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To those who feel afraid

JustAF0x

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A few days ago I felt afraid, of what they would say, what they would think if they knew that I am attracted to animals, but once I accepted that it is part of me, I can't help but feel relieved and happy, knowing that bestiality is not what they paint it as, we are not rapists, we are not abusers, we are people who, regardless of the form, find love in each and every one of the living beings, a deeper love of course, but just as pure as the one we feel between humans, between family, between couplesDon't be afraid to be yourself, just remember that not everyone will agree with your tastes but this will always be present everywhere, hobbies, jobs, passions, tastes, only what makes you happy really is what matters ??
 
A few days ago I felt afraid, of what they would say, what they would think if they knew that I am attracted to animals, but once I accepted that it is part of me, I can't help but feel relieved and happy, knowing that bestiality is not what they paint it as, we are not rapists, we are not abusers, we are people who, regardless of the form, find love in each and every one of the living beings, a deeper love of course, but just as pure as the one we feel between humans, between family, between couplesDon't be afraid to be yourself, just remember that not everyone will agree with your tastes but this will always be present everywhere, hobbies, jobs, passions, tastes, only what makes you happy really is what matters ??
exactly . It took a very long time for me to except these facts because of being raised as a Seventh Day Adventist and how people talked about those who were involved in the life style. I personally will never tell my family because they all believe that it is a disease or the mind and all those involved should be executed. My father went so far as to say a bullet to the head would be acceptable. What really hurts is they are perfectly fine with gay men, lesbian woman, and transgenders. So yeah I'm the odd man out as they saying goes. So I get ya. It really would be nice to find a place where we don't have to worry about our health and well being.

May you always be happy and content and may you never be in danger. I hope you have a most wonderful day! :gsd_happysmile:??

I wish to say what an adorable pfp, Really liking those cute jelly beans and the high contrast color against the black of the feet and legs. Feet are cool and jelly beans are fun to play with.
 
@JustAF0x well said, there’s certainly tremendous amounts of guilt in this space, and the more folks advocate the better it will get for all of us!

@valleyyote that’s a really tough situation, depending on how close you are with your family, I’d imagine it can be quite lonely, not to mention you’d have to be on your best behavior and maybe a bit paranoid to reveal anything while spending time with them.

Forums can sometimes be better than nothing, but I still think this lifestyle can be pretty bleak—I’m glad you’ve sort of been able to resolve it in a way that works for you.
 
@JustAF0x well said, there’s certainly tremendous amounts of guilt in this space, and the more folks advocate the better it will get for all of us!

@valleyyote that’s a really tough situation, depending on how close you are with your family, I’d imagine it can be quite lonely, not to mention you’d have to be on your best behavior and maybe a bit paranoid to reveal anything while spending time with them.

Forums can sometimes be better than nothing, but I still think this lifestyle can be pretty bleak—I’m glad you’ve sort of been able to resolve it in a way that works for you.
It is tough for sure but I love all my family dearly. it can be and yes I am always on guard. I never mention it or let anything slip.

Yes they can and indeed it can, considering even those in certain other communities you might think would accept it are rabid haters and will in many cases pretend to be your friend just to out you to others. Indeed.

Thank you for your kind words of support!:gsd_wink:

May you be most well and may you have a most beautiful day! :gsd_happysmile:??

It would be nice to be able to live and love without fear, but living in such a judgmental society I fear it's impossible.
indeed, so true.
 
Very well said. ?
Saying it is one thing, feeling it is a very different thing, more difficult but more rewarding ?

exactly . It took a very long time for me to except these facts because of being raised as a Seventh Day Adventist and how people talked about those who were involved in the life style. I personally will never tell my family because they all believe that it is a disease or the mind and all those involved should be executed. My father went so far as to say a bullet to the head would be acceptable. What really hurts is they are perfectly fine with gay men, lesbian woman, and transgenders. So yeah I'm the odd man out as they saying goes. So I get ya. It really would be nice to find a place where we don't have to worry about our health and well being.

May you always be happy and content and may you never be in danger. I hope you have a most wonderful day! :gsd_happysmile:??

I wish to say what an adorable pfp, Really liking those cute jelly beans and the high contrast color against the black of the feet and legs. Feet are cool and jelly beans are fun to play with.
I'm really sorry to hear that but everyone has secrets to hide, so don't feel bad if it's not something you can tell them, they also have their things to hide from you but that's okay that's how it is! I also hope that you have a very nice day and that you can find the right circle with which you can share your tastes and experiences from comfort and confidence, Although it is not necessary to have a circle, it really helps you feel more calm knowing that you have people nearby who support you and help each other in wathever you need??✨✨✨?The drawing is not mine, it is from an artist. I really love how he draws. He really draws very pretty paws?✨?✨

@JustAF0x well said, there’s certainly tremendous amounts of guilt in this space, and the more folks advocate the better it will get for all of us!

@valleyyote that’s a really tough situation, depending on how close you are with your family, I’d imagine it can be quite lonely, not to mention you’d have to be on your best behavior and maybe a bit paranoid to reveal anything while spending time with them.

Forums can sometimes be better than nothing, but I still think this lifestyle can be pretty bleak—I’m glad you’ve sort of been able to resolve it in a way that works for you.
Sometimes what we need is to know the way in which others feel good to have a reference to find our happiness, that is why it is always good to share our experiences, We never know who we can help just by telling a story, by talking about some difficulty and how we overcome it, fortunately, zoophilia is nothing more than something that only It must be accepted by the same person, for what it is, love and affection for those who, without words, show more love than many people?✨?✨

It would be nice to be able to live and love without fear, but living in such a judgmental society I fear it's impossible.
but it is not impossible to live happily within that society, one does not depend on what others say or think, as long as you are happy with what you do, think and you are not hurting any other being Society is irrelevant, obviously as I mentioned there are things that are not said or done in public because there are people who are capable of anything to defend their principles, It is where we must show ourselves to be better than them, respecting the fact that they do not agree by doing things in private and our circle of mutual trust, but doing it because It is something that is part of us ✨?✨??

It is tough for sure but I love all my family dearly. it can be and yes I am always on guard. I never mention it or let anything slip.

Yes they can and indeed it can, considering even those in certain other communities you might think would accept it are rabid haters and will in many cases pretend to be your friend just to out you to others. Indeed.

Thank you for your kind words of support!:gsd_wink:

May you be most well and may you have a most beautiful day! :gsd_happysmile:??
Don't lose that kindness, don't lose that person that you are, great acts are carried out by great minds and great minds are always guided by love for others and for one himself, just don't lose yourself by giving more love to others than you would give to yourself valleyote Always remember to treat yourself well and enjoy yourself, even if in private, but know that if you don't enjoy yourself, no one will do it for you ✨??✨✨✨??
 
Don't lose that kindness, don't lose that person that you are, great acts are carried out by great minds and great minds are always guided by love for others and for one himself, just don't lose yourself by giving more love to others than you would give to yourself valleyote Always remember to treat yourself well and enjoy yourself, even if in private, but know that if you don't enjoy yourself, no one will do it for you ✨??✨✨✨??
I will not. thank you very much! :gsd_love:

I'm really sorry to hear that but everyone has secrets to hide, so don't feel bad if it's not something you can tell them, they also have their things to hide from you but that's okay that's how it is! I also hope that you have a very nice day and that you can find the right circle with which you can share your tastes and experiences from comfort and confidence, Although it is not necessary to have a circle, it really helps you feel more calm knowing that you have people nearby who support you and help each other in wathever you need??✨✨✨?The drawing is not mine, it is from an artist. I really love how he draws. He really draws very pretty paws?✨?✨
Its fine. Thank you it was a most wonderful sunny, warm day! Oh Im sure I will someday. Yes indeed having loving friends always makes thing much easier and better for sure! I see. Nice to have artsy friends! Heis a good drawer for sure and indeed does amazing paws! :gsd_love:

Thanks again for all the very kind uplifting words and sentiments! I do hope you have loads of friends, lots of good health and that you have day most wonderful day full of bright sunshine, blue skies, warmth, happiness and wonderful surprises! :gsd_happysmile:??
 
A few days ago I felt afraid, of what they would say, what they would think if they knew that I am attracted to animals, but once I accepted that it is part of me, I can't help but feel relieved and happy
Accepting fear has a way of making it vanish. Same goes for anger. Even boredom.

To not accept is dishonest. Many do not accept their fear. Happiness can often mask it. Blind people to it. If you don't know the signs of it then fear can be very sneaky. It can sneak in before you know it.

Fear is more then just a feeling. It's anxiety that you will feel. There's a difference.
 
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