Zoo vs relationship

[coffeeinmorn]

Can you be zoo & still be in a somewhat serious relationships?

 

[Dogdaddy69]

I guess that depends on how you define zoo. And serious relationships.

In the end, I think you have to live the life YOU envision rather than live by the definitions of other people.

 

[GStep]

Like balance the two? I’d welcome it. If we’re both ok with it, I dont see why not

 

[waarom170]

Yes, either you hide it well enough (I did for 12 years) or you find a partner into zoo as well.

 

[MrsShemon]

It is just swinging/cockolding/polyamorous with extra steps, so why not?

 

[Sucker4It]

It’s doable. Much easier when you have a partner who’s into zoo as well.

 

[gsdmixg]

I wish I had the answer to this. I'm in a relationship and trying to figure out how to open up about it. ?

 

[MrsShemon]

I wish I had the answer to this. I'm in a relationship and trying to figure out how to open up about it. ?

Don't do what I did, coming clean while crying. I would not recomend that.

 

[gsdmixg]

Don't do what I did, coming clean while crying. I would not recomend that.

Did that end that relationship? ?

 

[MrsShemon]

Did that end that relationship? ?

No, but I still don't recomend that approach to telling your partner.

 

[MypupandI69]

I mean the easiest way to go about it would be to try to be in a relationship with another zoo but that rarely happens. For the most part you just end up stressing over trying to hide your other life from your partner. Think about it as living inside of a shoe box inside of a closet. Like that. Unless you know your spouse isn't going to judge you for your life style choices then you might be okay to come out about it. Most of the people in your shoes end up not having an animal partner or if they do they have to dance around their spouses schedule which can be more stressful at times. I don't have a gf for these reasons.

 

[waarom170]

I wish I had the answer to this. I'm in a relationship and trying to figure out how to open up about it. ?

Dont, my relation ended after 12 years because I told her.

 

[Chiara2003]

I hope 2 marry my bf?

 

[Rick]

Yes

 

[LikesLoveFL]

Can you be zoo & still be in a somewhat serious relationships?

yes! IT's what I'm looking for. Why wouldn't a man LOVE his partner to be with his/her dogs? i am getting a female pup also. (Lost mine when my ex took her away.)

 

[likebuco]

Dont, my relation ended after 12 years because I told her.

And what was your animal partner?

 

[Deleted member 76481]

Polygamic relations do exist, people who don't see an animal equal to human do exist, so yeah, it can happen. To some, at least. It depends on how do you see zoosexuality. It wouldn't work to me. I see my current relationship with my human bf as equally valid as it was with my dog. I wouldn't want to have both at the same time, it would feel like cheating to me. We share this mindset with bf, so there isn't even any suggesting going on.

 

[cynofile]

Polygamic relations do exist, people who don't see an animal equal to human do exist, so yeah, it can happen. To some, at least. It depends on how do you see zoosexuality. It wouldn't work to me. I see my current relationship with my human bf as equally valid as it was with my dog. I wouldn't want to have both at the same time, it would feel like cheating to me. We share this mindset with bf, so there isn't even any suggesting going on.

That sounds very measured and logical.

I know that if I was in a relationship with a female that enjoyed being mounted by a dog I'd be well up for wanting to watch.

 

[Meaty_19]

I personally do believe so. I refuse to hide who I am. So the only way I'm getting into another relationship with a human is if she's also zoo or is completely accepting of my zoo side. I know it's a long shot and that I shouldn't hold my breath but I will.

 

[Mare Lover 1975]

Don't do what I did, coming clean while crying. I would not recomend that.

Or like I did while on pain medication.