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Time wasters

I ran into that a lot when other forums were more active. I swear a lot of them it really is a 'fantasy' that they role play. Those that did show up, I rarely got any repeat customers, as the 'reality' of dog sex wasn't what they were thinking, I think mainly how actually short the males hump for before knotting up.
 
GhostWolf7 said:
I ran into that a lot when other forums were more active. I swear a lot of them it really is a 'fantasy' that they role play. Those that did show up, I rarely got any repeat customers, as the 'reality' of dog sex wasn't what they were thinking, I think mainly how actually short the males hump for before knotting up.
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It's like they're expecting the speed and animalistic traits they see but with the endurance of a human lol
 
Speaking for myself, I’ll chat with most anyone, but I typically put out there pretty early that I’m not interested in hookups or anything. Meeting people from the internet to do illegal activities or after chatting about illegal things is just scary. And as a women, we just get so used to guys starting out really nice and then turning psycho at the slightest bit of resistance or hesitation. So subconsciously, we may just be thinking about and waiting for you to go psycho too on us. It may not be the case but it’s hard to separate past experiences from current ones when there’s so many similarities.

As someone who has chatted with maybe over a hundred guys on here, 99.999% of guys say the exact same things and act the exact same way. It’s actually kinda interesting. As tho every guy attended the same classes on how to talk to women.

So when you may be chatting up a woman, and things seem like they are going good and you’re working towards meeting up, there’s a good chance that the conversation is following the exact same formula as someone else before you that turned very horrible very fast. It’s not fair to you, but that can affect your outcome and how she sees you as a possible meetup. Especially if you may start coming off as pushy, even if you’re only trying to come off as excited.

In the end, it’s different reasons. I will say, most “women” I’ve met on here are just dudes pretending. So there’s that too. ???
 
Seems to me that the conversation shifted from ghosters to flake out after the fact (meeting/doing). Which here, is a HUGE HUGE leap from one to the other.

97% of these ghosting flakes aren't even women. As has been noted, these are Bi or closet gay pud slappers mostly, why the fuck else would you be cyber fucking a man on the internet? And, news flash, if the RP is anal sex, that percentage just jumped to 99.5%. Do women like anal? Sure, some do. How many do any of you personally know or know of? I'm sure many do know some, but, that's a tiny, tiny percentage of all women. Add in they dont know you from adam, and she's just telling you, randomly, she likes anal? Come on. Seriously.

Personally, I wouldn't call any woman who actually met up with someone a timewaster, regardless of outcome.

But, these ghosting, flake out motherfuckers..........no question those are wasting your time. And, most of those are men.

My only advice to anyone that may be helpful is to pay attention to what's being said and the manner in which it is said. There are signs that tell you you're talking to a man, but, you'll never see them while your dick is in your hand because you aren't paying attention.

The biggest sign of all is the level of sexual aggression. Women are simply not that aggressive, but, men are.
 
I honestly dnt see how anyone has the time to chat in here, i treat this like facebook, i come in, see new posts n leave, cant stay long i always feel like someones watching lol
 
dracoman18 said:
I've been chatting with a few people and it seems like there's a lot of women that just like the idea of meeting and never follow through. Is this common or am I just getting the short end of the straw?
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My experience on here and other sites is the same as yours. If they are not guys pretending to be women to get their rocks off they are real women just playing games. I have not yet met one real woman, only lots of ghosts and no shows.
 
dracoman18 said:
It's so annoying I get all excited just for it to never f****** happen
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As someone who's been involved in this for 25 years, ive feel 99% of real women into this and who want to try, are not hyper eager to meet a stranger (even one with a pet) after only a couple of conversations.

So if you're talking to a woman and she is expressing cautious optimism about making it a reality, In all likelihood, they are real.

If they come across really eager to meet and they don't want to talk about anything relating to their safety, odds are good you've got a guy pretending.
 
From our (MF couple) perspective we will chat with anyone who messages us. We are actively looking for connections that will lead us to experiences, but we stop conversing with people when the conversation pivots to meeting IRL after just a handful of messages.

We are eager, but cautious. Desperation is never sexy, regardless of the fetish.
 
Miss Zoo Whore said:
Speaking for myself, I’ll chat with most anyone, but I typically put out there pretty early that I’m not interested in hookups or anything. Meeting people from the internet to do illegal activities or after chatting about illegal things is just scary. And as a women, we just get so used to guys starting out really nice and then turning psycho at the slightest bit of resistance or hesitation. So subconsciously, we may just be thinking about and waiting for you to go psycho too on us. It may not be the case but it’s hard to separate past experiences from current ones when there’s so many similarities.

As someone who has chatted with maybe over a hundred guys on here, 99.999% of guys say the exact same things and act the exact same way. It’s actually kinda interesting. As tho every guy attended the same classes on how to talk to women.

So when you may be chatting up a woman, and things seem like they are going good and you’re working towards meeting up, there’s a good chance that the conversation is following the exact same formula as someone else before you that turned very horrible very fast. It’s not fair to you, but that can affect your outcome and how she sees you as a possible meetup. Especially if you may start coming off as pushy, even if you’re only trying to come off as excited.

In the end, it’s different reasons. I will say, most “women” I’ve met on here are just dudes pretending. So there’s that too. ???
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I certainly don't want to come off as pushy. I like to think of myself as a gentleman around all women. (even if her avatar shows off all of her charms.) As part of a couple that has some experience swinging,I think there are ways to meet safely. Set rules, meet in public places, no sexual talk(legal or not) Just normal conversation,get to know each other.Also a firm no on any sex until you're comfortable.

As a couple, we don't meet anybody separately.
 
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