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Why are there so many dicks here??

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I suspect it's Ye Olde Basic Empowerment Issues. Feel marginalized? Jump on someone else. There's nothing like being able to look down your nose at someone else when you're normally NOT in a position to do so.

Likewise, someone feels disenfranchised for WHATEVER reason, they come online and establish themselves within a new hierarchy and a (relatively) new social construct. There's little-to-no punishment for (most) antisocial behaviors, and same-thinking individuals can fit in as they decide how they want to participate, and what role they want to play, forming echo chambers of sorts. To have such a presence in such a marginalized community (of a somewhat admittedly awkward band of misfits), this seems to be a self-defeating and toxic misstep.

Witness, this thread itself may end up migrated (relegated?) to the Dumpster Fire, where it likely will receive the eponymous treatment with a related influx of trollery. Of all decisions on the board and moderation thereof, this is the most confusing one to me. How a seemingly innocent and relatively innocent (or even challenging) discussion thread can be pitched into the dumpster, whereupon it gets beset by some of the most base treatment our community dishes out. This doesn't make the board a safe haven with a sacrificial anode for baser interaction, that just protects those who would choose to add toxicity and divisiveness, tearing down - rather than building - a community.
 
I wasn’t talking about my myself. But someone else who was “ looking” for someone to talk to. And apparently they posted it in the wrong thread. So it was deleted. Extremely quickly!!!!
 
Why are there so many ducks here that are such a hole’s about what thread goes where?? Jesh if there’s a newbie give them some guidance about things. Instead of just having the post removed from the wrong thread????
Because we have a million and one other idiots who can't be bothered to spend a day or so learning how things work doing the same thing, why should mods jump through hoops and spend even more time?
 
I am a man straight that would like to meet a woman for mutual fun. Having said that there are a lot of men posting with words such as slut and bitch. Bitch depending on how used can to some woman be non offensive the word slut in no way intends any positive respect. It appears to me that many males here have little regard, respect for females. Many appear to think if a woman here is intimate with a k9 they have no standards no moral and will open their legs for anything. From my limited experience chatting with a few woman they have proven intelligent, centered and well balanced. They probably just wish to avoid drama and bs.
 
I am a man straight that would like to meet a woman for mutual fun. Having said that there are a lot of men posting with words such as slut and bitch. Bitch depending on how used can to some woman be non offensive the word slut in no way intends any positive respect. It appears to me that many males here have little regard, respect for females. Many appear to think if a woman here is intimate with a k9 they have no standards no moral and will open their legs for anything. From my limited experience chatting with a few woman they have proven intelligent, centered and well balanced. They probably just wish to avoid drama and bs.
Pretty much this ??

It’s a lot of the same guys as well, always posting on profiles to the women that are new….”want to DM?”…etc.
 
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