Where's my fellow trans gals making porn?

[DGWolf]

I know, I know "be the change you want to see" but I currently don't have a canid partner... anyways - I've noticed that while there are a lot of other trans fems and AMAB nonbinary folks on here, there is so little porn featuring us. Now I have a bad feeling a lot of it ends up in the Male Human/M or Male Human/F categories, but perhaps we can encourage each other...
And while I'm admittedly biased towards canids, I'm encouraging anything.

 

[valleyyote]

I know, I know "be the change you want to see" but I currently don't have a canid partner... anyways - I've noticed that while there are a lot of other trans fems and AMAB nonbinary folks on here, there is so little porn featuring us. Now I have a bad feeling a lot of it ends up in the Male Human/M or Male Human/F categories, but perhaps we can encourage each other...
And while I'm admittedly biased towards canids, I'm encouraging anything.

I agree keeping it real does add to the whole supporting each other that needs to happen in all communities. Beautiful pfp btw.

 

[purplexedg8r]

I’ve been hoping to see more along the lines of this, so if any woman is brave enough, please make more content!

 

[pes]

I saw this in one of your replies:

Same. As sadly often the case ads like this are only interested in cis gals, perhaps one day we'll find someone who's chill.

And then this here:

Now I have a bad feeling a lot of it ends up in the Male Human/M or Male Human/F

Which brings me to the question, what it actually is that you want?
Being considered the non-trans gender you want to be is bad because you want to segregate and not mix with normal genders.
While being seen as trans is also bad because you are segregated and not seen by other people as your target gender.
So I do not understand it.

 

[DGWolf]

Well not everyone fits in the categories "male" and "female" especially the way our society draws those categories.

I hopefully don't need to tell you why force segregation is a bad thing.

Self-segregation is often how marginalized groups: a) find others b) protect each other and c) it can be a place where we can vent/etc about things without worrying about our speech/etc being policed by those outside of the marginalized group.

I don't quite understand what you mean by "being considered the non-trans gender you want to be is bad because you want to segregate and not mix with normal genders."

I'm absolutely for trans people who identify as male or female putting their content in said categories, I just know that a lot of content on here isn't posted by the actual content creator.

I, myself wouldn't want to be lumped into either category even if I recognize that 90% of "people on the street" would lump me into one category (thankfully it's female, even if being a butch lesbian who doesn't give a shit about gender "roles" or what most humans think sometimes makes them confused).

If people actually thought to ask why my pronouns are, that would be nice but rarely does that happen. So I've learned to put up with the pronouns of the side of the ""binary gender"" I'm more comfortable existing in.

 

[dogandponyshow]

The example I always think of when people ask something along the line of “why do you need a gay bar? why not just go to a regular bar?” is “At the gay bar I can dance in a room full of sweaty men and half of us will have our shirts off. I’ve never been to a regular bar where I would feel comfortable taking my shirt off.”

This is why people of a variety of minority demographics want spaces for themselves; to feel free to comfortably express themselves and to be understood.

 

[valleyyote]

Well not everyone fits in the categories "male" and "female" especially the way our society draws those categories.

I hopefully don't need to tell you why force segregation is a bad thing.

Self-segregation is often how marginalized groups: a) find others b) protect each other and c) it can be a place where we can vent/etc about things without worrying about our speech/etc being policed by those outside of the marginalized group.

I don't quite understand what you mean by "being considered the non-trans gender you want to be is bad because you want to segregate and not mix with normal genders."

I'm absolutely for trans people who identify as male or female putting their content in said categories, I just know that a lot of content on here isn't posted by the actual content creator.

I, myself wouldn't want to be lumped into either category even if I recognize that 90% of "people on the street" would lump me into one category (thankfully it's female, even if being a butch lesbian who doesn't give a shit about gender "roles" or what most humans think sometimes makes them confused).

If people actually thought to ask why my pronouns are, that would be nice but rarely does that happen. So I've learned to put up with the pronouns of the side of the ""binary gender"" I'm more comfortable existing in.

Well said, it boils down to hey were human and we just all wish to fit in somewhere and not be judged by others and shoved into the round hole when we are a square peg. Folks just need to be who they are and allow others their freedom to be who they will be.

Oh honey you sound sexy! Butch lesbians are so damn hot! or were you giving a for instance type thing?

Hope you are most well and that you have a day of most awesome excellence!

 

[valleyyote]

The example I always think of when people ask something along the line of “why do you need a gay bar? why not just go to a regular bar?” is “At the gay bar I can dance in a room full of sweaty men and half of us will have our shirts off. I’ve never been to a regular bar where I would feel comfortable taking my shirt off.”

This is why people of a variety of minority demographics want spaces for themselves; to feel free to comfortably express themselves and to be understood.

Eyup one must have place to go to be comfortable in their individual, uniqueness! Too often others will judge and be unkind to those who do not fit their preconceived notions of how males should behave. Be your awesome fruity selves! The only question is can a friendly yote join the fun?

May you be most well too and may you also have a day of most awesome excellence!

 

[DGWolf]

Well said, it boils down to hey were human and we just all wish to fit in somewhere and not be judged by others and shoved into the round hole when we are a square peg. Folks just need to be who they are and allow others their freedom to be who they will be.

Oh honey you sound sexy! Butch lesbians are so damn hot! or were you giving a for instance type thing?

Hope you are most well and that you have a day of most awesome excellence!

Well put, though in my case non-human (it's complicated)
Oh, I was absolutely was referring to myself. I'm a soft butch lesbian, my fiancee is more femme than me.

 

[valleyyote]

Well put, though in my case non-human (it's complicated)
Oh, I was absolutely was referring to myself. I'm a soft butch lesbian, my fiancee is more femme than me.

Aww I see well however it it is its all good!

I kinda figured that! Well it has been my experience this is how it works in many cases at least the ones I have seen in person. You have the two ends of the spectrum. It is interesting how obvious it is sometimes. Good Luck to you both in the future! May it always be rainbows and sunshine for you both! You are truly so lucky!

its funny how personalities are sometimes, we have a neighbor who is so gay, flaming does not even begin to describe him. It was obvious from day one that I saw him outside his house in the way he was dressed and was standing. It became even more apparent when he came to introduce himself while my father and i were working in my fathers garden in the way he gestured, talked, carried himself, etc.. then he explained about his tea set and how he wanted to have come tea with my mother. Such a precious fellow! My brother on the other hand who is gay would have to tell you in confidence cause you would never guess. I love the variety, and flavor in humanity!