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Question to the Zoo-Exclusive people.

Red Zoo

Red Zoo

Zooville Settler
I wanted to ask a question since I joined this site for Zoo-Exclusive, which is about you relationships in general.

I, despite loving animals a lot, still prefer humans generally.

I would say I'm a 40/60 when it comes to relationships with animals and humans

But now, what about you Zoo-Exclusive, would you really not have relationships with people? you really don't feel any attraction to humans... only animals?

Not to sound rude, I'm just really curious about that
 
Red Zoo said:
But now, what about you Zoo-Exclusive, would you really not have relationships with people?
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I do like human company to some extent, we are a social species after all. But I do not find people attractive sexually. I can not love a human the same way I can an animal.
I have seen hundreds of supposedly sexy women or men on here. Yes some of those have aesthetically nice bodies compared to others, but I do not find them sexually attractive.
I have literally no desire to lovingly touch a human of any gender, yet I can imagine myself doing that to many animals including my own dog.
A relationship with human is fine, it is just not going to be love and if it would have to be sexual, it is going to be difficult for me to make myself do it and it will require a lot of imagination.
 
While my friends would be daydreaming about this or another (human) supermodel, I never was able to define what made those people (sexually) attractive. I also never had this image in my head of the perfect girlfriend. It's not that I hate people, but I find it difficult to point out the mutual romantic and sexual attraction. Around people, I always feel as if I have to put up an act, while when I'm with my marefriend I can just be myself.
 
I've never felt sexual attraction for humans, but zoo exclusive life is not perfect. You have to deal with all of your problems alone, your lovers have a shorter lifespan than you and they aren't very good talkers, so, I agree with @pes, I could try starting a relationship with a human, but if it'd happen, it would be only for convenience. And, I dunno if I would be able to have a sexual intercourse with one of them... (Without attraction is kinda difficult to get hard ?)
 
I'm exclusive at the moment for different reasons than some.

I can enjoy being with a woman, and really do, but I need it to be a woman that is ok with who I am, and preferably into canines as well.

I find most humans unreasonably judgy and too worried about stupid things, but also believe there are still good people out there.
 
I've been all my life attracted to women but I don't feel "normal" sexual desire towards them. I mean, I could be happy just holding hands forever ?. Not interested in men at all. But dogs... I fall in love with every male dog I meet, and my body reacts to that feelings accordingly.
 
I find humans... kinda gross, for a multitude of reasons.

I rejected my first chance at losing my virginity at the last minute, because seeing a human's pocket irl really confirmed everything.
Not for me.
I guess i'd do it with the lights off if i was in a relationship that was more than just for sex, for their sake.
 
Red Zoo said:
But now, what about you Zoo-Exclusive, would you really not have relationships with people?
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For me it's a case of been there, done that, a few times. Every single relationship with a human has left me unsatisfied, unfulfilled, and mostly just annoyed.

Red Zoo said:
you really don't feel any attraction to humans... only animals?
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Honestly, no. I have little desire to interact with humans at all anymore, even just curiosity, from the perspective of sex/date/relationship and beyond.

Me and my mates have an unquestioning, loyal, and complete love, that I just never could find in humans.

Of course they are still animals. They still need to be fed, have their shit picked up for them, etc. But the amount of crap I dealt with in people? This is a cake walk.
 
Red Zoo said:
But now, what about you Zoo-Exclusive, would you really not have relationships with people? you really don't feel any attraction to humans... only animals?
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yes, that's exactly how it works. i would of course have normal relationships with people just not romantic or sexual ones. i am not interested in people that way, only animals, and certain species at that.

to further prove this point, when i was in denial about all this, i remember thinking that any kind of human sex, would not have worked unless i pictured a hot animal to get me going, otherwise it could not have happened - unless viagra of course ;)
 
it was a downhill decline. early on i liked girls. then i lost most of my desire for them, then i lost ALL desire for them, then i found this forum and my tiny desire for floofs just exploded. i love hanging out with my few close friends, but if you are going to make this friendship difficult or be a little bitch then i will drop you faster then you realize. my girl is the one true love in my life, and compared to humans it makes the relationship so much more focused on each other. she could help out with chores more often though...
 
Being zoo excluaive does not need to be like being hermit who refuse any human contact. I consider myself zoo exclusive. Still I actually talk to other humans. I can also appreciate them for what they are or do. I like the look of a male human body, but not that of a female human body. Still the usual homosexual deeds are outside my comfort zones. I have met IRL with some few other zoo exclusives. On a tent trek I slept in arm with one of them. I consider this love, or affection, but not sex. I gambled with one of the other zoo exclusives I met. We did not want to put money at stake, so the stake we agreed on (in a reaxed state of mind) was that the looser gave the winner a handjob. When we gambled the next day, the stake was that the looser did the washing up.
 
Red Zoo said:
I wanted to ask a question since I joined this site for Zoo-Exclusive, which is about you relationships in general.

I, despite loving animals a lot, still prefer humans generally.

I would say I'm a 40/60 when it comes to relationships with animals and humans

But now, what about you Zoo-Exclusive, would you really not have relationships with people? you really don't feel any attraction to humans... only animals?

Not to sound rude, I'm just really curious about that
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I tried many times when I was younger to make human relationships work; it would be so much less problematic, but alas, I just don't feel that way about humans. They make great friends, but I have never in my life looked at another human and felt desire. It's not a matter of choice, if it were I'd have settled down with some human and my life would be so much less complicated.

We don't choose what appeals to us, that would seem largely defined by genetics and very early environmental influences. I could as easy make a relationship with a human work as a straight person could make a gay relationship work or a gay person decide to be straight.
 
Red Zoo said:
I wanted to ask a question since I joined this site for Zoo-Exclusive, which is about you relationships in general.

I, despite loving animals a lot, still prefer humans generally.

I would say I'm a 40/60 when it comes to relationships with animals and humans

But now, what about you Zoo-Exclusive, would you really not have relationships with people? you really don't feel any attraction to humans... only animals?

Not to sound rude, I'm just really curious about that
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I tried dating guys after but it just wasnt enough, and its not really the type of thing you brag about
 
I really don't feel attracted to people, I don't want to have sex with them, I can't and I don't want to feel love. It doesn't work. Just as the average person can't fall in love with an animal and not want to have sex with it, it's exactly the same but in reverse.
Obviously, this life has difficulties, quite a lot. However, it also has beauties that only this can provide.
 
If one asks me I often compare it to "normal" people. I ask them to think about how they feel about animals, how they see a dog. You may love them, love to interact with them but you feel no attraction to that body and maybe do not want to be extremely close to them. And now, imagine it being the complete opposite, then you have it. Its just out of spec. There may be a hundred reasons, how this constallation was created but most people, after thinking for a minute will understand it better then. As for me, I feel rather uncomfy with human closeness and the body is more like alien, doesnt look or smell appealing at all.
 
I'm different than a lot of people here. I am zoo exclusive now- I am married to a flaming hot mare that I just can't get enough of. I have, though, for most of my life, not been exclusive. I have been married twice and been in multiple relationships with women that have almost always ended the same way- poorly. Am I attracted to women? Yes. Would I have another relationship with a woman? Likely not, as I don't ever see finding a woman who will accept me for who I am, and I really don't want the games that they usually play. Men? No, not even remotely attracted to men. Horses? Absolutely... they are the sexiest creatures alive - male or female. The mares have my attention though, as I find them to be deeper and more complex creatures than the stallions/geldings, and I love their personalities. I also find them to generally be more affectionate than geldings/stallions, and when they give you their heart they give you their WHOLE heart. Other animals? I like dogs, but don't typically find them sexually attractive. I haven't ruled out other species, but that would be on a case by case basis.
 
I'm an exclusive when it comes to sex. I can't have sex with a human and I am not attracted to human sexually. I've tried it and it doesn't work for me. As for a relationship, that doesn't work for me either. I can't be in a relationship with a human because that's just too complicated. However, I do enjoy hanging out with humans. I have a lot of friends (that obviously don't know about my secret lifestyle.). I have one best friend who is also a zoo exclusive and basically the one person I'm very close too.
 
I go through exclusive phases that tend to be long unless something takes me away from my dog or I didn't have one for a while. I feel like when I'm older I'll be lonelier but for now it just works for me. When I'm in a person relationship I generally prefer guys but a few girls get me going too.
 
pes said:
I do like human company to some extent, we are a social species after all. But I do not find people attractive sexually. I can not love a human the same way I can an animal.
I have seen hundreds of supposedly sexy women or men on here. Yes some of those have aesthetically nice bodies compared to others, but I do not find them sexually attractive.
I have literally no desire to lovingly touch a human of any gender, yet I can imagine myself doing that to many animals including my own dog.
A relationship with human is fine, it is just not going to be love and if it would have to be sexual, it is going to be difficult for me to make myself do it and it will require a lot of imagination.
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This was very honest and transparent, thank you for that
 
So, zero to probably slightly negative sexual attraction to humans. Probably very limited romantic/long term social attraction, but I feel like in both regards I hit the absolute jackpot with my wife. We're both ace now. I was very explicitly clear that I was ace when I met my now wife and she was coming on to me in an aggressive manner. Once I told her she was instantly relieved kind of and super fascinated. She was super understanding and respectful of my feelings and gave me the space to express them, so I was able to impress upon her that I would never feel even slight physical attraction for her or anyone else ever. She was cool with that and dropped it, but we kept hanging out and I somehow fell in love with her. We married with her knowing I'm ace which is true for humans, she doesn't know about my zoo thing but I am working up to telling her. I don't know if love is considered real by most without a physical component, but I really, really feel deep love for her. I think about her all the time, I miss her every day when we're at work, I get so excited to see her, Friday night and Saturday mornings are my favorite because I get to spend them with her, and my goodness... when she gets excited about something which she will because she's so vibrant and full of life... I don't think it's possible for me to feel happier. It's like a drug to see her enthusiasm for stuff. And she's so patient and supportive and just has a beautiful soul. Man. I dunno. If people don't think deep love like that is valid, or it's lesser or something without a physical component. I don't know. I know it is because I'm living it. I'm legitimately so fucking lucky. I cannot believe how lucky I am.

But yeah, I guess there's the rub. She could be a man or a woman, doesn't matter. It is not possible for me to feel physical attraction for her or anyone else. I've really, really tried. Man have I tried. It just doesn't work. I don't dare engage because I know to a certainty I'm going to feel nothing or more likely mild revulsion and it'll end really badly.

And yeah. When I do tell her I'm going to have to figure out what that means. I may decide to not ever engage the zoo thing for real. That's how I've rolled but I admit it is becoming harder. Or she'll leave me and I'll be completely obliterated. If I manage to come out of that then there's absolutely no chance I'd ever be with a human ever again and I'd explore what being exclusive with a dog is all about. Maybe I'd have a close human friend, but nothing like what I have with my wife. I just don't think the things I have with her could exist with anyone else.

Also, yes, I know I am a shitbag for getting married. It was just too amazing and I was selfish. I also thought I could stay legit ace forever at the time, but now I'm less sure.

I also don't know if my experience fits really because I don't have much skin in the game physically speaking, but yeah. There it is.
 
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