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Should I share my dogs?

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knot.lesbi

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I hope you're all doing well! I am sort of in a conundrum. Over the years i've really enjoyed being a part of forums where I can be honest with myself. Additionally, have really enjoyed talking with others that are a part of this lifestyle. In the past, i've had conversations with other woman who also enjoy the lifestyle and also participate with other groups and meet ups. Of course, they were always really far away from me so the temptation was always really mild.. until recently. I started talking to a former BeastForum member again and it turns out she is close to me now. She is a doggo virgin and has always wanted to try mating with a dog. I get the feeling that she is very genuine, but for my safety I have always kept this to me and my animals. Ladies, have you ever been in this situation? If you decided to give it a chance, how did it go? Or if you let your dogs mate with other women, what has your experience been like? Thanks in advance.
I should also note that we've talked a ton and facetimed a lot

Also new to Zooville. Didn't know this existed until just today!
 
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I can't say

I'm pretty big on what Mare Lover said, and I feel finding that is going to be extremely difficult

I dunno about you but I'm super paranoid about even meeting fellow Zoos

I don't own at the moment, and I've not participated much in the community. I've dreamt of someone who I'd get to meet would be the conduit to an underground community of zoosexuals and true animal love and stuff, and I've dreamt of having someone with who I have a bond deep enough that hey'd be willing to share with me or vice versa when I own. But it be only a dream, and I must accept the fact that this is very improbable and may never happen, due to both my trust issues and the unlikelihood of there being someone like this

I feel it's a pretty universal wish, to have a sort of mentor, and guide who would lead you to your Eden. Alas, a wish is only a wish, and this be a risky one at that. You can dream what it feels like to be at the summit, but if you want to get there, you better enjoy climbing. And it would be awfully disappointing to climb up, only to discover it wasn't really a mountain in the first place
 
I, personally, wouldn't share my dogs unless I am really close to that person. She would have to be at least a reeeaaally good friend for me to allow such an act.
I am an extremely jealous person, I'd definetely regret sharing my dog to someone I don't trust 120%.

But in the end it is your decision, if you want to do it or not. Listen to your gut.
 
I wouldn't ... too many risk... even with your close friends you don't know what could happend if something goes bad... oh yes you know : Jail .
 
Well, I'm a male with a female dog. But I generally don't mind sharing her if you can meet all of my criteria:

1) I've known you for a year or more, and can be trusted.

2) You're STD free.

3) You wash your dick before you fuck her.

4) If the dog says no, or she changes her mind during sex. You stop immediately. You can try to get her in the mood, but if she rejects you, you have to leave it at that.

Besides number 3, these rules should also apply to male dogs as well. There's a lot of risk with sharing, so it's best to keep it between very close friends that you've built a longstanding relationships with. So far I've only shared my newfie with 2 people since I got her. She let one fuck her, and she rejected the other guy.
 
well if you talk about issues of sharing the dog "emotionaly" then well the dog offcourse does not care. if you bring another woman to the house he would just go at it because it is a sexual opportunity but then focus on you again when you would be alone with him.

as far as risk goes - depends on how much you trust yourself to be careful.
a situation I had (I am a man) about sharing my dog with a female friend was that we were already close and I told her I saw some extreme porn on the internet and she asked to see and got turned on next to me so when we discussed it she considered on actually having sex with a dog and would probably go for trying my dog but I did not offered her for different reason in the end :).

so it is about taing it carefully and step by step.
 
I have met with a couple to share with them. It went well, the visit overall, but they got cold feet. It was in a nudist campground, and the neighbor may have been looking at us strange near the RV's.

It's a risk reward spectrum. If you've been in touch with her that long and have facetimed with her, I think the risks are fairly low.

What are the rewards? Are you a little bit of a voyeur? Will you feel proud to have helped and shared? Will a solid and rewarding friendship form after?

Most importantly, is that the person is who they say they are, and that they are steady and don't change their mind and become unstable. If you see some consistent behavior from her that doesn't include a ton of drama, I think that you should strongly consider having the experience.
 
Renee said:
I have met with a couple to share with them. It went well, the visit overall, but they got cold feet. It was in a nudist campground, and the neighbor may have been looking at us strange near the RV's.

It's a risk reward spectrum. If you've been in touch with her that long and have facetimed with her, I think the risks are fairly low.

What are the rewards? Are you a little bit of a voyeur? Will you feel proud to have helped and shared? Will a solid and rewarding friendship form after?

Most importantly, is that the person is who they say they are, and that they are steady and don't change their mind and become unstable. If you see some consistent behavior from her that doesn't include a ton of drama, I think that you should strongly consider having the experience.
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Curious - what level of drama is too much? Drama is common, but too many times it is over the top.
 
I'm sure that will vary from person to person, and how much they believe that they can shield themselves from the shit storm is someone has a breakdown. We all have had different life experiences and some of us worry more about this than others. I still think it's a good idea to try and get a sense of a person's steadiness before helping have their first mounting.

We can't know for sure, but it's still wise to try and see if we can tell what kind of disposition they have. That's tough through the internet, but I guess that why some veterans recommend more than one in person meeting before agreeing to anything more.
 
I personally don't have a problem with my partners enjoying the company of another. I dealt with jealousy issues a long time ago with my first partner, but I think I got past all of those. I understand that sex and love and not necessarily related and that they can have a good time with someone else and still come back to me with *our* relationship essentially unchanged. Key here is if my partner is interested I claim veto for their health and safety, but otherwise, I let them decide for themselves.
 
egoldstein said:
I personally don't have a problem with my partners enjoying the company of another. I dealt with jealousy issues a long time ago with my first partner, but I think I got past all of those. I understand that sex and love and not necessarily related and that they can have a good time with someone else and still come back to me with *our* relationship essentially unchanged. Key here is if my partner is interested I claim veto for their health and safety, but otherwise, I let them decide for themselves.
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Very mature - not too much of that around anywhere!
 
creaturelover said:
I've dreamt of someone who I'd get to meet would be the conduit to an underground community of zoosexuals and true animal love and stuff, and I've dreamt of having someone with who I have a bond deep enough that hey'd be willing to share with me or vice versa when I own. But it be only a dream, and I must accept the fact that this is very improbable and may never happen, due to both my trust issues and the unlikelihood of there being someone like this

I feel it's a pretty universal wish, to have a sort of mentor, and guide who would lead you to your Eden. Alas, a wish is only a wish, and this be a risky one at that. You can dream what it feels like to be at the summit, but if you want to get there, you better enjoy climbing. And it would be awfully disappointing to climb up, only to discover it wasn't really a mountain in the first place
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I think it just takes some luck and where you look. I've ended up finding some really good zoo friends, albeit live so very far away, but they were trustworthy enough, decent minded and not a-holes and vice versa to me. I put in a lot of work and travel to meet good folks, but my experience has mostly been very positive.

I've tried at least to give good advice and pay it forward to other zoos.
 
I really habe bad experience about it. There are too many people around (male and female)?who claim to be experienced or at least zoo. I had two dates and both where a desaster. To say it exaggerated: one girl didn’t even know where’s the front and the back end of my dog ??‍♂️

sorry to all the nice people around here. Iknow you are somewhere:gsd_wink:
 
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