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Weeding through the BS

NCGuy

NCGuy

Zooville Settler
I get several messages a day. Once I hear from someone that is close enough to meet it comes to 3 factors. Are they who they say they are? Are they sincere about meeting? Do they have a place in mind to meet and play?
I have found that all are just curious, most are not being truthful about their gender and marital status and expect me to work out all the details.
It is tiring and frustrating. Once one of those 3 factors become problematic I do not hesitate to say move along please. I'm not here to waste your time, so please stop wasting mine.
Any others here feel what I'm saying?
 
Well...yeah. Like 98% of people here are just doing it for the porn and fantasy. It sucks if you're genuinely trying to meet up, but it's kind of to be expected.

Also nice to meet you? Did you mean to put this in the intro section?
 
NCGuy said:
I get several messages a day. Once I hear from someone that is close enough to meet it comes to 3 factors. Are they who they say they are? Are they sincere about meeting? Do they have a place in mind to meet and play?
I have found that all are just curious, most are not being truthful about their gender and marital status and expect me to work out all the details.
It is tiring and frustrating. Once one of those 3 factors become problematic I do not hesitate to say move along please. I'm not here to waste your time, so please stop wasting mine.
Any others here feel what I'm saying?
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You stating facts. Unfortunately so many fake accounts and catfishing. Trust is a problem here tbh.
 
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knotadeer14 said:
Well...yeah. Like 98% of people here are just doing it for the porn and fantasy. It sucks if you're genuinely trying to meet up, but it's kind of to be expected.

Also nice to meet you? Did you mean to put this in the intro section?
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It was either here or dumpster fire.... I figured this would be the better of the two.

Electrical Guy said:
Live video chats often help get to the truth.
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Trying that as well.
 
NCGuy said:
Trying that as well.
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I do recommend. Although I have not met anyone in real, for some of the same reasons you mention, I have met some amazing people on here and some of become very good friends.

Relax and be patient. I know it can be frustrating at times
 
It's frustrating that people aren't honest with what they are irl, idk what's so interesting about setting up yourself for failure before you even begin.

About people that are curious it's better for them to be curious and cautious over too pushy. Feels hella red flag when they treat meeting up irl like a casual trip to get groceries.

And yeah like Dartel said if you offer up any service up front don't be surprised if you get an influx of DMs from any possible kind of horny degenerate.
 
catmandevauc said:
It's frustrating that people aren't honest with what they are irl, idk what's so interesting about setting up yourself for failure before you even begin.

About people that are curious it's better for them to be curious and cautious over too pushy. Feels hella red flag when they treat meeting up irl like a casual trip to get groceries.

And yeah like Dartel said if you offer up any service up front don't be surprised if you get an influx of DMs from any possible kind of horny degenerate.
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Your pretty much on point.
On the subject Dartel brought up though, I gotta say he was direct...which is ok. But I found him alittle bit insulting as well. It's not that my boy is just prostituted out. If I don't like the conversations or think it's not a good individual match, then I say so. So I suppose there is a forth factor to consider. Thanks for bringing that up.
 
NCGuy said:
(...)It's not that my boy is just prostituted out.
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Of course not, I didn't mean it like that. Don't take the criticism this way.

But the fact remains that so many users on here are so thirsty for some semblance of content they'll go to pretty wild lengths to get into your DMs whenever they see someone, or some dog "available". They know they'll never go through, but they want the fantasy of pretending I guess, idk. I don't really have that mindset.

Finding the good friends takes time, and it's frustrating at times. I always thought it best to browse this forum during post-nut clarity 🙃 When you're not stuck in horny town it's a lot easier to make leveled decisions.
 
Unfortunately it seems you have almost two kinds of people here. Those who own animals and who are just enjoying to chat and spend fun times with other owners who just love their animals and may also have sex with them. And most part of those who don't animals think they are like in a Mc drive and they'll find the dog and the owner they need...
That the reason, I prefer to talk with people through the forum even it's not the most pratical way to do. And to start before talking sex I talk about animals, how we become zoo etc. You'll see it will discourage some
 
Syncronia1213 said:
Unfortunately it seems you have almost two kinds of people here. Those who own animals and who are just enjoying to chat and spend fun times with other owners who just love their animals and may also have sex with them. And most part of those who don't animals think they are like in a Mc drive and they'll find the dog and the owner they need...
That the reason, I prefer to talk with people through the forum even it's not the most pratical way to do. And to start before talking sex I talk about animals, how we become zoo etc. You'll see it will discourage some
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That is true. Having an actual conversation with someone will weed out a lot of the people you don’t want to get to know better. That is always my approach, I ask if they have read any of my posts, if they have a dog, what they like about ‘em and some mundane details and people who are not serious drop me.
 
Syncronia1213 said:
Unfortunately it seems you have almost two kinds of people here. Those who own animals and who are just enjoying to chat and spend fun times with other owners who just love their animals and may also have sex with them. And most part of those who don't animals think they are like in a Mc drive and they'll find the dog and the owner they need...
That the reason, I prefer to talk with people through the forum even it's not the most pratical way to do. And to start before talking sex I talk about animals, how we become zoo etc. You'll see it will discourage some
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I'm not an owner at the moment, lost my boy to cancer last July, but even when I had him I never got any messages begging to share him. Because I never once made a post indicating that he was available to anyone.

And I wouldn't have spoken to anyone if they had approached me in anyway that they only wanted to get to know me as a means to get to my dog. I'm a person, not a pimp.
 
dartel said:
I'm not an owner at the moment, lost my boy to cancer last July, but even when I had him I never got any messages begging to share him. Because I never once made a post indicating that he was available to anyone.

And I wouldn't have spoken to anyone if they had approached me in anyway that they only wanted to get to know me as a means to get to my dog. I'm a person, not a pimp.
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Very true. My German Shepard and I have a bond. He is my companion. Not a sex toy for anyone who happens to walk by
 
dartel said:
I'm not an owner at the moment, lost my boy to cancer last July, but even when I had him I never got any messages begging to share him. Because I never once made a post indicating that he was available to anyone.

And I wouldn't have spoken to anyone if they had approached me in anyway that they only wanted to get to know me as a means to get to my dog. I'm a person, not a pimp.
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AriesAngyl said:
That is true. Having an actual conversation with someone will weed out a lot of the people you don’t want to get to know better. That is always my approach, I ask if they have read any of my posts, if they have a dog, what they like about ‘em and some mundane details and people who are not serious drop me.
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Right...I just going to through some humor on Dartels judgements
 

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AriesAngyl said:
That is true. Having an actual conversation with someone will weed out a lot of the people you don’t want to get to know better. That is always my approach, I ask if they have read any of my posts, if they have a dog, what they like about ‘em and some mundane details and people who are not serious drop me.
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I all ways ask what are their goals, expectations, long term plans, seems to get rid of all the one hit wonders fast, sex is really low on my list of things. Not off the table but it isn't what I am looking for only, Nice to have a friend where it is just as fun to have a bbq, do some shooting, do some building.
 
knotadeer14 said:
Well...yeah. Like 98% of people here are just doing it for the porn and fantasy. It sucks if you're genuinely trying to meet up, but it's kind of to be expected.

Also nice to meet you? Did you mean to put this in the intro section?
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But I have been told and read countless times that "... is not a dating site"
 
knotadeer14 said:
It's not. That doesn't stop fools from trying though. Where do you think the frustration comes from?
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To be fair to those who ARE actively looking for a dog but don't own, where IS the dating site specifically for zoos?

Exactly...

So even if that's not my goal personally, I can see why many here might view the site that way. However, this is not me making excuses for anyone whose first contact is always a variant of "Great cock. Can I fuck him?"

Due to the illegality involved, this will never operate like Tinder. People who are here looking to hook up need to expect that they will need to invest a long time (months not days) in chat/video chat before an IRL meeting happens. In the interim, they need to get used to using toys.
 
PawsThatRefreshes said:
To be fair to those who ARE actively looking for a dog but don't own, where IS the dating site specifically for zoos?

Exactly...

So even if that's not my goal personally, I can see why many here might view the site that way. However, this is not me making excuses for anyone whose first contact is always a variant of "Great cock. Can I fuck him?"

Due to the illegality involved, this will never operate like Tinder. People who are here looking to hook up need to expect that they will need to invest a long time (months not days) in chat/video chat before an IRL meeting happens. In the interim, they need to get used to using toys.
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So if this is not a dating site why have a meetup section?

There are all kinds of sites for individuals with special interests, bdsm, gay, lesbian, etc. Having a dating site for the special interests is a good idea because why go to Match, PoF, etc. and waste lots of time looking for someone that has the same interest as you.

If they don't want this to be a dating site then take the meetup section down.
 
dartel said:
Because those posts will be made with or without that section. It's there to keep them contained and off the rest of the site.
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It's baffling to me that people don't seem to understand this. The personals section existing doesn't make this a dating site any more than Craigslist was a dating site because it had personals. It's literally a quarantine section to keep the rest of the forum semi-usable.
 
NCGuy said:
I get several messages a day. Once I hear from someone that is close enough to meet it comes to 3 factors. Are they who they say they are? Are they sincere about meeting? Do they have a place in mind to meet and play?
I have found that all are just curious, most are not being truthful about their gender and marital status and expect me to work out all the details.
It is tiring and frustrating. Once one of those 3 factors become problematic I do not hesitate to say move along please. I'm not here to waste your time, so please stop wasting mine.
Any others here feel what I'm saying?
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All the time, luckily, I can't spot the fakers pretty easily.
 
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