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Zoo women: would you settle down with an asexual guy?

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(This isn't an ad or anything lol, just after some feedback from the community if that's ok)

Would you settle down with an asexual guy? In my case, I'm a heteroromantic asexual, which means that I'm attracted to women romantically as opposed to sexually. In practice, this means that kissing and cuddling is as far as I'd like to go with a woman. I don't know any asexual women, and allosexual women lose interest when they find out I'm not interested in sex. I really have a thing for zoo women though, and I generally have lots of respect for anyone who pursues something they love despite society's views on it.

My point is that, from my perspective, a long term relationship with a zoo woman seems like the perfect fit for me. I wouldn't need to worry that my partner won't be sexually satisfied, plus I have such a strong admiration for zoo women that I know for a fact that I'll always support it no matter what. You might ask yourself why I don't get into cuckolding, but I don't really like people that much and I'd rather chill with a dog than some strangers. I want a quiet, low-key life.

Just wondering what a zoo woman would think of a relationship like this? Again, not an ad, just wondering if I should continue thinking that this is a possibility for me. All the best
 
I doubt a request like this will attract any interest, at least without some "monetary" discussion on the table...
You have to ask yourself, what can I bring to this picture of benefit? You don't want sex, many may be fine in that they have their dogs only as their main "lovers" (men replacements), in such case why would they need you?? to satisfy your voyeuristic urges? at this point in time you are a stranger to them. Also if they wanted any type of "audience" they could just arrange it in other ways (filming with wig/masks, k9 orgies, etc)
For many the zoo aspect is something that appears at some point "on the rebound", out of chance, you bump into it.
This happens with many couples but they maybe have been years together, and the degree of trust is already very high.
You are asking something quite much like being a "zoo daddy" to someone. Maybe if you own a kennel or have a farm with beautiful well endowed stallions or something, or have quite a lot of money, they will be asking of you: "what do you have for me, I don't have time for fools, dreamers, or timewasters"
Hoping someone will pander to this as the main criteria to form a relationship is not realistic and you will be seen as a dreamer, unless there is some extra (or many extras)
 
The_Hound_OT_Zoovilles said:
I doubt a request like this will attract any interest, at least without some "monetary" discussion on the table...
You have to ask yourself, what can I bring to this picture of benefit? You don't want sex, many may be fine in that they have their dogs only as their main "lovers" (men replacements), in such case why would they need you?? to satisfy your voyeuristic urges? at this point in time you are a stranger to them. Also if they wanted any type of "audience" they could just arrange it in other ways (filming with wig/masks, k9 orgies, etc)
For many the zoo aspect is something that appears at some point "on the rebound", out of chance, you bump into it.
This happens with many couples but they maybe have been years together, and the degree of trust is already very high.
You are asking something quite much like being a "zoo daddy" to someone. Maybe if you own a kennel or have a farm with beautiful well endowed stallions or something, or have quite a lot of money, they will be asking of you: "what do you have for me, I don't have time for fools, dreamers, or timewasters"
Hoping someone will pander to this as the main criteria to form a relationship is not realistic and you will be seen as a dreamer, unless there is some extra (or many extras)
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First off, it's not a request lol. Sorry if I wasn't clear but voyeurism isn't of interest to me either. Just want to settle down and start a family really. I'd be just as happy with an asexual woman. I thought I made it clear that I wasn't posting this to meet anyone from the forum.
 
i think there's a chance (might be a bit slim tho) to find someone like that, there must some zoo-exclusives who might also want to have a family at some point

The_Hound_OT_Zoovilles said:
I doubt a request like this will attract any interest, at least without some "monetary" discussion on the table...
You have to ask yourself, what can I bring to this picture of benefit? You don't want sex, many may be fine in that they have their dogs only as their main "lovers" (men replacements), in such case why would they need you?? to satisfy your voyeuristic urges? at this point in time you are a stranger to them. Also if they wanted any type of "audience" they could just arrange it in other ways (filming with wig/masks, k9 orgies, etc)
For many the zoo aspect is something that appears at some point "on the rebound", out of chance, you bump into it.
This happens with many couples but they maybe have been years together, and the degree of trust is already very high.
You are asking something quite much like being a "zoo daddy" to someone. Maybe if you own a kennel or have a farm with beautiful well endowed stallions or something, or have quite a lot of money, they will be asking of you: "what do you have for me, I don't have time for fools, dreamers, or timewasters"
Hoping someone will pander to this as the main criteria to form a relationship is not realistic and you will be seen as a dreamer, unless there is some extra (or many extras)
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you seem to have completely missed what the op was trying to say... he never even mentioned wanting to watch. he just seems to be looking for someone who can take care of their sexual needs without either him or it being a 3 humans relationship
 
nekdoneco123 said:
i think there's a chance (might be a bit slim tho) to find someone like that, there must some zoo-exclusives who might also want to have a family at some point


you seem to have completely missed what the op was trying to say... he never even mentioned wanting to watch. he just seems to be looking for someone who can take care of their sexual needs without either him or it being a 3 humans relationship
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He says he has a thing for zoo women, so he doesn't want sex with them. Is he going to sleep in the sofa or next door whilst she and Big Benji do the hula hump?
He also said "I rather chill with a dog than some strangers". Then what's the problem if she can have sex elsewhere without his presence with another man? He wants a zoo woman, because he wants to see it. I haven't missed anything
 
NotZoo_ImAZooAdmirer said:
First off, it's not a request lol. Sorry if I wasn't clear but voyeurism isn't of interest to me either. Just want to settle down and start a family really. I'd be just as happy with an asexual woman. I thought I made it clear that I wasn't posting this to meet anyone from the forum.
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I can see you already posted another thread and gathered not very kind replies as I expected, but I will actually give you a practical solution.
Go to a forum specifically about demisexual people, or probably better, a fetish site like Fetlife and reg into a demisexual subgroup. If you reg into an asexual group, the woman will not be interested in you either.
Spend a few months trying to acquaint yourself with at least 6 or 7 different women. When you eventually meet them all up at some point in the future, start on those dates dropping subtle hints about other kinks, etc, and maybe on a date and a bit of a tipsy conversation, bring out the subject. Pay attention to their reaction.
If you get:
a) - "OH YOU FUCKING SICK PERVERT, HOW DARE YOU EVEN MENTION THAT, YOU ARE SICK,
SORRY, I'VE GOT TO GO, I THINK I MADE A MISTAKE COMING HERE" this means you are shit outta luck.
Sorry, try your next date on the list
b) - "Hm oh you naughty rascal (smiles)" this means you may have found yourself a keeper. On the next date bring up the subject again, as the trust level arises. Keep working on it. Congratulations

Mission accomplished, easy life. Thank me later
 
he specified what his "thing for zoo women" is tho. admiration of them pursuing what they love despite what the public thinks. also, if he indeed is an asexual he probably would just watch tv next door or just wouldn't want to be present.

my take on the "i'd rather chill with a dog than some strangers" is just that he'd be fine with her having her sex-partner under the same roof. to be honest, what it can't be another man is puzzling me a bit.
 
nekdoneco123 said:
he specified what his "thing for zoo women" is tho. admiration of them pursuing what they love despite what the public thinks. also, if he indeed is an asexual he probably would just watch tv next door or just wouldn't want to be present.

my take on the "i'd rather chill with a dog than some strangers" is just that he'd be fine with her having her sex-partner under the same roof. to be honest, what it can't be another man is puzzling me a bit.
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She doesn't understand that heteroromantic asexuals (edit: or any 'romantic' asexuals) function in a completely different way to pretty much everyone else in society. When I have "a thing" for someone, it's admiration as opposed to sexual attraction. I have no sexual urges myself, so I don't get anything from watching, but someone who's so in tune/honest with themselves is an attractive person to me. I knew I might get some icy replies (totally understandable, I'm sure plenty of weirdos try to infiltrate the community) so it's nice that someone does understand. So thank you.

I actually posted this here because I read a thread from a woman here who said she wanted to be zoo exclusive, sexually speaking, but that she still wants the middle class family with dogs and 3 kids lifestyle. She mentioned that an asexual guy might be a good fit for her. So, again, not an ad - I'm just trying to see what others think of the idea.

Edit: plenty of reasons why I wouldn't want other people involved in my life. Poly or cuckold relationships don't tend to have good longevity (from what I understand) and there's a high risk of her falling in love with the other guys she's with... leaving me lonely again and back to square 1. Tbh a relationship with an asexual woman is my preference. No complications whatsoever, two people on the same page.
The problem, though, is that asexuality is a spectrum. So, I join asexual communities and begin talking to women. "This is going pretty well" I think to myself. The problem is that woman #1 is a sex-positive asexual who enjoys having sex. Ah, so this won't work out. Nevermind. Begin talking to woman #2 but she's aromantic and can't fall in love. She doesn't like cuddles or showing affection in any physical kind of way. So this might not work out either. I then start speaking to woman #3 but she doesn't seem to know anything about asexualiy, seems to have a low IQ and I get the impression that she's joining asexual communities because she's looked everywhere else. Then I start to think that I'll never find anyone. My mind starts wondering and I eventually come up with the idea that a relationship with a zoo woman might be the solution I was looking for all along. Lol.
 
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NotZoo_ImAZooAdmirer said:
She doesn't understand that heteroromantic asexuals (edit: or any 'romantic' asexuals) function in a completely different way to pretty much everyone else in society. When I have "a thing" for someone, it's admiration as opposed to sexual attraction. I have no sexual urges myself, so I don't get anything from watching, but someone who's so in tune/honest with themselves is an attractive person to me. I knew I might get some icy replies (totally understandable, I'm sure plenty of weirdos try to infiltrate the community) so it's nice that someone does understand. So thank you.

I actually posted this here because I read a thread from a woman here who said she wanted to be zoo exclusive, sexually speaking, but that she still wants the middle class family with dogs and 3 kids lifestyle. She mentioned that an asexual guy might be a good fit for her. So, again, not an ad - I'm just trying to see what others think of the idea.

Edit: plenty of reasons why I wouldn't want other people involved in my life. Poly or cuckold relationships don't tend to have good longevity (from what I understand) and there's a high risk of her falling in love with the other guys she's with... leaving me lonely again and back to square 1. Tbh a relationship with an asexual woman is my preference. No complications whatsoever, two people on the same page.
The problem, though, is that asexuality is a spectrum. So, I join asexual communities and begin talking to women. "This is going pretty well" I think to myself. The problem is that woman #1 is a sex-positive asexual who enjoys having sex. Ah, so this won't work out. Nevermind. Begin talking to woman #2 but she's aromantic and can't fall in love. She doesn't like cuddles or showing affection in any physical kind of way. So this might not work out either. I then start speaking to woman #3 but she doesn't seem to know anything about asexualiy, seems to have a low IQ and I get the impression that she's joining asexual communities because she's looked everywhere else. Then I start to think that I'll never find anyone. My mind starts wondering and I eventually come up with the idea that a relationship with a zoo woman might be the solution I was looking for all along. Lol.
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Yo, I gotta say, I like you buddy. You're not afraid to show yourself. :) Be proud of who you are.
 
Pillar said:
Yo, I gotta say, I like you buddy. You're not afraid to show yourself. :) Be proud of who you are.
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Thanks! Won't be around for too long though, just sent the admins a DM about deleting my account. So you commented just in time lol. Go well!
 
The_Hound_OT_Zoovilles said:
I doubt a request like this will attract any interest, at least without some "monetary" discussion on the table...
You have to ask yourself, what can I bring to this picture of benefit? You don't want sex, many may be fine in that they have their dogs only as their main "lovers" (men replacements), in such case why would they need you?? to satisfy your voyeuristic urges? at this point in time you are a stranger to them. Also if they wanted any type of "audience" they could just arrange it in other ways (filming with wig/masks, k9 orgies, etc)
For many the zoo aspect is something that appears at some point "on the rebound", out of chance, you bump into it.
This happens with many couples but they maybe have been years together, and the degree of trust is already very high.
You are asking something quite much like being a "zoo daddy" to someone. Maybe if you own a kennel or have a farm with beautiful well endowed stallions or something, or have quite a lot of money, they will be asking of you: "what do you have for me, I don't have time for fools, dreamers, or timewasters"
Hoping someone will pander to this as the main criteria to form a relationship is not realistic and you will be seen as a dreamer, unless there is some extra (or many extras)
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*Sigh* Always about me me me me me me me me me me me me.

Dare I ask, whatever happened to the idea of *us*? You know, two people being a couple, instead of looking for the next better deal to come in? I mean, damn, sometimes attitudes like this give me the feeling that being alone ain't always so bad sometimes...
 
Pillar said:
*Sigh* Always about me me me me me me me me me me me me.

Dare I ask, whatever happened to the idea of *us*? You know, two people being a couple, instead of looking for the next better deal to come in? I mean, damn, sometimes attitudes like this give me the feeling that being alone ain't always so bad sometimes...
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Being alone is pretty badass, not gonna lie. With every year I realise it's better to be alone than settle for a bad relationship.
 
I have been there before and have been single for a good 5 years or so. However being alone in that regard wears you down in some corners.
It’s just difficult to find a good fit that will last. When you add zoo to the mix it just makes it all that much harder.
 
Pillar said:
*Sigh* Always about me me me me me me me me me me me me.

Dare I ask, whatever happened to the idea of *us*? You know, two people being a couple, instead of looking for the next better deal to come in? I mean, damn, sometimes attitudes like this give me the feeling that being alone ain't always so bad sometimes...
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well ..go tell those biatches then bro, what you telling me yo
I am only the newsreader..
 
NotZoo_ImAZooAdmirer said:
(This isn't an ad or anything lol, just after some feedback from the community if that's ok)

Would you settle down with an asexual guy? In my case, I'm a heteroromantic asexual, which means that I'm attracted to women romantically as opposed to sexually. In practice, this means that kissing and cuddling is as far as I'd like to go with a woman. I don't know any asexual women, and allosexual women lose interest when they find out I'm not interested in sex. I really have a thing for zoo women though, and I generally have lots of respect for anyone who pursues something they love despite society's views on it.

My point is that, from my perspective, a long term relationship with a zoo woman seems like the perfect fit for me. I wouldn't need to worry that my partner won't be sexually satisfied, plus I have such a strong admiration for zoo women that I know for a fact that I'll always support it no matter what. You might ask yourself why I don't get into cuckolding, but I don't really like people that much and I'd rather chill with a dog than some strangers. I want a quiet, low-key life.

Just wondering what a zoo woman would think of a relationship like this? Again, not an ad, just wondering if I should continue thinking that this is a possibility for me. All the best
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Just based on the info you've provided, I'd be fine with it. I'm Demisexual myself so it takes time to build any interest in such things with humans anyway. But building a romantic relationship? That's my shit. Let me court them. Let me spoil them, cuddle them, make them feel amazing. Let me elevate the target of my affections feel like they're on top of the world. As long as they're happy, I'm happy. And if they're happy with no sex, that's fine.

EDIT: Saw the bit where you wanted a family and *hard pass on that*, sorry.
 
NotZoo_ImAZooAdmirer said:
(This isn't an ad or anything lol, just after some feedback from the community if that's ok)

Would you settle down with an asexual guy? In my case, I'm a heteroromantic asexual, which means that I'm attracted to women romantically as opposed to sexually. In practice, this means that kissing and cuddling is as far as I'd like to go with a woman. I don't know any asexual women, and allosexual women lose interest when they find out I'm not interested in sex. I really have a thing for zoo women though, and I generally have lots of respect for anyone who pursues something they love despite society's views on it.

My point is that, from my perspective, a long term relationship with a zoo woman seems like the perfect fit for me. I wouldn't need to worry that my partner won't be sexually satisfied, plus I have such a strong admiration for zoo women that I know for a fact that I'll always support it no matter what. You might ask yourself why I don't get into cuckolding, but I don't really like people that much and I'd rather chill with a dog than some strangers. I want a quiet, low-key life.

Just wondering what a zoo woman would think of a relationship like this? Again, not an ad, just wondering if I should continue thinking that this is a possibility for me. All the best
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No, I can imagine an asexual women would, just for socialization and company reasons, if a woman has a sex drive for men she's not going to settle down with an asexual man, unless she is permitted to have sex with other men, in which case... why settle down then with an asexual guy? when she could have sex and fall in love and have the whole package with a non-asexual man. As far as zoo goes, maybe if she was only zoo, had no interest in humans, just animals, then yeah maybe. Personally I am not asexual or only zoo.
 
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