What was the worst thing you heard from your fiancee/lover/friend what felt like it broke you completly?

[EmVel]

Once upon a time my partner told me what she lost sexual interest in me for two reasons: my dick seems for her was little bit small esteticly and instead of standart relationships she wants polyamory. Second reason - no problem, wanted the same thing long ago and would allow it as to my self. But first reason... I felt handicapped... Like some part of me was brutally cut off...
For three days i didnt talked to anyone, everything became meaningless. But i processed it, stated my interests, talked to her about this reason she told me, about what we can do. We accepted cahges in relationshps. I began wearing extender. Gained additional 1 cm.
Then, out of curiosity i asked her what size would be apropriate for her, got my answer and she apologized for that pain and suffering she caused me. Eventually my 15,5 cm was more than enough and only thing what changed from the time we started dating - she and i gained substantial weight.
Her butt and legs got bigger, for me penetrating her became harder because enlarged from fat pubic area...
So. What i want to say... Do not wait, girls and boys. Do not be ashamed. If somethng going wrong and you feeling it - talk about it right fucking now, before it became too late and something what can be felt like honeybee stinging will now kill ya like direct lightning strike.

 

[blijftniksover]

I'm sorry to read this.
And only can agree to your final conclusion.

For me it was another subject.
After taking care of my gf and her son for 12 years (she was unemployed i had my own company) i got sick and wasn't able to work for a few month. So financially we had to take a step back.
After a few month she told me multiple times i was a broke loser, and worth nothing. Even though it paid everything for her and her boy.

I massive stab in my back. Never overcame this.

 

[EmVel]

I'm sorry to read this.
And only can agree to your final conclusion.

For me it was another subject.
After taking care of my gf and her son for 12 years (she was unemployed i had my own company) i got sick and wasn't able to work for a few month. So financially we had to take a step back.
After a few month she told me multiple times i was a broke loser, and worth nothing. Even though it paid everything for her and her boy.

I massive stab in my back. Never overcame this.

Sorry to hear that.

 

[Eminence]

I'm sorry to read this.
And only can agree to your final conclusion.

For me it was another subject.
After taking care of my gf and her son for 12 years (she was unemployed i had my own company) i got sick and wasn't able to work for a few month. So financially we had to take a step back.
After a few month she told me multiple times i was a broke loser, and worth nothing. Even though it paid everything for her and her boy.

I massive stab in my back. Never overcame this.

I know this sound crazy but be grateful she showed you who she really was earlier - imagine what she would've done in a worse situation. That woman you were with never loved you, she just toyed with your emotions so she could use you for financial security. As crazy as this sounds, she did you a favor - she removed herself from your life by telling you she didn't love or care about you. Anyway, forget the past and forget her, let that go and move on. The past doesn't exist anymore

 

[Goattobeloved]

Over half a century being zoo, defining himself as such even at lowest points, active most of them years.
Both had solid plans for the future, Then in one of the lows he winds up feeling it is wrong, dirty and needing to move.

He later has come back, but, confidence broken, things are not the same. We both lost a more that promising future for aging with the only really likeminded person we knew but... I honestly can not risk, we talk occasionally but there IS a big cliff

 

[xXSINNERXx]

Once upon a time my partner told me what she lost sexual interest in me for two reasons: my dick seems for her was little bit small esteticly and instead of standart relationships she wants polyamory. Second reason - no problem, wanted the same thing long ago and would allow it as to my self. But first reason... I felt handicapped... Like some part of me was brutally cut off...
For three days i didnt talked to anyone, everything became meaningless. But i processed it, stated my interests, talked to her about this reason she told me, about what we can do. We accepted cahges in relationshps. I began wearing extender. Gained additional 1 cm.
Then, out of curiosity i asked her what size would be apropriate for her, got my answer and she apologized for that pain and suffering she caused me. Eventually my 15,5 cm was more than enough and only thing what changed from the time we started dating - she and i gained substantial weight.
Her butt and legs got bigger, for me penetrating her became harder because enlarged from fat pubic area...
So. What i want to say... Do not wait, girls and boys. Do not be ashamed. If somethng going wrong and you feeling it - talk about it right fucking now, before it became too late and something what can be felt like honeybee stinging will now kill ya like direct lightning strike.

Dude.. I would’ve left that chick and told her “Good luck using your fingers, I’m out” There’s plenty of other women out there that would be accepting of your penis size or whatever it looks like. Plus it’s fucked up to tell your partner that you aren’t satisfied with the size or look of said body part.

 

[Eminence]

Dude.. I would’ve left that chick and told her “Good luck using your fingers, I’m out” There’s plenty of other women out there that would be accepting of your penis size or whatever it looks like. Plus it’s fucked up to tell your partner that you aren’t satisfied with the size or look of said body part.

A harsh honesty is always better than a comforting lie. At least you'd have taken the correct course of action.