo you give them.
 
I was once showing a bestiality video to a friend, and my girlfriend at the time accidentally saw. She said it made her feel sick, and didn't want to see any more, but we stayed together for almost ten years after that, so it didn't make her reject me (and we're still friends now). I told a later girlfriend about liking to watch girls with dogs, and she actually asked me to show her a video of it. But she was more curious just to see what it was like, and didn't find it arousing at all.
 
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