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zoo & empathy

starxo said:
i am an empath and sometimes feel a bit of guilt or shame when watching zoo porn. how do you guys get past this? it feels wrong and right at the same time. my heart conflicts with my pussy ?
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It’s been part of my life for so long, I never thought about it that way. I loved my dog. She was my partner in crime in all things… sex with her just seemed to be the natural progression of things.
 

Dealing with shame

Hey. I created this account a few years ago but haven’t been on because of shame and fear of being found out. Tonight I couldn’t take it anymore and came on here. As the name implies I love horses both mares and stallions. I’ve never done anything irl. I’m at a very low point and wanted to hear...
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Feeling of guilt

New zoos, old zoos -- doesn't matter. Most of us have been there. Questioning if we're doing something wrong, if we're "bad." Well, that's a personal question, a matter that depends on the individual, their upbringing, their belief system and... whether they can reconcile all that. Most likely...
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Bottom line is you're conditioned like everyone else in society to have it firmly rooted in you that it is evil. This is from the minute you were born. Everything that doesn't have a place in our puritanical historic founding is evil and unacceptable behavior. I'm in the BDSM lifestyle for 30 years and despite the acceptance of kinks and fetishes today (it wasn't always) there is a limit on what the outside world will accept as 'OK'. The secret to overcoming that guilt is to live by basic rules we can all accept: Do no harm, be kind and respectful, don't broadcast your lifestyle to people outside of it (you'll find allies through the journey), and just accept what makes you happy is right for you. There's plenty we do that is 'unacceptable' outside of this lifestyle that we don't feel guilt for and we just do it anyway. Just stay healthy and happy.
 
starxo said:
i am an empath and sometimes feel a bit of guilt or shame when watching zoo porn. how do you guys get past this? it feels wrong and right at the same time. my heart conflicts with my pussy ?
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My advice would be accept the desires you have but don't let it interfere with your everyday life. We all have kinks of some sort and many people choose to suppress them.
 
I thought about it for a while quite thoroughly, and eventually came to the conclusion there really is nothing wrong with it beyond just being told it is wrong by society. That helped
 
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