I was in the BForum group a while back but it seemed more kink oriented and less like a community of non judgementals with a ton of useful info. Well... If I'm being honest, I might've just stumbled into a couple bad discussions and then had real life happen, so I got outta the scene without really looking around so much. I actually found this site after searching and finding out BF shut down years ago. I really like the emphasis on anonymity and encryption here. Couple extra steps but well worth the time, especially with things are changing everywhere. I don't remember many other dedicated forums, just a few sites where maybe a couple people started a thread that was part of a much more diverse crowd... touch n go knowing you were talking to a like minded individual.