Wife knows but not into it.
- Thread starter Baron73
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kittenpussy
Tourist
25 F
It may just not be here thing in all honesty. Some people have negitive feeling twords this lifestyle n she may be one of them.
If you dont mind me asking how long have you been married?
My husband and I are both into the lifestyle but both hid from it untill we were honest one day and started opening up to personal experiances. We are open about it now n other kinks/secual intrests.
Take your time and be accepting of her as well
It may just not be here thing in all honesty. Some people have negitive feeling twords this lifestyle n she may be one of them.
If you dont mind me asking how long have you been married?
My husband and I are both into the lifestyle but both hid from it untill we were honest one day and started opening up to personal experiances. We are open about it now n other kinks/secual intrests.
Take your time and be accepting of her as well
Baron73
Tourist
We have been together for 5 years
kittenpussy
Tourist
If she not showing any intrest twords it she may simply not be intrested. 5 years is still early. She is open minded enough to not be upset with you so thats a start.
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egoldstein
Guest
I'm with @RexAndMe on this, if it's not her thing it's not her thing and she's not interested. Be happy she's accepting it, but not wanting to know as plenty of folks would love to have even that. Push it and it's more likely to cause major issues in the marriage than it will for her to suddenly change her mind. Imagine something sexual that repulses you, how would you feel if she pressured you into doing that?
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Chiara2003
Esteemed Citizen of ZV
If she knows but doesn’t wanna talk than she probably won’t get into it.
MypupandI69
Citizen of Zooville
Just be happy to still have a wife. She probably won't understand what this is or why you are into it. Give her time and if you value your relationship don't bring it up unless she wants to talk about it. The best thing you can say if she does decide to bring it up is basically that you love and care for animals just like you do her at which point she will either have to think about things, leave right then and there or she will make you choose between her or this life. Hopefully she's more open minded than I'm imagining and chooses to accept you regardless of everything. Just don't push it and put further strain on your relationship.
temporaryacc
Citizen of Zooville
Not every one is into beastiality, don’t try to pressure her into participating. And if she refuses to talk about it don’t push the issue.
KnottyAbbeyV
Tourist
My husband knows and he's not into it. Sometimes we argue about it. Married 22 years
Dog5353
Zooville Settler
If this was a big part of you and you require her participation, how did you manage to get married without covering this territory before popping the question? Either accept her as she is or leave and find someone who's into it. But since she knows, she could use it against you.
piotrohanian
Tourist
Don't force anything. Accept it or wait. Maybe one day she will be willing to talk about it again. Wko knows?
doggyfun123
Zooville Philanthropist
A very lucky couple
Baron73
Tourist
We have been together since September 2017.
I accept her completely.
I am just disheartened that I can't talk to her about it.
Her response the last time was... "I know that is part of your past and who you are as a person. You have to stop living in the past." Or something along those line.
Randydoggo
Citizen of Zooville
That is almost like you saying to her I know you've slept with men and it's part of who you are but now you can't have sex anymore, get used to it. Sorry your in that situation
doggo_dog
Tourist
You could get fur suits instead or do pup play both involve humans and look k9. Sometimes slow exposure helps to make things less ockward and its k9 related because of the looks like I have a realistic fursuit and pup play uses k9 dildos and training gear and masks that are less Closter phobic.
Just don't expect a person you keep secrets from to be all to happy they got to know someone they don't know. For their sake go slow I have a similar interest with my partner as I like group play and they like just us.
Just don't expect a person you keep secrets from to be all to happy they got to know someone they don't know. For their sake go slow I have a similar interest with my partner as I like group play and they like just us.