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Those who are married or in a relationship. Do you consider having sex with your animals as having a affair?

Unless there would be mutual agreement with all involved, yes, it would be cheating in my book. I wouldn't do anything with an animal behind my bf's back and I expect the same from him. Relationship with them is for me on the same level as human one.
 
Absolutely not, I was in a relationship with my first beloved equine companion, lover and partner before I ever got married. Unfortunately in my younger, naive, idealistic years I purchased the human delusion of marriage and children until I was involved as a husband and father. Over time I came to realize that my true focus and love was my equine partner. I endured marriage until both our children were adults, independent and self-supporting. I'm NOT husband material nor a 'perfect' father. I did my best within the constraints of my ignorance and limitations as a father.

Thankfully equines are NOT monogamous as I'm not either and they don't hold their lovers/partners to such. I'm on good terms with my ex as I was honest and up front about my zoophilia before marriage. I've enjoyed decent relationships with our children too.
 
If it's done behind the back, yes.

If your partner is knowing you have that desire, you should get his/her/it's agreement first.

If your partner don't know you have that desire, than you life in a very untrusty relationship in general.
 
EponasDevotee said:
Absolutely not, I was in a relationship with my first beloved equine companion, lover and partner before I ever got married.
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EponasDevotee said:
I was honest and up front about my zoophilia before marriage.
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If so, then, in my book you were NOT cheating at all, be it a horse, a man or a woman.

I can't see a problem as long as one person is not hiding something important from a trusted someone who may be affected or hurt by it.
 
Both cows and sows enjoys several partners, and so did I too, back in time at the family farm. Like every other boar / bull I sniffed around in the stable when dark, in my search for females in heat. No one felt that cheating.
But now having a wife. I have a few times during the years had mating both cows, sows and a donkey mare. I know that others disagree with me, but to me it was not cheating.
 
I’ve told them about me and my zoo sexuality and how I already have a partner and I’m not really searching for one I’m happy but would love to have a partner to work with and have the emotional human talking bond And I am emotional sexual I have found out I care for them but K9 is my primary drive and they ignore what I say about it for the most part and I literally told them broke up with them and they got back together with me that are still ignoring when I said and tell them no sex before marriage which is good but they would consider this is cheating on them when they were the ones that wanted me to be their boyfriend twice and they made me so I don’t know I feel like it’s a burning roller coaster they are extremely jealous of even their own sister and friends and mom even like I told you I am I need emotional connection and I am interested in canines like chill I don’t know wtf I’m not in control of the relationship obviously. We get along great even though they’re a little backwards or should I say whole lot it’s been a really long time especially in these days of standards of a relationship so there’s no doubt in my mind if I don’t tell her or she just keeps playing dumb about when I told her not once not twice all the time then there will be no problem in a relationship as far as I can honestly see and feel
 
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MishaCZ said:
Tenzij er wederzijdse overeenstemming zou zijn met alle betrokkenen, ja, zou het vals spelen in mijn boek. Ik zou niets doen met een dier achter de rug van mijn vriendje en ik verwacht hetzelfde van hem. De relatie met hen staat voor mij op hetzelfde niveau als de menselijke.
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It's not cheating aslong as:
There is knowledge of the desires.
The partner is not being puted beside in the relationship. Example. She fucked the dog today, and the partner comes home and want to have sex. To bad but, it's not because she just fucked the dog, that he has no right of sex anymore.
 
Been married a long time and part of the reason why my wife and I have such a good relationship is that we are completely open with one another and encourage one another to enjoy ourselves as much as possible sexually whether together or with others (humans and animals). She isn't into animals but supports my attraction to bitches and has no issue with me pounding the bitch even in bed next to her - though if I woke her up doing it that might be a problem :LOL:

Personally I think its an issue when it becomes a secretive thing especially if it turns into the sole sexual outlet for the person engaging with the animal. To me its just not right for one person in any relationship to suddenly find themselves missing out on attention they received earlier on in the relationship. Thats the sort of thing that inevitably leads to problems with both people potentially finding themselves unfulfilled and wanting something else.
 
Not in a relationship but if I was to be in one now, I'd think it would be being with the human as cheating on my dog since he and I was a "thing" first.
 
KerriAnn9 said:
Not in a relationship but if I was to be in one now, I'd think it would be being with the human as cheating on my dog since he and I was a "thing" first.
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You can't actually "cheat" on a dog because they can smell *everything* and the moment you get near he will kniw exactly who you have been with and what you have done ?
 
KerriAnn9 said:
Not in a relationship but if I was to be in one now, I'd think it would be being with the human as cheating on my dog since he and I was a "thing" first.
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Simple answer is see if the human bonds with the dog, from there it’s your desires of who gets your attention….. (pro tip, find a pack partner who appreciates an alpha ?)
 
I would say it's cheating if you're forced to be secretive about it due to fear of being caught. Should be a mutual agreement!
 
I believe in emotionally committed, non-monogamous relationships. And if I were lucky enough to be in a relationship with somebody who was also into animals (it hasn't happened yet), I would hope it would be a threesome.

Saying that, if I were to have sex with an animal while in a relationship with somebody who was not similarly interested, I would still let them know. Just as I would if I were to have sex with another person. If they were so upset by it that they wanted to break things off, I would be okay with that. I'm past second-guessing my personal choices in that way. I wouldn't hide it, but I also wouldn't restrain myself.
 
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