The Schrodinger Relationship Conundrum...

[Deleted member 36062]

Anyone else ever do or say one of those things to another person that you know will either:
1. Piss em off and or result in them not caring for you any longer
Or 2. Shows that you are brutally honest and they have new founded appreciation towards you?

And no matter the outcome, if you never check your email, or texts, or what not, that person is equally either 1 or 2, but not both and the relationship you had is either still alive, or dead.
Kinda like Schrodinger's cat, either alive, or dead.
And not until you check said email or messages can you be for certain.
It's kind of a blissful state of being, no matter how temporary.

 

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I've certainly done both 1 and 2. Alienated some people, brought over some more. You get to know where those close to you stand on things when you do this.

 

[Deleted member 36062]

fortunately the trigger for this post resulted in the better of the 2 responses. So, huge relief. But man, I certainly was willing to completely unplug and move to Alaska so I never had to check .