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Saying goodbye to the lifestyle

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steveyarsenal1

Tourist
Hi everyone
I’m new to this site but was previously in Beast Dating and other sites with my ex girlfriend.

sophie and I were very active in the lifestyle and I was incredibly lucky. She was pretty, intelligent, fun and very sexually liberal.

after what I thought was many happy years she split up with me and is now with someone else (according to Facebook anyway).

does anyone else grieve for being forced to say goodbye to the lifestyle? It would be nice to talk.
I understand Sophie had all the power in that regard but it feels like such an exciting part of my life has been taken away and now I’m just sat wanking to videos and Pat memories.
 
hornedgoat said:
I get what you mean but don't you think you are giving up to easily? you can still meet someone within the community and continue. Don't have to give up just because of a break up.
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Agree with that, your ex is certainly not the only zoogirl who likes to be watched. The way could be hard and long but if you don't even try you can't win.
 
i think there are ways you can practice, but not having someone to confide in sucks.
like with any breakup you feel shitty for a bit and move on.
 
underdoge said:
I suggest you do what you want to do. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to participate or wanting to watch. There is nothing better about being a zoo for you unless you want that. Everyone has different tastes.

I also success you open yourself to experimentation to see what you actually want to do. Perhaps you can find another zoo significant other and this time knowing that your link to the zoo community is perhaps not going to last forever, to can see if you could enjoy something more direct. It's good to pay attention to the emotional aspects of being a zoo because that really adds to the enjoyment and satisfaction. Try just loving a dog a lot. Care about him, what he wants, improving your trust with him, his connection with you. Once you do that pleasing him will be more than just about you and that makes it better for me at least.

Or you can just continue with what you enjoy or allow your ties to the zoo community to break. We still appreciate you for being a supporter of zoos and for learning a lot more about us than most people.
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I agree. You should get a dog and start very slowly. That's where I am. I'm lucky to have re-connected with an old girlfriend who also shares the same wants and desires and we are going slow with our first dog. Right now we're trying to bond and introduce our dog to being cuddled and spoilt a lot, but I'm also taking him to obedience training. No zoo activity yet but ew both want it eventually. So until then we are also just watching videos.
 
why did she leave you? you should probably focus on that so it doesn't happen again. also, consider yourself lucky as from what it sounds like, it was a clean breakaway and she keeps your secret and you keep hers. sounds like she had a whole lot more to lose than you though.

time to find another one. life goes on. maybe take this time off to improve other parts of your life to make you more attractive. they're out there for sure. be safe and be careful! good luck!
 
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