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What's the difference between loving your female dog and being in love with your female dog?

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Mikeh3593

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Zoo curious here and been so far a while so ive learned alot of info just from the forums. i only know the loving my spayed female dog and i just love her because of her cute ears, he thousands of different kinds of face styles she has, cow spots on her tummy. just a beautiful dog, zero physical attraction to her because long story short her breed has been in my family for so long that i feel as attracted to them as my brother lol.

I know what its like to be in love with a human woman. but i've never had to wait longer than a few weeks to have sex with them because theyre so attractive. a dog would be like so much longer until 2nd heat and you've kind of raised them like a child. so that would be the longest i would have waited my whole life to have sex after knowing them.

how do you get out of the viewing them as your child and then changing your perspective to mating partner than i guess falling in love with them? like do you fall in love with them like a human ?
 
i think your mindset is kinda wrong if you plan on getting a dog to "wait to have sex". sex is not a given. and it's just as weird to have it as a "goal" of a relationship.

my girl is the only one of my dogs whom i raised from a puppy. i never viewed her as my child. more as simply someone who needed help and protection. i do love her, i always did, nothing changed when sex entered the equation since it wasn't "expected", just a welcome addition.

with that said, i have no idea what it's like to fall in love with a human for comparison. i did fall in love with a dog who wasn't mine...

the rest of my dogs were adults when i got them, not because i fell in love with their pictures or something. one needed a proper home, the other any home at all. the rest was waiting whatever things click or not and they did. i had more dogs before them and it was the same. the initial reason to make them part of my life was to make theirs better, not "to wait for sex".
 
Mikeh3593 said:
Zoo curious here and been so far a while so ive learned alot of info just from the forums. i only know the loving my spayed female dog and i just love her because of her cute ears, he thousands of different kinds of face styles she has, cow spots on her tummy. just a beautiful dog, zero physical attraction to her because long story short her breed has been in my family for so long that i feel as attracted to them as my brother lol.

I know what its like to be in love with a human woman. but i've never had to wait longer than a few weeks to have sex with them because theyre so attractive. a dog would be like so much longer until 2nd heat and you've kind of raised them like a child. so that would be the longest i would have waited my whole life to have sex after knowing them.

how do you get out of the viewing them as your child and then changing your perspective to mating partner than i guess falling in love with them? like do you fall in love with them like a human ?
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I don't ever feel like they're my children, that to me seems weird. When they're young, we do appopriate things that one does with youngsters; learn about the world around us, learn good ways of interacting with that world and in general enjoy the wonder of exploring. Help guide them from accidents and harm and try to teach them constructive ways of interacting; there's training to behave and do certain tasks, not unlike school for a human, etc.

When they mature, if they have urges they want to explore, we explore them; if not, oh well, we still have everything else. The relationship isn't about sex, that's a nice bonus and I'd be a liar if I said I didn't hope for it, but it's not the basis of the relationship. 2 years goes by fast, hell 10 years goes by too damn fast!

Women, men, dogs, bitches, cows, whatever shouldn't be seen as objects for one's desires; there's a lot more to an individual than just sexual gratification and if that's the main forcus for a person, I'd suggest they might need to do some exploring in their own mind and expand their thinking before engaging in any relationship. A good relationship is a give and take support of one another as we go along this one-way trip through time, if you're not getting that you're missing out on so much.
 
I think, love comes with passion too
And being in love, is more coming with appreciate, more darling
 
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