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Hey so just writing up a quick tid bit self research thing about why the 'zoo-exclusive' may come to be in this world. I just wanted to write up some key points that I’ve found as it is something that I find interesting as I am zoo-exclusive myself and hope it may help someone someday. By writing this I wish not to offend anyone in anyway as this is mainly MY OWN opinion from MY OWN views. I DO NOT want to put any words into people's mouths and I can't speak on behalf of everyone as everyone views things differently and has different experiences. I hope to give some sort of insight and maybe some possible answers to other zoo-exclusives that may be struggling with this lifestyle as many as I'm sure find many challenges about it.
So for starters I believe as a zoo that we have more respect for animals than most people do and that being zoo in itself starts almost as soon as your born. It’s something that just can’t be changed. There's a lot of variables such as different experiences that we all have, but think we can all agree that we as zoo's start at a very early age of having this much stronger draw, desire, bond, and compassion for animals. I think that goes without saying that probably some of us if not most of us have to a degree of Asperger's syndrome (which is something I too struggle with); and I don't mean that as in a negative way, but may be the reason as to why we are zoosexual in the first place and why we are socially distant and why we are socially awkward at times and why we have a hard time understanding people sometimes and why we have certain obsessions and why we can accelerate very well specifically on one or very few skills that we are very very very good at understanding and doing.
Like I say, everyone deals with different struggles differently. I think many of us zoo-exclusives choose this lifestyle of being single forever from humans is due to the fact that WE ARE DIFFERENT. That many of us may struggle with trust issues from humans. I think mainly why zoos have all these trust issues and why we have to worry about it all the time, is because being attracted to animals is illegal in most parts of the world. There may also be many other variables such as high anxiety of forming a relationship with a human and having high anxiety about dealing with the zoo side of you in a relationship and also knowing that a relationship can turn sour in a heartbeat. Maybe you just don’t want that kind of risk. Maybe you’re not attracted to humans at all. Maybe you may have higher expectations. Maybe you enjoy your freedom from a human relationship and to do things by your own timeline. Maybe you might feel a bit tied down in a human relationship. Maybe you fear commitment. Maybe you don’t want to hurt or be hurt by someone else. Maybe work gets in the way more often than it should to form healthy relationships with humans. The list goes on and it’s okay to be alone if that’s what you desire.
I think society it’s self has formed unhealthy ‘social-norms’ which has created lots of high anxiety that has caused many problems for many many people; and that in society if you don’t behave in the most slightest certain way that you’re shunned for it. I think not being able to openly talk to people face-to-face, lack of social gatherings, social media, working many many hours and end up not even having anytime to yourself, and not being around people in a social environment can all have a negative impact on social society. I don’t understand where people want to be mean to each other, I don’t understand gossip and you’re not fitting into the mold and why there is a need to tear apart the fabric of society instead of making it so strong that we all support each other; and I don’t get that; I’m no good at playing the social games that the rest of the world plays; I don’t understand it; I don’t get it; I’d rather have a very honest relationship with a non-human animal that has more desire and compassion to socially, spiritually, and romantically accept me for who I am no matter the circumstances. It’s easy, it’s logical. Animals want to be loved and I love them.
In conclusion, if you’re zoo it is absolutely okay and natural to be attracted to animals whether it involves sex or not; don’t ever let anyone else tell you otherwise because it’s none of their business and it’s not for them to decide the life you choose to live. You have to do YOU no matter what… YOU HAVE TO DO YOU... otherwise you’ll never be happy with yourself. I’ll be honest, living a zoo-exclusive lifestyle can be a very very difficult lifestyle to live. It comes with many challenges, but it also comes with many benefits that I value and appreciate very much. Many of the challenges I’ve learned to accept and tackle them head on and if you’re zoo-exclusive, you may struggle with accepting the fact that you may not ever form a committed romantic relationship with a human ever. You may have to accept the fact that you may end up being a loner for the rest of your life. I myself had to figure out that you can’t let the mind take control and overthink about all the negative things and all the what ifs in life. It took myself a lot of time and meditating to accept these facts. Nothing matters besides yourself to make yourself accepting and happy for yourself; not your friends, not your co-workers, not your family, not society and it’s bullshit; ONLY YOU… that’s what matters. You absolutely need to do the things that make you happy and to fulfill your life. You need to find a life that suits you and your needs. If you need any help or advice, we are lucky enough and I am very thankful to have this community on here where we are all here in this together to support each other.
All of this that I talked about is okay, you just have to accept yourself and you’ll be fine.
Hope you found this helpful or at least interesting and if you’d like to add any key points to this, feel free to reply in the comments below.
--- Existence could be beautiful or it could be ugly, but that’s on YOU... DREAM you’ve got to find out the future your fighting for.
So for starters I believe as a zoo that we have more respect for animals than most people do and that being zoo in itself starts almost as soon as your born. It’s something that just can’t be changed. There's a lot of variables such as different experiences that we all have, but think we can all agree that we as zoo's start at a very early age of having this much stronger draw, desire, bond, and compassion for animals. I think that goes without saying that probably some of us if not most of us have to a degree of Asperger's syndrome (which is something I too struggle with); and I don't mean that as in a negative way, but may be the reason as to why we are zoosexual in the first place and why we are socially distant and why we are socially awkward at times and why we have a hard time understanding people sometimes and why we have certain obsessions and why we can accelerate very well specifically on one or very few skills that we are very very very good at understanding and doing.
Like I say, everyone deals with different struggles differently. I think many of us zoo-exclusives choose this lifestyle of being single forever from humans is due to the fact that WE ARE DIFFERENT. That many of us may struggle with trust issues from humans. I think mainly why zoos have all these trust issues and why we have to worry about it all the time, is because being attracted to animals is illegal in most parts of the world. There may also be many other variables such as high anxiety of forming a relationship with a human and having high anxiety about dealing with the zoo side of you in a relationship and also knowing that a relationship can turn sour in a heartbeat. Maybe you just don’t want that kind of risk. Maybe you’re not attracted to humans at all. Maybe you may have higher expectations. Maybe you enjoy your freedom from a human relationship and to do things by your own timeline. Maybe you might feel a bit tied down in a human relationship. Maybe you fear commitment. Maybe you don’t want to hurt or be hurt by someone else. Maybe work gets in the way more often than it should to form healthy relationships with humans. The list goes on and it’s okay to be alone if that’s what you desire.
I think society it’s self has formed unhealthy ‘social-norms’ which has created lots of high anxiety that has caused many problems for many many people; and that in society if you don’t behave in the most slightest certain way that you’re shunned for it. I think not being able to openly talk to people face-to-face, lack of social gatherings, social media, working many many hours and end up not even having anytime to yourself, and not being around people in a social environment can all have a negative impact on social society. I don’t understand where people want to be mean to each other, I don’t understand gossip and you’re not fitting into the mold and why there is a need to tear apart the fabric of society instead of making it so strong that we all support each other; and I don’t get that; I’m no good at playing the social games that the rest of the world plays; I don’t understand it; I don’t get it; I’d rather have a very honest relationship with a non-human animal that has more desire and compassion to socially, spiritually, and romantically accept me for who I am no matter the circumstances. It’s easy, it’s logical. Animals want to be loved and I love them.
In conclusion, if you’re zoo it is absolutely okay and natural to be attracted to animals whether it involves sex or not; don’t ever let anyone else tell you otherwise because it’s none of their business and it’s not for them to decide the life you choose to live. You have to do YOU no matter what… YOU HAVE TO DO YOU... otherwise you’ll never be happy with yourself. I’ll be honest, living a zoo-exclusive lifestyle can be a very very difficult lifestyle to live. It comes with many challenges, but it also comes with many benefits that I value and appreciate very much. Many of the challenges I’ve learned to accept and tackle them head on and if you’re zoo-exclusive, you may struggle with accepting the fact that you may not ever form a committed romantic relationship with a human ever. You may have to accept the fact that you may end up being a loner for the rest of your life. I myself had to figure out that you can’t let the mind take control and overthink about all the negative things and all the what ifs in life. It took myself a lot of time and meditating to accept these facts. Nothing matters besides yourself to make yourself accepting and happy for yourself; not your friends, not your co-workers, not your family, not society and it’s bullshit; ONLY YOU… that’s what matters. You absolutely need to do the things that make you happy and to fulfill your life. You need to find a life that suits you and your needs. If you need any help or advice, we are lucky enough and I am very thankful to have this community on here where we are all here in this together to support each other.
All of this that I talked about is okay, you just have to accept yourself and you’ll be fine.
Hope you found this helpful or at least interesting and if you’d like to add any key points to this, feel free to reply in the comments below.
--- Existence could be beautiful or it could be ugly, but that’s on YOU... DREAM you’ve got to find out the future your fighting for.
