Anyone ever feel…

[JayUK]

Listen up to anyone who needs some tips on accepting yourself then listen here.

Remember this... you are who you are... human... curious creatures that if we weren't we never would of evolved so far.... imperfect... and unique....

Everyone is wired differently.. unique. One person may have severe mental disabilities.. another doesn't... one likes tea... the other doesn't.... one likes zoophilia and another doesn't.

And for anyone with anxiety issues this will help too....

We can't change the past.. but we can change today and tomorrow.

We all have things in our lives that sometimes we wish we didn't have... some being major events and others smaller... but it is past and nothing can be done...

So it's part of you... part of you that makes you who you today. Have you made progress? Have you learnt and become wiser?

Then be ok with your past... be ok that its part of you... we all have them so your surely not alone... and we can all in some way relate... finding others into the same interests means your not alone.

We all thought there must be something wrong with me thing in this life... but we assure you are totally fine... you just have different tastes to some... like any other thing

Be ok with who you are.... be ok with your past... be ok with everything... be ok with whatever comes that day.... as you never know what it could be.

Once you can just be ok with everything it becomes easier... you accept yourself in time and you feel better.

If you feel anxious a lot of people will concentrate on it.. the actual feeling in your tummy... by doing so you atune yourself to the rythyms of the body and start to feel everything else you normally don't notice... you will get heart palpitations (when you notice your heartbeat more) which in turn causes you to breathe heavier. Panic sets in and boom you have an attack. So when you get the feeling just be ok with it being there knowing its normal.... it would be abnormal for people to not feel badly for things they didn't like.

Be OK

Be ok with everything


Don't worry too much as you never know what's gonna happen... so don't worry about what ifs either... if it's bad then you will just deal with it at the point as its never has hard as we believe it to be.

Love to all

 

[frtlzher]

Like others have said it definitely comes in waves… usually when I come across harmful things or see the negatives. But it is reassuring to know that there are plenty of other people out there struggling with the same thing!

 

[zvegazmars]

I'm bound and determined to hit every branch on the way down by being into animals too.

All for your goals

 

[wood_thrush]

Hi all, anyone ever feel guilty or gross? Sometimes I go through waves of it but I just can’t stop fantasizing about K9 cock so I usually just shrug and move on with enjoying it, especially if I’m gonna try it IRL!

this is for the others here too - what exactly is gross about it? Maybe it has to do with some level of shame that could be resolved somehow? I don't personally find it gross at all, but when I think of people being put off by sexual things in general ad how that seems to do with how we typically are taught that sex is bad (when it isn't, of course)

 

[bigschtick]

This is why I came here.. this is a feeling I have been going back and fourth with for a decade now. My experiences started when I was too young to fully know better- and oddly now it’s become an obsession because normal sex just doesn’t do it for me. I go through the same waves where I get repulsed but then I always find myself crawling back for more. Sometimes I think it’s just the societal stigmas and expectations that make me feel a need to be repulsed by actions and interests.. I can’t help to wonder if I’d feel more free if that wasn’t always in the back of my head about this. I sometimes wish I could go back to just being okay with vanilla play but I like my sex to be sloppy and depraved now.

This is quite relatable, I gotta say.