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Zoo dating is depressing

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Sasnox

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I'm sure several who follow me have seen my post about wanting to find someone local to get involved with and after doing some soul searching so to speak I can't believe how both difficult and hopeless zoo dating seems to be.

I mean to kind of put it into perspective I'm bi, but I prefer women. It's hard enough finding women but when you're trying to find one that's a zoo it's near impossible. And having talked with several guys most of them are more into my dogs than me, and when I try to steer the conversation to focus more on us getting to know each other they just bail or get upset.

How many of you managed to find a zoo partner, and how did you do it? I'm not willing to trust k9 dating, and I'm definitely not going around my neighborhood where everyone knows each other and see who is into zoo stuff, because that's a make or break for me. Not even that they have to be into it but they at least are willing to tolerate me engaging in zoo activity.
 
Zoos are a minority. Due to the activity being illegal in most places and not condoned anyway, most members of the minority probably keep this secret. Of those few who talk about it, many are obviously interested in intimate relationships with animals (not humans), because that's what being a zoo means. Yeah, trying to date a zoo kind of has to be a difficult endeavor.
 
Ruben said:
Zoos are a minority. Due to the activity being illegal in most places and not condoned anyway, most members of the minority probably keep this secret. Of those few who talk about it, many are obviously interested in intimate relationships with animals (not humans), because that's what being a zoo means. Yeah, trying to date a zoo kind of has to be a difficult endeavor.
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I can understand that, I guess the best way I can think about it is unless you can find someone looking for a polyamorous relationship anyway it's probably not going to happen. I love my dogs so much I literally have an unhealthy mental dependence on them, but on the flip side not being able to converse with someone about the topic leaves a hole that only a person could fill.




Or a talking dog. Lol.
 
Sasnox said:
I can understand that, I guess the best way I can think about it is unless you can find someone looking for a polyamorous relationship anyway it's probably not going to happen.
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I'm poly and the poly's I know would string someone up for mentioning zoo.
 
So, like, here's the thing I have been into beastiality since age 12 and I'm 25 now living in California, you would think there would be all kinds of fruit cakes over here for better words, but it's the actual opposite, if I had to take a wild guess in my entire life, up until this point, I have probably met, at least under 10 people who were interested or ok with my beastiality lifestyle, I have met more than 10 who came and gone and really was a waste of time, I guess the best advice that I can give you is what I found on here, put your lifestyle away and maybe get to know somebody and then work it into that relationship as you go? Personally, I have given up on trying to find somebody who is also into this lifestyle, so I'm focusing on other lifestyles, and I'm also interested in, and I do exactly what I said, I weve this life style in there if I'm able

Maybe this is the wrong way to approach it, but I don't accept anybody relationship wise who is not ok or who is not interested in this lifestyle it's a must for me, but in my opinion, and in my experience, the people who do accept it and are interested in it tend the stick around for a while

The last piece of advice that I can probably give is the fact that don't force it I noticed that if I gently slide it in there, it's more easier to swallow, for example, my picture gallery, I always bring up my picture gallery and say, you know, if you see my picture gallery, you would think I would be insane, but then I tell them, it's a way to express myself. If you view my picture gallery, then you can get my personality, you just have to be smarter than them, but again, don't force it if they're not interested, they're not worth your time if it means that much to you for somebody to share your life style with

I know that was long, but you have to realize there's no shortcut seriously. There's no way to not have a long conversation about it, it's just gonna take time, and don't give up, if it means that much to you like it does for the rest of us, it's something that your not gonna give up on, and you're gonna out smart, the other people, and find a way to introduce it to them or make it a part of your relationship
 
speaking for myself, opening up to someone in real about my lifestyle woudl possibly be the most scariest thing. I am active and i also date men. i date them casually and part of the reason is i cannot have any of them knowing what i do. i like to meet them out for drinks, maybe a movie or dinner and sometimes spend the night at thier house, but there is a big deal about going any farther. i keep my lifestyle a super secret

for me to come out to someone, it would have to be a really close person that i had been dating and i would even say that they would have to bring it up...somehow, in a way that did not cause me to run away in the opposite direction.

honestly i thought i was really brave when i 1st joined this website and started to post here. I am kind of a timid and shy person in real and i have been working on getting over that here, but it is a big deal.
 
rainfallheavens said:
So, like, here's the thing I have been into beastiality since age 12 and I'm 25 now living in California, you would think there would be all kinds of fruit cakes over here for better words, but it's the actual opposite, if I had to take a wild guess in my entire life, up until this point, I have probably met, at least under 10 people who were interested or ok with my beastiality lifestyle, I have met more than 10 who came and gone and really was a waste of time, I guess the best advice that I can give you is what I found on here, put your lifestyle away and maybe get to know somebody and then work it into that relationship as you go? Personally, I have given up on trying to find somebody who is also into this lifestyle, so I'm focusing on other lifestyles, and I'm also interested in, and I do exactly what I said, I weve this life style in there if I'm able

Maybe this is the wrong way to approach it, but I don't accept anybody relationship wise who is not ok or who is not interested in this lifestyle it's a must for me, but in my opinion, and in my experience, the people who do accept it and are interested in it tend the stick around for a while

The last piece of advice that I can probably give is the fact that don't force it I noticed that if I gently slide it in there, it's more easier to swallow, for example, my picture gallery, I always bring up my picture gallery and say, you know, if you see my picture gallery, you would think I would be insane, but then I tell them, it's a way to express myself. If you view my picture gallery, then you can get my personality, you just have to be smarter than them, but again, don't force it if they're not interested, they're not worth your time if it means that much to you for somebody to share your life style with

I know that was long, but you have to realize there's no shortcut seriously. There's no way to not have a long conversation about it, it's just gonna take time, and don't give up, if it means that much to you like it does for the rest of us, it's something that your not gonna give up on, and you're gonna out smart, the other people, and find a way to introduce it to them or make it a part of your relationship
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We talk about this at length in another thread but the key takeaways are 1) patience & don't force it (a la RainFalls' post); 2) seize the opportunity for honest open communication when it arises ("opportunity" = let the other party open the door); and 3) get to know people here.

That's how my deceased wife and I met an amazing girl on Beast Forum whom we befriended (socially & romantically). That friend is now my best friend and fiancee.
 
AriesAngyl said:
speaking for myself, opening up to someone in real about my lifestyle woudl possibly be the most scariest thing. I am active and i also date men. i date them casually and part of the reason is i cannot have any of them knowing what i do. i like to meet them out for drinks, maybe a movie or dinner and sometimes spend the night at thier house, but there is a big deal about going any farther. i keep my lifestyle a super secret

for me to come out to someone, it would have to be a really close person that i had been dating and i would even say that they would have to bring it up...somehow, in a way that did not cause me to run away in the opposite direction.

honestly i thought i was really brave when i 1st joined this website and started to post here. I am kind of a timid and shy person in real and i have been working on getting over that here, but it is a big deal.
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I can't see any way to combine both lifestyles safely, so I don't. Be safe & protect yourself. You were brave to get an account and start posting, but never reveal any details about who you are or where you are. Also use a VPN to connect here and keep your interest away from your internet provider.
 
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