recommendations for first time toys?

[CinderSapForest]

trans-man here:

i have a toy with a knot, but i’ve never been able to get it inside me. i’m not sure if it’s just too thick to cram in so suddenly, or i just need to do some kind of… vaginal stretching? or im not trying hard enough?

is there a small toy that inflates once it’s already inside? are there any recommendations? i’m trying to come up with some way to satisfy the curiosity of what knotting feels like… without actually having an experience with an animal

 

[HorseSoul]

I always recomended play with your fingers, later play with hand and training fisting, can calculate your capacity to use dildos

 

[blijftniksover]

Maybe try to wear a plug some time before you go all the way. It might help.
Or have an orgasm first. The body is often far more relaxed after an orgasm.