Which would you chose?

[edomsd]

If you're in love, even married, and your partner is not into bestiality, but you love it and they find out and give you an ultimatum, even saying no zoo porn or you two are done, would you give up zoo for that person or let them go?

I have had that happen where my wife found out i'm into it, was totally against it and gave me the ultimatum and I ended it. Life is too short to not live how you want to. I know someday I'll fall in love with someone who is like me and when I do, it'll all be worth it.

How about you?

 

[pes]

Sounds like you love porn more than your wife.
Did you have kids?

 

[KadeBoltz]

If I found myself in that situation, I would have to end the marriage. What would be the point of one of us ALWAYS being unhappy! If I give up being a Zoo, I am unhappy. If she puts up with it, than she is unhappy.

Personally, I would never be in a relationship with someone that didn't truly love me. If I come out to a significant other as a Zoo and they can still love me and see me as they had always did... that to me is real love and whether the relationship evolves into a marriage or stays platonic. We can at least say that we truly love each other.

I don't understand why people will marry someone without knowing as much as they can about the other person, marriages always seem to end because one or both parties realize something about the other persons personality that was always blatantly obvious and they just made the subconscious choice to ignore it. (Example: Marrying someone you know is quite prudish or is conservative in their sexuality, making it obvious that they would not be okay with Zoophilia/Bestiality).

 

[afuckedupbiguy]

I'm with @KadeBoltz . I can't imagine myself being married to someone vanilla that did not accept me for who I really am on the inside and out. I've been there before, and so now, if anyone is potential girlfriend material, they will know all about me and my perversions. And if they're not as into, or appreciative of my kinks, then I know that we could never be a married couple. I've been divorced 3 times, I don't want another!