My New Companion thread has been removed and I honestly don't know why

SaltyDog

Citizen of Zooville
I'm at a loss for words here. I felt that I have been following all the rules here. I've put in so much time and effort into my thread. It was a celebration of my new companion and all the wonderful things around her life. Please help me to know why this has happened and if things can be restored. Hopefully, whatever was "wrong" can be removed and things can get back to normal.

SaltyDog... 🐕
 
Because you had sex with your dog, which is not yet 1 year old. It would have been enough to delete just that comment, but the thread would have flame, so the whole thing was deleted.

Basically, be happy that you didn't get banned permanently, usually other members are banned at this time, not just delete the thread.


I hope this helps.
Salty Loves His Golden... 🐕
 
While I appreciate this from you, I'm puzzled as to why I haven't heard a single peep from the mods. I have combed through the rules many times and I have found nothing about not posting about having sex with a dog that's less than 12 months old. If you know where that is, I'd love to see that.

Thank you,
SaltyDog... 🐕
 
While I appreciate this from you, I'm puzzled as to why I haven't heard a single peep from the mods. I have combed through the rules many times and I have found nothing about not posting about having sex with a dog that's less than 12 months old. If you know where that is, I'd love to see that.

Thank you,
SaltyDog... 🐕
4. Anything involving prepubescent animals (puppies, young fillies, calf, etc.) & reptiles are not allowed.
No depictions of sexual acts with partners who have no way of enjoying the acts such as reptiles, insects, etc.

  • The animal must be of breeding age.
12 month old is not considered breeding age in dogs.
 
12 month old is not considered breeding age in dogs.
If we actually take the time and look up the word "prepubescent" you will find that, when a mammal has their 1st estrus, they are no longer deemed "prepubescent". And if any female dog is left to her own devices, they will mate with a male dog without objection and become pregnant. This is life.

Please do not misunderstand my statements, above. If the rules are not to post about having sex with a dog that's less than 12 months old... fine, I'm happy to comply. But, as you can clearly see, the rules do not state this. I would never knowingly break any of the rules posted here at ZV. This rule MUST be clarified. IMHO.

SaltyDog... 🐕
 
If we actually take the time and look up the word "prepubescent" you will find that, when a mammal has their 1st estrus, they are no longer deemed "prepubescent". And if any female dog is left to her own devices, they will mate with a male dog without objection and become pregnant. This is life.

Please do not misunderstand my statements, above. If the rules are not to post about having sex with a dog that's less than 12 months old... fine, I'm happy to comply. But, as you can clearly see, the rules do not state this. I would never knowingly break any of the rules posted here at ZV. This rule MUST be clarified. IMHO.

SaltyDog... 🐕
It says BREEDING AGE.

Just because a dog CAN breed, doesn[t mean they SHOULD breed. Humans enter puberty between 10 and 13, they shouldn't be having kids then. Having sex with a dog soon after puberty is the same as having sex with a human right after puberty. They may be physically developed, but not mentally, and not fully physically either.


The first thing to consider is her age – as a rule of thumb, dogs start their seasons in their second year of life; however, this is really variable – especially between breeds, as giant breed dogs are much slower to reach maturity than small breeds are. Generally speaking, however, it is never wise to breed a bitch for the first time under 1 year of age and over 7. For most dogs, however, 2 years of age is the safe minimum.
 
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I noticed this also. Floofy gave an explanation when I asked him about it:

It says BREEDING AGE.

Just because a dog CAN breed, doesn[t mean they SHOULD breed. Humans enter puberty between 10 and 13, they shouldn't be having kids then. Having sex with a dog soon after puberty is the same as having sex with a human right after puberty. They may be physically developed, but not mentally, and not fully physically either.


The first thing to consider is her age – as a rule of thumb, dogs start their seasons in their second year of life; however, this is really variable – especially between breeds, as giant breed dogs are much slower to reach maturity than small breeds are. Generally speaking, however, it is never wise to breed a bitch for the first time under 1 year of age and over 7. For most dogs, however, 2 years of age is the safe minimum.
But these are "discussions" within threads. So someone has to comb through tens of thousands of these threads to find whatever "discussions" that may be applied as a new rule? Really? This makes no sense.

Again... I have zero problems adhering to rules that are laid out here at ZV. But they must be laid out in the actual Rules section. This is not unreasonable for me to say. Otherwise, you all just get to shoot someone down because of some hard to find discussion that's buried in some thread somewhere.
 
Hello to all here. 1st and foremost, I'd like to apologize to everyone. I never wanted to offend anyone, and I never knowingly broke any rules here. Had I of known that these discussions were to be applied as actual rules, I never would've posted anything of the likes as I had. I realize that my decades of experience has provided me with a lot of insight into the well-being of dogs, especially around intimacy with them. Having said that, I understand that a site like this must take a stand where they feel it's in the best interest of the public at large and how they are to treat they're animals. And, if you'll note, I have cautioned many others openly here at ZV to wait until her second heat before proceeding. This is because they are inexperienced and are asking for advice.

As for my posts on this, I only posted these things simply because there are no rules spelled out in the actual Rules section about not doing so. So, I was completely unaware that I would be in violation in doing so. I was merely sharing from my heart, all of the joy an happiness that my dog and I have been experiencing together. I love her to the ends of the earth, and would never do ANYthing to harm her in any way shape or form. I, mistakenly, thought it was accepted behavior to post on such things here, as it is not stated otherwise in the official Rules.

Again I deeply apologize for all this.

SaltyDog... 🐕
 
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But these are "discussions" within threads. So someone has to comb through tens of thousands of these threads to find whatever "discussions" that may be applied as a new rule? Really? This makes no sense.
No. That's from the rules stating "Breeding Age", and a veterinary website defining acceptable breeding age for dogs.
 
No. That's from the rules stating "Breeding Age", and a veterinary website defining acceptable breeding age for dogs.
Once again... way too thin of an argument. "Rules" must always be clearly spelled out, especially when serious repercussions like deletion of an entire thread is at stake. Plus, there are 2 things that are very different as they apply here. 1st, no veterinarian that I know would ever agree to have their views to apply to sexual interactions between humans and dogs... and 2nd, these views on "acceptable breeding ages for dogs" is because of the resulting pregnancy, and last I checked, no human male can get a dog pregnant.

Having said this, please understand that this, in no way, justifies what I posted in my thread. I stand by my apology.

SaltyDog... 🐕
 
I agree that the most frequently broken rules should be listed in a QuickRules section, it is easier for people to read.
And the years must be determined based on the date, not the "breeding age". This makes it easier to understand and follow.
 
@FloofyNewfie Do you remember posting this?:
Most recommend at least the second heat to start. Usually heats are 6-7 months apart from one another. So you're looking at about 10 months, give or take. But some zoos will do light fingering and masturbation on the first heat, but be VERY careful doing that. Usually bitches are still finding their way in the world, and it only takes one bad experience at that age to kind of make them wary of sex for the rest of their life, and also cause potential behavioral issues.

Edit: I should also specify that the general consensus is the third heat being the most ideal time to fully start having sex.
You can find it here.
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Your above post is in response to someone asking:
Hi, I have a 4 month old husky dog, and I was wondering at what age do you recommend having sex with her?

You can find that here.
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How is it that you state "...about 10 months, give or take." for someone else is just fine, and yet I get deleted for doing the very same? Your rules here at ZV claim:
4. Anything involving prepubescent animals (puppies, young fillies, calf, etc.) & reptiles are not allowed.
No depictions of sexual acts with partners who have no way of enjoying the acts such as reptiles, insects, etc.

  • The animal must be of breeding age.
So, by your own post, it is plain to see that you do agree that "...10 months..." is OK. After all, you are an administrator, right? My dog was more than 10 months old. And if your other moderator needs a copy of all my veterinary records of my dog, giving dates and birth records provided by the people that sold me the dog, I can easily provide them to you to thereby establish her age, regardless of what another mod may think her age "appears" to be in the pic I posted.

While there is a lot of discussion on what breeding age may or may not be, there is nothing in the rules establishing any hard and fast numbers on what that age, is in actual numbers. Please remember, these are discussions are not rules. Recommendations are not rules. Advisements are not rules. I've consulted the rules, multiple times before I ever posted ANYthing about me having sex with my dog.

And then there's the "...light fingering and masturbation on the 1st heat..." part of your post. This is sexual activity, is it not? And so, yes, I used my penis. OK. But I believe you can see now that your rules here at ZV are extremely vague indeed, when it comes to exactly what the minimum age requirement is for M/F copulation with a dog.

I contend that I have followed all the rules as best as they could be understood, given all of the varying numbers given in so many discussions. Some say 12 months, others say more, In your discussion, you stated 10 months. And for following this, my entire thread gets deleted. Extremely unfair, to say the absolute least!

In light of these facts, I respectfully request that my thread: "My New Companion" be restored. If you feel that posts depicting sexual activity must be removed, I can easily live with that. And I further request that all posts by @amorousdog5 also be completely removed. Furthermore, I request that @amorousdog5 be directed by ZV to never post anything further on this matter, anywhere on ZV, and that any posts that he chooses to place on the "My New Companion" thread, to be of a kind and positive nature, as this has always been the theme of that particular thread.

I trust that this finds you in good spirits, and is understood and read in the respectful tones that I have intended.

Salty Loves His Golden... 🐕
 
@FloofyNewfie Do you remember posting this?:
1) That was from 2020, not just 2020 but January of 2020, the first month I created my account here. 2) with more information I have changed my opinion on the matter as compared to nearly 4 years ago. 3) You're missing the context of "10 months" as the user stated his dog was 4 months old. I basically stated that he had 10 more months to go. 10 months + 4 months is 14 months old as a minimum age before copulation should be attempted. Again, waiting for the second heat is the best way to go. Some even argue the 3rd heat, as stated in my post.
 
1) That was from 2020, not just 2020 but January of 2020, the first month I created my account here. 2) with more information I have changed my opinion on the matter as compared to nearly 4 years ago. 3) You're missing the context of "10 months" as the user stated his dog was 4 months old. I basically stated that he had 10 more months to go. 10 months + 4 months is 14 months old as a minimum age before copulation should be attempted. Again, waiting for the second head is the best way to go. Some even argue the 3rd heat, as stated in my post.
All I can do is read what's been put forth. It doesn't clarify, as you have done here. And even so, these are recommendations and opinions, recommendations and opinions are not rules.

And, of course, you have left out the "fingering and masturbation on the 1st heat" from your reply. This, in it's self is sexual activity. Period.

I have no problem abiding by any rules that ZV spells out. But you must agree that this one is extremely vague.

Please spell them out clearly. And please consider restoring my thread.

Thank you,

Salty Loves His Golden... 🐕
 
And, of course, you have left out the "fingering and masturbation on the 1st heat" from your reply. This, in it's self is sexual activity. Period.
Again... 1) That was from 2020, not just 2020 but January of 2020, the first month I created my account here. 2) with more information I have changed my opinion on the matter as compared to nearly 4 years ago.

I not saying that it isn't sexual activity. It is sexual activity. What I'm saying is that with more education I have since changed my opinion/stance from "tread carefully while fingering on the first heat" to "this is not something I would recommend anyone doing at all." As, while some zoos have gotten away with it, it's behavior that's not beneficial and can potentially be harmful to said dog for a number of reasons. This includes mental maturity as well as potential health ramifications. I'm only human, which means that I'm not 100% correct about everything. But when new information presents itself and my old information cannot hold up to scrutiny, I'm not going to turn a blind eye to it.

I have no problem abiding by any rules that ZV spells out.
As stated, most breeders will NOT breed a dog on her first heat. While she's able to be impregnated, the risks to her are astronomically high. She is not of breeding age, as specified by the rules.

And please consider restoring my thread.
I see no reason to do so as mentioned in my other post. 1) It's a HIGHLY controversial subject. 2) One of the other mods wasn't even sure if she was 11 months old. (Something that is taken merely at face value) 3) This type of activity should be discouraged, as I've seen this type of thing blow up in people's faces. 4) The thread was soon becoming a dumpster fire. If it wasn't @amorousdog5 that said something, someone else surely would. And I'm not going to sit there and delete every single objection just to protect you engaging in highly risky behavior. As, many zoos agree, this is risky behavior you're engaging in. I don't care how much experience you think you have. You're putting your golden in unnecessary danger by having sex with her before she's even a year old. Before she's fully matured. Before her immune system has fully developed. Before her vaginal walls have fully developed.
 
Again... 1) That was from 2020, not just 2020 but January of 2020, the first month I created my account here. 2) with more information I have changed my opinion on the matter as compared to nearly 4 years ago.
Opinion. But the rules do not reflect this.
I not saying that it isn't sexual activity. It is sexual activity. What I'm saying is that with more education I have since changed my opinion/stance from "tread carefully while fingering on the first heat" to "this is not something I would recommend anyone doing at all." As, while some zoos have gotten away with it, it's behavior that's not beneficial and can potentially be harmful to said dog for a number of reasons. This includes mental maturity as well as potential health ramifications. I'm only human, which means that I'm not 100% correct about everything. But when new information presents itself and my old information cannot hold up to scrutiny, I'm not going to turn a blind eye to it.
No one here is asking you, or anyone else to "...turn a blind eye to..." anything. And you're right, we all are "...only human...". All the more reason why the rules must be clear, eliminating misunderstandings and misinterpretations.
As stated, most breeders will NOT breed a dog on her first heat. While she's able to be impregnated, the risks to her are astronomically high. She is not of breeding age, as specified by the rules.
And I am floored to learn that the average Joe here is expected to actually lookup or otherwise know on his/her own that you are referring to the term "breeding age" to be defined as what a breeder or veteranarian would define it as. To the average Joe (and this is what your site is aimed at guiding and helping) it would be very easy for them to believe that her being in heat, satisfies the criteria of the term "...of breeding age...". They are being guided by this site, so the rules must be very clear. And I remember quite a lot of rants, especially from the mods, about no-one understanding the rules. Gee, I wonder why? And, if you remember, I was one of the people that advocated for the rules to be placed prominently. I am happy to see that link on the top of the browser window.
I see no reason to do so as mentioned in my other post. 1) It's a HIGHLY controversial subject.
And if all references were removed, there would be no "HIGHLY controversial subject" to deal with.
2) One of the other mods wasn't even sure if she was 11 months old. (Something that is taken merely at face value)
And I have clearly offered to send you legal documentation, proving her age.
3) This type of activity should be discouraged, as I've seen this type of thing blow up in people's faces.
I actually agree with you on this one. This is why I posted my honest and heartfelt apology on this. I should never have posted such things. I was caught up in the moment, and completely unaware of how the rules were being defined.
4) The thread was soon becoming a dumpster fire. If it wasn't @amorousdog5 that said something, someone else surely would.
I agree with you on this point as well, now that I have the benefit of 20/20 hindsight. Keep in mind, if the questionable posts I made were never posted, nothing in the rest of the thread would ever be characterized as dumpster fire material.
And I'm not going to sit there and delete every single objection just to protect you engaging in highly risky behavior.
No body, not even myself, is asking you to "protect" me.
As, many zoos agree, this is risky behavior you're engaging in. I don't care how much experience you think you have. You're putting your golden in unnecessary danger by having sex with her before she's even a year old. Before she's fully matured. Before her immune system has fully developed. Before her vaginal walls have fully developed.
And this is one of the many reasons why I regret ever sharing any of this. I now realize the harm in sharing any of this kind of activity to the general public here at ZV. Again, I was very stupid. And again I offer my apologies.

SaltyDog... 🐕
 
After much consideration of all the input from so many of my peers here, I've decided to do the research as many here have implied, to get an accurate definition on the term "of breeding age" as spelled out in the rules here at ZV. And here's what I have found:

I went to, what most will agree is, the highest authority for dogs... akc.org . There I found their article titled AKC's Guide To responsible Dog Breeding. Please click on that link for your own reference.

While I'm not going to "copy-n-paste" the entire article, I will focus on the two paragraphs that are germane to our topic here. Again, feel free to read the entire article in the above link.

Here's a "copy-n-paste" of those 2 paragraphs:
"Bitches have their first estrus (also known as “season” or “heat”) after six months of age, although it can occur as late as 18 months to two years of age. Estrus recurs at intervals of approximately six months until late in life. During estrus, the female is fertile and will accept a male. The bitch should not be bred during her first season."

"Keep in mind that AKC rules do not allow, except with special documentation, the registration of a litter out of a dam less than 8 months of age or more than 12 years of age at the time of mating, or by a sire less than 7 months of age or more than 12 years of age at the time of mating."

Of the two paragraphs above, the 1st one does state that the dog "should" not be bred during her first season. Now I realize that most here will jump on that and state your claim. I get that. However, when you read the entire article, you will find that all of it is about the dog getting pregnant. Not about sexual activity alone. They even state that "the female is fertile and will accept a male." Then their "guidance" is she should not be "bred" at this time. Remember, this is about the burden of bearing pups, not about sexual activity.

Then we can move on, to the second paragraph which states that the AKC will not allow the registration of a litter out of a dam less than 8 months of age... at the time of mating. This directly implies that the AKC will allow and accept the registration of a litter, out of a dam, that is 8 months of age or older. Period.

Before I continue, I want to make crystal clear, none of what I'm posting here is to be misunderstood as justification for what I did. Period. Full stop.

What I am stating is that, even when going to the highest authority, it is still easy to come away with the understanding, or misunderstanding, that a person having sex with his female dog is following the rules here at ZV, as long as the dam is 8 months or older. As you know, my dog was over 10 months old.

While I am 100% happy to follow any and all rules as laid out here at ZV... with the degree of vagueness provided in said rules pertaining to my actions, I'm communicating to you that nobody should be subjected to the level of rebuke that I have endured, for doing my level best to follow these rules in good faith. I hope that all can see that, even when doing our level best, this rule is far too vague to properly inform and guide us in the proper and accepted conduct by our membership here at ZV.

I would like to also add:
I'd like to communicate to all here just how much I love and care for my companion. She means the world to me. I rely on my companion for emotional support and for my very well being. If I were a veteran, I would qualify for a specially trained dog. But because I'm just a civilian, I do not qualify. My dog literally brings joy and meaning to my life, as I have PTSD. I've been going to a very good therapist for many years now and have made much progress, but because I cannot afford a professionally trained dog, I got my beautiful girl from Craigslist.

My point here is that, I would never knowingly do ANYthing to bring harm to my sweet girl... ever. I love her to the ends of the earth. Honestly. She gives my life meaning... She brings joy in my heart and helps to chase my depression away. This is why I felt I found a home, a safe place, where I could share to other like minded people, all my joys and good things that my girl brings to me, here at ZV.

This is why my thread is so valuable and important to me. I'm not being stubborn here. I realize you don't know me from the man in the moon. So I've decided to share my more personal side as to why my dog is so very important to me, why I depend on her, and why I was caring on in my thread about all the wonderful things that she brings to my little life.

Please understand, sharing these details about my PTSD is humiliating for me to do, so openly. This is why I don't usually share this with too many here. I'm trusting that people will not look down on me for having such a terrible affliction as PTSD. I'm really going out on a limb here and baring my soul so publicly.

Again, I ask forgiveness for my transgressions.

SaltyDog... 🐕
 
Opinion. But the rules do not reflect this.

No one here is asking you, or anyone else to "...turn a blind eye to..." anything. And you're right, we all are "...only human...". All the more reason why the rules must be clear, eliminating misunderstandings and misinterpretations.

And I am floored to learn that the average Joe here is expected to actually lookup or otherwise know on his/her own that you are referring to the term "breeding age" to be defined as what a breeder or veteranarian would define it as. To the average Joe (and this is what your site is aimed at guiding and helping) it would be very easy for them to believe that her being in heat, satisfies the criteria of the term "...of breeding age...". They are being guided by this site, so the rules must be very clear. And I remember quite a lot of rants, especially from the mods, about no-one understanding the rules. Gee, I wonder why? And, if you remember, I was one of the people that advocated for the rules to be placed prominently. I am happy to see that link on the top of the browser window.

And if all references were removed, there would be no "HIGHLY controversial subject" to deal with.

And I have clearly offered to send you legal documentation, proving her age.

I actually agree with you on this one. This is why I posted my honest and heartfelt apology on this. I should never have posted such things. I was caught up in the moment, and completely unaware of how the rules were being defined.

I agree with you on this point as well, now that I have the benefit of 20/20 hindsight. Keep in mind, if the questionable posts I made were never posted, nothing in the rest of the thread would ever be characterized as dumpster fire material.

No body, not even myself, is asking you to "protect" me.

And this is one of the many reasons why I regret ever sharing any of this. I now realize the harm in sharing any of this kind of activity to the general public here at ZV. Again, I was very stupid. And again I offer my apologies.

SaltyDog... 🐕
....and along with your apology just say NM,,,,ie No more! :pig_wink:
 
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