Gotta add a resounding !YES! to what Caikgoch and Misha and Angy and Gunslinger (and if I missed naming any of the rest, so sorry, I ain't perfrekt
) have already said. Treat this place as a "hookup" or "anybody wanna get together with me?" site, and you will almost certainly be disappointed, and it's all but certain you'll get slapped down - likely quite hard - by anyone who's actually "safe", "trustworthy", "worthwhile", or whatever other term you want to apply. That kind of crap is what the kink-kiddies and wannbes do, and you'll routinely see them catching at least a verbal beatdown, if not an outright ban, when they do it in public, and often reported/booted/banned/ignored if they start sliming their way into PMs.
As far as "making a list", that's up to *YOU* to do. It's not the place of ANYONE here to be compiling a list of who is/isn't "good people", for the simple reason that "good people" is a moving target that's a bit different for every one of us To one of the typical wankers, "good people" is the poster who dumps gigabytes of porn that was ancient history 20 years ago. To the typical kinkster, the only qualification for "good people" is "You've got a dog you'l let me fuck!". To those of us who have "been around the block" more than a couple of times, "good people" is folks we've figured out - usually through conversations that may have been ongoing for literally years, if not decades, on the various incarnations of "zoo-friendly" platforms that have come and gone - know what they're talking of and can be trusted. Maybe those folks do have a critter partner, maybe they don't, but they DO have the sense that comes only with experience.
Many - not all, but a large percentage - of the "old-timers" tend to be rather... Shall we say "salty"? when it comes to dealing with the 85913706226th repetition of the same old bullshit that's been trotted out over the years they've been observing this so-called "community", and react accordingly. Many of them are also cautious to the very edge of (and sometimes a bit beyond) outright paranoia - and with damned good reason. The idea of being on a "list", even if it's a list of "folks that are OK", isn't just "not good", it's outright terrifying to some of them. I, personally, would object as strongly as is possible to any such list existing at all, and would howl even louder if I were on it.
In short, you find out who the "good people" are by hanging out, cussin' and discussin', and keeping your eyes open. A good bit of advice, borrowed from Alcoholics Anonymous, is "until you've got 90 days or so, your best bet is to yank the cotton out of your ears and shove it in your mouth" - In less flowery terms, "shut up, listen lots, talk little, and figure out the lay of the land" before you start trying to do anything more than be a passive observer.