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Questions about your experience(s) with heterosexual sex with other humans.
Sex and masturbation;
(How are they or how closely are they related to eachother to you?)
- Do masterbation and sex feel simmilar to you? Are they simmilar activities?
- Does having sex satiated your desire to masterbate?
- If you are horny would you rather have sex, masterbate or have sexual but non intercourse play with an other(s)
Connections/intimacy/intangible factor
- Do you feel like you make a connection with your partner and feel an intamacy that is uniquely different than other connections or intimacy you have with them and others?
- Is there something else that connection and intamacy do not properly discribe that you experience during sex (intangible factor)? if so;
A -what is it? Is it emotional, physical, psychological, a combination (to what degrees/ratio) or something else?
B- Is this the "spark" that people discribe, often when discussing loosing it over a long relationship?
C- Is it important and why/why not?
(Below "It" means connection/intimacy/intangible factor)
- During sex does it remain at the same intensity or change and flow?
- What do you need to do during intercourse to trigger it?
- Who starts it?
- Is it one or a series of spacific physically action one does? Is it like turning a key? -Do both have to coordinate when to make that action? Is it discussed or intuitive?
-Is it something that develop during sex rather than a singular event? -Does it start prior to penetration? if so when? if not is it immediate or does it take time?
-Does it happen with every partner? -Is it unique to each partner or is it the same?
- Could you experience it if you had sex with a stranger (that you find sexually attractive)
-Does it happen everytime?
- Does it stop when intercourse does? Does it return next time you have sex? -Does it start from 0 each time or restart from where you stopped last time?
- Do you experience it during non-intercourse sexual interactions or only during penetration?
- How does the duration of penetration effect it?
- It seems like mood, forplay and feelings before sex have a significant impact on it. If true how so? The type, the intensity, both or in a different way?
- Does/How do your feelings about your partner and your relationship with them impact it?
- Is it different when you are having sex v.s. making love?
Questions for Lindsay
You say that you dont masterbate in part because you are saving it for sex ('it" has a different meaning than in the previous questions, I think)
-What are you saving?!?!
-Is it emotional, physical or both?
-How does masterbation cause you to loose it?
-Is it depleted or gone entirely?
- How long does it take to restore and is there a top limit?
-Do you loose it when you have sex too?
-Why is saving it for sex a good thing?
-Can you do things to make it restore faster?
-Do non intercourse sexual interactions affect it? Positivitly or negatively?
Other questions
- What is your experience of being horny? What satiates it?
- Is there a difference between having sex and making love? If yes, how so?
- If sex is special becuses of the connection or an intangible factor then how does masturbating alone (without someone) effect your want for sex? Does that not make them uniqe and very separate activities that shouldn't be relate to eachother beyond physical similarities and limitations?
Sex and masturbation;
(How are they or how closely are they related to eachother to you?)
- Do masterbation and sex feel simmilar to you? Are they simmilar activities?
- Does having sex satiated your desire to masterbate?
- If you are horny would you rather have sex, masterbate or have sexual but non intercourse play with an other(s)
Connections/intimacy/intangible factor
- Do you feel like you make a connection with your partner and feel an intamacy that is uniquely different than other connections or intimacy you have with them and others?
- Is there something else that connection and intamacy do not properly discribe that you experience during sex (intangible factor)? if so;
A -what is it? Is it emotional, physical, psychological, a combination (to what degrees/ratio) or something else?
B- Is this the "spark" that people discribe, often when discussing loosing it over a long relationship?
C- Is it important and why/why not?
(Below "It" means connection/intimacy/intangible factor)
- During sex does it remain at the same intensity or change and flow?
- What do you need to do during intercourse to trigger it?
- Who starts it?
- Is it one or a series of spacific physically action one does? Is it like turning a key? -Do both have to coordinate when to make that action? Is it discussed or intuitive?
-Is it something that develop during sex rather than a singular event? -Does it start prior to penetration? if so when? if not is it immediate or does it take time?
-Does it happen with every partner? -Is it unique to each partner or is it the same?
- Could you experience it if you had sex with a stranger (that you find sexually attractive)
-Does it happen everytime?
- Does it stop when intercourse does? Does it return next time you have sex? -Does it start from 0 each time or restart from where you stopped last time?
- Do you experience it during non-intercourse sexual interactions or only during penetration?
- How does the duration of penetration effect it?
- It seems like mood, forplay and feelings before sex have a significant impact on it. If true how so? The type, the intensity, both or in a different way?
- Does/How do your feelings about your partner and your relationship with them impact it?
- Is it different when you are having sex v.s. making love?
Questions for Lindsay
You say that you dont masterbate in part because you are saving it for sex ('it" has a different meaning than in the previous questions, I think)
-What are you saving?!?!
-Is it emotional, physical or both?
-How does masterbation cause you to loose it?
-Is it depleted or gone entirely?
- How long does it take to restore and is there a top limit?
-Do you loose it when you have sex too?
-Why is saving it for sex a good thing?
-Can you do things to make it restore faster?
-Do non intercourse sexual interactions affect it? Positivitly or negatively?
Other questions
- What is your experience of being horny? What satiates it?
- Is there a difference between having sex and making love? If yes, how so?
- If sex is special becuses of the connection or an intangible factor then how does masturbating alone (without someone) effect your want for sex? Does that not make them uniqe and very separate activities that shouldn't be relate to eachother beyond physical similarities and limitations?
