Weird rship situation...

[WinterWolfCrew]

Okay, so let's start with this.

My girlfriend knows I'm a zoophile, but she's not. She doesn't mind it so much, just so much as I dont really talk too much about it or anything. We've had discussions on it, what its like to be sexually attracted to animals and such, but she's a little weirded out in general.

The problem comes with me slowly becoming more and more exclusive to canines. Sexually, that is. While I am still very romantically attracted to my girlfriend (I'd take a bullet for her), my sexual interest in humans is slowly starting to fade away.

Now dont get that confused with me only viewing animals solely as a form of sexual pleasure, I can have romantic and intimate feelings towards an animal just as I can a human (just wanted to disclaim that).

I just don't know how to solve this problem and relay this to my partner. I hope it isn't too much of an issue, since I still take time out of my day to pleasure her through the use of toys and such.

I have someone in my life that I absolutely adore, and while I may be interested in things she is not, she doesn't judge me for any of it. This is someone I could never afford to lose, and I dont want to mess things up.

 

[ShanoirII]

The problem comes with me slowly becoming more and more exclusive to canines. Sexually, that is. While I am still very romantically attracted to my girlfriend (I'd take a bullet for her), my sexual interest in humans is slowly starting to fade away.

So, if I am reading right, the problem is that you are trying to tell her that you are not sexually attracted to humans as much anymore? Well, I do not see that as a reason to end a relationship, since intercourse is not all that a relationship stands on. Would there be any real damage to your bond if you did not have intercourse? Assuming no, I do not see what problems she could have with your zoo-exclusivity, as long as you loved her just as much as you did before.
Remember that you are not obligated to participate in sexual activity with someone you do not want to. There are other ways to express feelings besides sexually.